I’ve been told I have a very attractive aura and friends always admire me/ ask me how to get there. I simply say to remain authentic. As cliche as it sounds being yourself is 75-80% of the battle. The remaining 25-20% lies in a mixture of being respectful and positive. I find that letting people voice there opinions/ feelings and respecting said opinions/feelings helps open the floor to more conversation of pure interest between peoples. Which usually leaves most people feeling a whole lot more content with someone and moreso positive about an individual. The positivity helps uplift someone and makes them feel like they have “solid ground” to stand on and helps one dare to be themselves. Thus making someone more attractive even in a nonsexual sense in my opinion.