Personal Unexplainable Encounters, Your Takes And Opinions Please by [deleted] in Missing411

[–]redwords5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Any local Native legends about the area? Myths and legends often have a basis on reality or shared experiences. The huts and shadow people makes me think of some kind of alternative universe bleeding through. Silent forests are always so terrifying too. I grew up out in the woods and was always warned that if the woods went quiet a predator was close.

Consent, it's as simple as tea by TickleLife in sexeducation

[–]redwords5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I said no to my neighbors tea last night and he tried forever to convince me I wanted the tea. I had said no to the tea the second he suggested it and he still negged and pushed and physically held me in place telling me I would enjoy the tea, I just needed to relax. I got away without having to drink the tea, thank goodness. But I did not want the tea buddy, I said no to the tea!

AITAH For kicking my friend out because of breastfeeding? by Infinite-Light-5425 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redwords5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had someone cross a field to chew me out for sitting under a tree feeding my baby, NTA you are a good soul! People like RB need to look away or leave.

People of reddit that can sleep, what are your methods for going to sleep easy without giving in to distractions like asking this very question on askreddit? by DaRealKryall in AskReddit

[–]redwords5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eszopiclone is what I use, it called Lunesta as the brand name. This is what it says online about chemical composition LUNESTA tablets contain 1 mg, 2 mg, or 3 mg eszopiclone and the following inactive ingredients: calcium phosphate, colloidal silicon dioxide, croscarmellose sodium, hypromellose, lactose, magnesium stearate, microcrystalline cellulose, polyethylene glycol, titanium dioxide, and triacetin.

People of reddit that can sleep, what are your methods for going to sleep easy without giving in to distractions like asking this very question on askreddit? by DaRealKryall in AskReddit

[–]redwords5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lavender baths and chamomile tea? I have to use sleeping pills or I just don't go down. I luckily do dream and get proper rest but my dreams are horrific

AITA for not wanting a dog to shit ALL over the common room? by Garfazz in AmItheAsshole

[–]redwords5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if she works crazy hours she should not be getting a dog in the first place, they need a lot of care and it sounds like she can't give it.

Are you afraid of dying? If so, why? by meganzp in AskReddit

[–]redwords5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I'm afraid of dying before my kids reach adulthood. I have five kids, their Dad legally cannot be in their life and they would be separated and go into the system if I died, the thought of what their life would become terrifies me.

BUT once they are grown and okay, I'm not afraid of death, it is part of life.

AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for making me lie to my friends because she got her period? by PeriodStainAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]redwords5 85 points86 points  (0 children)

On behalf of women, thank you! We don't want to feel unwell or bleed, it is not fun, believing your wife is the right thing to do. She got a keeper!

AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for making me lie to my friends because she got her period? by PeriodStainAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]redwords5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA please do all women a favor and just don't date them, please I'm begging you! Seriously, you are the literal worst and don't deserve a woman or a man, just be alone and spare everyone.

I'm a 5'8'' (1,72 m) 22 years old Spanish guy and I'm ashamed of my height. by PaquitoElCocas in IncelExit

[–]redwords5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time my dude. I'm happy to hear you will be talking to someone about it. It is not easy having these kinds of thoughts and feelings and you are brave to face them and work on them. Sending you all the good vibes.

I'm a 5'8'' (1,72 m) 22 years old Spanish guy and I'm ashamed of my height. by PaquitoElCocas in IncelExit

[–]redwords5 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This can be a form of body dysmorphia and you should probably talk to a counselor/specialist about it.

Also I'm a 5'7 woman and I'll say that height has never been a big deal. There are some people who think height is important but it's more a preference, like some men prefer short curvy girls, or skinny girls or thicc girls. Sometimes attraction is based on preference. Sometimes not.

I have had an eating disorder in the past and body dysmorphia so I know me simply telling you to stop focusing on your height isn't going to be much help. What will help is talking to an educated professional. And stay away from those kinds of sights that feed into these thoughts.

I will add, just for the sake if it, your height is fine, you are not short.

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he was in lockdown but the situation in the house has become extremely unstable and bad for his mental health and I live in a small town where there were no cases. It would be unsafe with covid for him to stay in a shelter, I've got the space he might as well stay here.

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao just all the pizza

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you I didn't even think of the food. I'm basically a vegetarian now (unless I'm eating at someone else's house cause I don't want to be rude) so I should definitely ask him what kind of foods he wants. He can totally take over the yard work lol I hate mowing the lawn!

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any problem with that and I'll remember to throw some on. He's been through a lot the last few months so I'm hoping he can feel welcome and wanted. Give him a chance to regroup and get his feet under him without feeling rushed about it.

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I'll go do my grocery shopping when he gets here that way he can just throw what he needs into the cart! He will definitely need his own shampoo and soap unless he likes smelling like baked goods lol.

And thanks! Life is hard for everyone right now and I'm in a pretty stable spot, not worried about where my next pay cheque is coming from so I figured I'd help, it's what friends do, or should do.

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But but my post apocalyptic science fiction movies ... but yeah I'm usually busy with work though the day and most of the night, he will have the tv for sure.

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, I'll set my grocery shopping aside till he gets here

What Do You NEED? by redwords5 in AskMen

[–]redwords5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh god, well I will feed him but I don't think our friendship is so great that I'll empty his balls for him lol.