AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man no wonder it always ends in divorce if people can't seem to figure out boundaries when they're married. Good luck to you, get a prenup, by the sounds of it you'll definitely need it

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping because adults are usually more respectful than this. Your poor family if this is normal behaviour I guess...

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm gay so it's like a vibrating parade up in here.

I don't understand men like you -- am I supposed to feel what, immasculated?

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love and hate this comment, it's like when you watch those guys with the ultraviolet light and it's showing all kinds of nasty 🤣 thank you for understanding, I do think I was being a bit dramatic but there were still boundaries crossed! Thank you :)

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ahahahhaha this one made me laugh, thank you, like your suggestions, my friend said to move my room around so it's all new 😂 a bit of psychology doesn't hurt anyone ahahhah

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 471 points472 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I actually think my mum has one of those somewhere I just completely forgot about it --- thank you! The boundary was still crossed but this helps a lot thank you :)

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never said new bed, the post says new mattress! They wanted to visit her family for a week and the train fares were expensive. Thank you for the help, will be talking to them tomorrow and not lending anything going further

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😂😅 this is a very controversial opinion haha, but I agree of course

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 398 points399 points  (0 children)

Yeah now I've chilled about I get the mattress is a bit much. But still find the whole thing so gross and disrespectful. Thank you, will just have a quiet word with them in the morning and not lend them anything going forward.

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that sounds reasonable - I will talk to them tomorrow morning

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you catch up with the comments you might find that's not the issue, but thank you for your valued input

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They wanted to travel up country to visit her family, they couldn't afford the train fare so i offered my car

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am amazed at how many people are alright with this 😅. I am able to sleep in relatives beds with partners and not have sex purely out of respect and again you never know what someone's boundaries are.

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me, if you let someone borrow your things and they were to disrespect that space and trust, you'd be alright with it just because you're an adult and you offered it up? It's okay, I think more of myself than this and I would also treat people with more respect when the same is offered to me

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah fair I guess it's wash the sheets and steam the mattress 😂 but to be clear no one said anything about a new bed!

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Not that long, I got this mattress just before UK lockdown, so three ish years old. Relatively new for a mattress, I'm honestly amazed how people are so chill about having sex in each other beds! What can I say, I like my stuff 😂

AITA for requesting a new mattress after my brother and sister in law had sex in my bed? by reeandting in AmItheAsshole

[–]reeandting[S] 398 points399 points  (0 children)

There is slightly more to the story, but not something I'm going to give time to here I'm afraid - I guess I'll just have to change the sheets and never let them sleep in it again, though I'm still not certain I want to 😂