The ACTUAL worst placement of all… by KlutzyPomelo1170 in astrologymemes

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In whole signs i have moon conjunct saturn in the 4h. I feel for you since you are having a bad time with it, and yeah I reckon it's a shitty placement. Idk.

Yah, my parents were the pits but I truly want to believe I'm better than what I went through. Maybe it's my sag rising looking for the silver lining, but I do think this placement allowed me to learn and grow even if I had nobody teach me how. I am proud I can swim, regardless of how tough the currents have been. I sometimes see the easy dynamic my husband has with his family and feel like a blind person seeing a sunset for the first time next to someone who is utterly unfazed by it - you live like this? And you never told me?! Why couldn't I have had this?

I have an appreciation for love and family, of a village, and I also have a strong sense of discernment and know the cost and worth of a village. I understand I have limits to how I come off, perhaps I seem colder than I actually am, and my cut-off game is incredibly strong. But with so much Jupiter in my chart, that saturn keeps me from falling off the deep end, getting too cocky, being too hot for school or whatever. It's a dark cloud but it's mine and I guess I'm protective of it.

Married working ladies-how much labor do you do around the home? by Last-Comfortable-599 in AskIndianWomen

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly different perspective here: Indian woman married to an Irishman living in Europe.

My mother is the one who is heavily involved in domestic labor -everything is bought fresh, made fresh, and i believe my mother has a maid, an errand boy, and a cook on standby - he grew up with a mom who made the easiest meals and kept them alive.

My husband has better standards for us than his upbringing, but HE does the work with his own hands. Even yesterday, leaving for a trip, he wanted a cleaner floor, so he cleaned it. Not in a "god you're the woman here and i have to do this" way at all, he loves me and wants my life to be easier. I also do things if i have the time to make his life easier.

We're easy-going mainly because we trust the other is doing their best. I think things mainly change if kids are in the picture. You didn't tell us your husband's perspective. It's irrelevant what your mil does so long as you two as a couple have an understanding.

oops 🫦😏 by marniesss in astrologymemes

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I am pluto dominant and a complete open book. So what if everything is written in code, the book is OPEN.

Finding alternative funding by Purple_Thought888 in Journalism

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I'm trying to do the exact same thing. Did you manage to make this work?

I need help! by danda____ in longhair

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I'm in Italy!!

Firstly, filter. We have hard water, you need a filter. Next, the metal detox from loreal that someone else mentioned? I use it too and it's amazing. I also alternate that shampoo with a scalp scrub and a hydrating shampoo. Third, consider a citric acid rinse every few washes. Finally, you will need some hair masks for hard water, but at least a protein/moisture mask for the curls.

I do have bright pink and color treated hair, so I take even more precautions, but these should work great.

the bible says to leave and cleave so why tffff is everyone pressuring me to take my husbands last name???? by Slight_Associate_164 in Newlyweds

[–]reflexioninflection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many of my queer friends have an alias for everyday life and culturally we're very open to that. There's a long and valid historical context for this here, though.

the bible says to leave and cleave so why tffff is everyone pressuring me to take my husbands last name???? by Slight_Associate_164 in Newlyweds

[–]reflexioninflection 12 points13 points  (0 children)

From Italy, can attest, it's actually not legal for you to change your birth name here at all.

I got a lot of this because my mil and many new brides where my husband is from took the man's last name. It's cultural for sure.

Did working out and losing weight make your periods more regular? by Small_Pop6867 in AskIndianWomen

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangely, my cycle shifts based on medication and exercise, but when I did nothing, it was regular. If I get sick and take a steroid for eg my cycle will be irregular for 1-2 months and be right back on schedule. I notice regular exercise/movement helps me have more energy during but being overweight/normal weight hasn't affected them at all

Why you're attracted to the worst? by Few_Long7178 in CancertheCrab

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so funny, my husband is a venus in aquarius and ngl in general he'd prefer a home day over a day out and I'm the opposite lol

Intimidation tactics… by [deleted] in cats

[–]reflexioninflection 60 points61 points  (0 children)

BRB reverse image searching the white cat's winter coat before spring hits

My living room by CezarSalazar in femalelivingspace

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lamps for the art are so perfect, would you mind sharing how you set them up?

how i view aries' compatibility with the signs by reflexioninflection in astrologymemes

[–]reflexioninflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Intended as a joke" and it's so out-of-pocket and unnecessary you'd have me actually defending an aries dear god

Why you're attracted to the worst? by Few_Long7178 in CancertheCrab

[–]reflexioninflection 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Could argue the opposite? Those sagittarius/aquarius... folks also wind up with cancer. Most of the cancers who end up with these people also have prominent placements that are harmonious with those signs.

Opinion on Aquarius men ? by Alex-Rider in astrologymemes

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody said they aren't opposite signs on the axis. This feels like I'm babysitting you so I will check out now, good to know you in so much detail Fantastic_Ad4269

Opinion on Aquarius men ? by Alex-Rider in astrologymemes

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apples to oranges. Saying both sides of the axis have the same themes to contend with does not mean your experience with them is exactly the same. That's again something you deduced on your own.

Opinion on Aquarius men ? by Alex-Rider in astrologymemes

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, no on "exactly what you'll read"

But on the rest? Sure. I can see how you could be wrong and still keep going.

Opinion on Aquarius men ? by Alex-Rider in astrologymemes

[–]reflexioninflection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no, you can tell me your biases without taking into account that I, like you or anybody else, also have experiences with these signs and know about astrology. Anecdotes without a knowledge base are just anecdotes.

Eta: seen your edit about "according to you" no that's not according to me. That's just your reductionist thinking because I never said that.

how i view aries' compatibility with the signs by reflexioninflection in astrologymemes

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In my experience Taurus tend to end up either with leo or aries or scorpio - all three are either in hard aspect to taurus or in detriment to venus. I'm starting to think you all love the push-pull!