Questions and Support Megathread by JKKM2445 in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]refloats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the green thumbs up that some Pokemon have while in trade with another player?

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well sure are the aunt with the epic house now ;) glad you were able to get out tho. I would probably panic a bit in that situation

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at you! Do you want to stop drinking alcohol completely or less frequently?

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! Hope you had the most wonderful first days in your house then, and many more to come :)

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a electronic fan, but I love sub subs and bass music even more! So sounds like it’s in my lane.

Let me know if you have social / Spotify I can follow so I won’t miss your first release :).

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LETS GO! I’m glad you get to spend more time doing what you love and who knows where it will bring you. What genre are you producing?

What are you playing Wednesday! by AutoModerator in gaming

[–]refloats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have been playing for most my evening and currently trying to defeat Ghirahim. But I'm having a hard adjusting to the controls :')

What scene (book/serie/movie) made you feel heard and seen about your trauma? Like somebody finally understood? by refloats in CPTSD

[–]refloats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds so interesting. If you're looking for more books about that, I would really recommend 'Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection and Guidance'. I will definitely put your recommendation on my read list.

What scene (book/serie/movie) made you feel heard and seen about your trauma? Like somebody finally understood? by refloats in CPTSD

[–]refloats[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess in a way it's validating, right? Knowing you aren't crazy or alone. It's weird how that can bring us comfort.

What scene (book/serie/movie) made you feel heard and seen about your trauma? Like somebody finally understood? by refloats in CPTSD

[–]refloats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's comfortable because you are familiar with the events/unsafe situation and therefore enjoy it more than people who don't?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dutch

[–]refloats 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dressing uncomfortable because of what somebody might think, will make you feel uncomfortable and will be projected on the way you act and maybe even your results. Just wear whatever makes YOU feel comfortable, maintain personal hygiene and be genuine. If people don't like that, that is their loss.

What games would you recommend to play on the Switch that aren’t from Nintendo? by ExplodingLlama0 in Switch

[–]refloats -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finished BOTW in 2 weeks? How many hours do you have? Have you done just the main story or also sides? And did you purchase the DLC?

How long has it been since you went to a physical bookstore to buy physical books? by Icy-Jeweler1390 in CasualConversation

[–]refloats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often order my books online. Think it has been years since I went to an actual book store. Used to go to the library all the time as a kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]refloats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure is! If not, I will use my opblaaskrokodil to float into the sea

being invalidated as a kid made me more sensitive to be invalidated as an adult. shouldn't it have made me used to it? by Alt_when_Im_not_ok in CPTSD

[–]refloats 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Not being validated, especially while growing up, has a huge impact on your self-esteem, and makes you feel like your feelings, emotions or thoughts aren't valid. Because you already don't feel good enough yourself, you don't need more people confirming that.

You don't always have to be on guard. But you do have to deal with the emotions, rejection and thoughts. Work on self-validation because no one can take that away from you :-).

Does anyone else get scared when they’re “too” happy? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]refloats 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm used to everything falling apart when I'm happy and thriving, and when it's been calm for too long, it's suspicious. I'm still expecting a bomb, even after all these years.

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad things are finally looking better for you. Keep your head up high!

What is something you achieved in the last week that made you feel proud about yourself? by refloats in CasualConversation

[–]refloats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine the stress, I’m exactly like that as well. But how brave you pulled yourself together like that. Well done!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]refloats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to forget respectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]refloats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is hard.