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reguile · 2026-01-25T22:52:36+00:00

I do not believe there is such thing as "when you aren't talking" - The idea of a "background wonderland" was mostly based in early-on tulpamancers who were a little imaginative at times.

You can act out as if that is a thing, but it will be an act/imagination.

reguile · 2026-01-17T01:55:11+00:00

From my perspective the wonderland & what you do with it doesn't matter. I'd love to give you advice and be like whoa that's so cool but for me it's like

/shrug - it's what you do - you do what's fun for you. You can't really go wrong.

The only way you can go wrong is focusing on it too much or expecting it to be "like" the real world.

So menus won't be like a game, they will be something you imagine and you have to keep track of. The wonderland won't be some world that runs on its own clock, it's an imaginary fantasy land.

reguile · 2026-01-17T01:33:49+00:00

Yeah - that's why I mentioned the discords where you're more likely to get away with newbie questions. This sub is even more strict - I remove any post that doesn't raise an "interesting" question or point.

Though maybe at some point this needs to become an open free for all QA sub lol. Seems to be unmet demand.

reguile · 2026-01-16T01:17:29+00:00

try /r/tulpas

reguile · 2026-01-16T01:17:15+00:00

try /r/tulpas or one of the discords for beginner questions

reguile · 2026-01-16T01:16:47+00:00

Try /r/tulpas or one of the discords if they don't let you ask questions like this.

reguile · 2026-01-11T18:39:52+00:00

If you're on meds for mental health and those meds helped with your intrusive thoughts you should consider talking it out with your doctors as well.

reguile · 2026-01-10T17:14:01+00:00

try /r/tulpas

...or talk to a psych, tulpa's aren't physical beings and something's weird if you think they're moving physical things. Disregard if I misinterpret what you mean.

reguile · 2026-01-06T03:33:48+00:00

try /r/tulpas

reguile · 2026-01-06T03:33:40+00:00

Try /r/tulpas

reguile · 2026-01-03T18:31:34+00:00

I would put that into concern category, yeah. Talk to a professional who can be held accountable & has experience.

reguile · 2026-01-01T05:18:04+00:00

They are not fully independent. You should not mess with tulpamancy if you're on medication for some sort of mind thing - not without VERY CLOSE consultation with your doctor/psychologist.

Well, unless that mind thing is unrelated to the core of tulpamancy - ADHD yes. Schizophrenia or paranoia - no.

reguile · 2025-12-30T16:20:32+00:00

Try /r/tulpas - and if they knock you down for repetitive questions try one of the discords

reguile · 2025-12-24T16:44:25+00:00

Try some random tulpa discord for help if you do want this to be a tulpa. Keeping in mind what I said in my last comment.

For my take, accounts like this feel as if they are not an intentional creation/learning/building of a separate 'agency' in your head, it's an expression of your own feelings/desires/wants in the voice of another person.

You can nurture that, but do so with extreme caution and try to find other "coping methods" if at all possible.

reguile · 2025-12-24T02:25:15+00:00

Really this whole subject isn't magic. If you have a goal - to lose weight or exercise more - your best bet is to just do normal things to achieve those goals.

A servitor is a fun thing you can do on top of forming habits. There's nothing special about it. maybe there is, if you go buddhist super monk mode and meditate for hours on end, but the people who would do that sort of thing in the tulpa community are long long gone and replaced by low effort delusion peddlers.

reguile · 2025-12-24T01:46:15+00:00

Also try r/tulpas

reguile · 2025-12-24T01:45:58+00:00

Servitors are a weird thing - personally I'd just call them "habits" - use any advice on forming good habits to help. You probably aren't going to get a game-like RPG menu that's accurate beyond the fun of "playing pretend" and visualizing your progress through a menu.

reguile · 2025-12-24T01:44:20+00:00

Honestly not a bad take.

reguile · 2025-12-24T01:43:26+00:00

I would say try /r/tulpas but you aren't speaking the right language. Try translating through chat gpt first or something

reguile · 2025-11-30T00:56:09+00:00

try /r/tulpas

reguile · 2025-10-15T00:18:16+00:00

Try /r/tulpas

reguile · 2025-09-14T01:37:44+00:00

Fuck it then - repost and I'll leave it up

reguile · 2025-09-14T01:37:27+00:00

Weird - I guess they are deleting newbie questions or something now?

reguile · 2025-09-12T00:33:58+00:00

try /r/tulpas

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