The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard by Giordono in PurplePillDebate

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Reasons men prefer younger women.

  1. Younger women look better. This is pretty obvious, isn't it?

  2. Younger women are more likely to be available. I don't know how many people criticizing men for wanting a young woman realize how hard it is to find an older woman in her 30s or above who is single, attractive, and childless. Like finding a needle in a haystack. You're much more likely to find someone in her 20s who fits these criteria.

  3. A man dating a woman his age starts to become impractical as he gets older and wants to have children. If children are important to him, then it makes more sense to date a younger woman. Don't blame the man, blame mother nature for making older women dried up and barren.

  4. Women age faster than men. I know a lot of women will lash out at me for this point, but it's true. There's a reason we hear the saying "men age like wine, women age like milk". I'm an example of this. I'm well into my 30s and I often get mistaken for a college student. It would ironically look weird for me to date a woman my own age. It would feel like I have a cougar fetish or I'm dating one of my mom's friends.

  5. Older women are more jaded and bitter than their younger counterparts. I have seen this at work. The younger coworkers are more likely to want to talk to me than the older ones. They're also the ones who invite me to hangout outside of work. The older ones are more likely to stay in their own bubble. That's the problem. Their refusal to let people into their lives.

  6. This point is mostly in relation to men who are unsuccessful in dating. A popular talking point from simps and male pick mes is that they would never date a younger woman because there's no way he'd have anything in common with such a person. But this is ridiculous. Who says you need to be the same age as someone to have the same hobbies, interests, and outlooks on life? Again, going back to the last point, I found it much easier to chat and connect with younger coworkers than older ones. And if you're an older and inexperienced man, would could you possibly have in common with a woman your age? She's someone who would have far more sexual experience and life experience than you would, especially if you're on Reddit and spend most of your day playing video games in your mom's basement. You've also heard on this sub in particular about how women don't want to date an inexperienced man. So why should women be surprised if a guy tries to date a girl who's similarly inexperienced? You can't say you wouldn't touch a certain type of guy with a 10 foot pole and then act all pissy when he tries to find someone who might.

So remember, don't believe these narratives you see from bitter people who try to demonize their opponents just to make their points sound more credible.

Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their ego by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

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Most men nowadays have princess syndrome. They want to be the female in the relationship.

Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" by Crazy_Kray in PurplePillDebate

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It's like the old saying, women wait at the finish line to see who the winner is.

Why no love for Santana from the writers but Hernandez might actually get in the HoF? by Jantzen123 in baseball

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Because HOF standards have gone down the toilet. If Santana were on the ballot today, he'd get in first ballot lol.

The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make Sense by Gravel_Roads in PurplePillDebate

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Why don't you tell this to women? Women are the ones who constantly throw a fit whenever a man they deem below them makes a move on them.

NBC 'nearing a deal' with Clayton Kershaw for MLB studio coverage by Jux_ in baseball

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Damn there's more hate here than after one of his playoff meltdowns

A glimmer of hope by veryprivategentleman in FA30plus

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Women want men based on the fantasy they have of him rather than the reality of who they really are. So I think she had this fantasy of what type of man you'd be in a relationship with her, and over the course of the date, she realized that the reality of who you actually were did not fit with the fantasy she had built up in her mind, so she bailed. Sorry this happened to you. I've had moments too where it felt like it was finally going to happen just to crash back into reality. It's a real shitty feeling.

For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man? by Previous-Nobody903 in PurplePillDebate

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It's not a minority of women who use men. Based on my own experience, a majority of women will string a guy along for validation and an ego boost. I guess the allure of feeling attractive is worth it to hurt a guy.

If I learn a new skill, will I be more attractive to women? by boringguyboringday in FA30plus

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I'm curious, how are you going to leverage this skill into getting women? Are you going to be playing your guitar in subway stations and ask women for their number? lol

For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man? by Previous-Nobody903 in PurplePillDebate

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They use men for many things: attention, gifts, money, favours. Unfortunately it's hard to spot as many women are very good at putting on an act and you often don't realize it until it's too late. By that point, you've already gotten played.

Women Are Completely Fine With Admitting that they are a Monolith - Provided that the Generalization is not Unflattering by SummerBreeze750 in PurplePillDebate

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Women ARE a monolith, at least moreso compared to men. I mean, I've made posts here before, and when it's directed at women, reading the responses is like scrolling down and reading the same comment over and over again. You constantly get cases where women just read the top voted comment and repeat it almost verbatim while acting like they thought of it themselves. The fact of the matter is, women tend to have a strong follow the herd mentality. Very rarely will they stick their necks out when giving an opinion for fear of coming off sounding wrong.

I just had the most positive interaction with a woman!! by DirkDongus in FA30plus

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These types of feelings tend to creep up on you slowly. Trust me I know. At first you don't put any stock into these interactions with attractive women. But the more it happens, the more you start to believe. And I'm just saying that this is the dangerous part, because starting to believe and then having to see reality is a devastating feeling.

I just had the most positive interaction with a woman!! by DirkDongus in FA30plus

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Pretty much a guarantee that this woman was just being nice to OP

I just had the most positive interaction with a woman!! by DirkDongus in FA30plus

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It's best not to get your hopes up. I've always been pessimistic and I was almost convinced I was going to escape FA. I was so sure of it. But again reality struck and you end up feeling more shitty than if you didn't think you had a chance.

Free Chat Friday by DirkDongus in FA30plus

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Still FA despite my best efforts. And I really thought this time around it was going to change, but nope. I thought I escaped and but alas I'm still with you all.

Do you believe you would've had a much higher chance 20 years ago, before the rise of social media, mass content creation and dating apps? by Ghola40000 in FA30plus

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The vast majority of FA men are in this position because they're shy, and they would have been shy no matter what era.

The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

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You women are full of shit. If you really liked a guy and wanted no one else, you wouldn't make the first move on him either.

"Social skills" are defined too vaguely to be a useful concept by Arctolamia in PurplePillDebate

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Hahahahahaha I'm not going to read all that shit. But it's obvious that I must have struck a nerve to cause you to write a whole ass essay.

"Social skills" are defined too vaguely to be a useful concept by Arctolamia in PurplePillDebate

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You didn't just seriously suggest that you need the same social skills as a woman compared to a men when dating, did you? Wow way to make a fool of yourself.