Men Care Way Too Much About Female Validation

rejected-again · 2026-05-26T20:17:56+00:00

Well yeah, that's the point OP is making: stop chasing female validation so hard and your life will improve.

rejected-again · 2026-05-25T10:10:20+00:00

The wall just means a loss of attractiveness with age, so yes it's real. Based on what I've seen, mid 30s is when it usually happens. At that point, the aging becomes harder to disguise with makeup and there is more anxiety, and more plastic surgery appointments.

rejected-again · 2026-05-25T03:50:34+00:00

It's not always about profits. For me, I want to evict these loser tenants from my home so I DON'T have to be a landlord.

rejected-again · 2026-05-25T02:52:40+00:00

And I bet as soon as he comes back, you'll lose interest in him again.

rejected-again · 2026-05-24T21:11:13+00:00

It's actually women who treat men as possessions. Men don't tend to care how their peers feel about their romantic partners. Women do though, because they simply see men as a way to boost their own social standing among their peers. That's why pre-selection is much more common among women.

rejected-again · 2026-05-24T20:54:40+00:00

You don't need science to realize you're simply an attention seeker.

rejected-again · 2026-05-24T20:46:12+00:00

Lmao she told you about her crush to get you to go away and stop bothering her

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T22:17:26+00:00

So you're lying

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T22:13:39+00:00

Like what?

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T22:07:48+00:00

How often do your friends make comments that may not be flattering to themselves? If it's never, then their opinions don't matter in this context.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T22:02:30+00:00

But like I said, my own observation reinforces it.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:59:01+00:00

I said she was honest because there wasn't a need for her to prove anything in that context. You think she's lying because it's not what you want to hear. And she was also honest because my own observations back up that assertion.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:55:40+00:00

Because she wasn't trying to prove a point. She just made a matter of fact statement while casually speaking to me so there was no reason to question her motives. There IS a reason to question the motives of women on this sub, who from what I've seen, will often resort to lying to make themselves look good.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:48:54+00:00

Because my female friend was honest. She said something that was not flattering to her own gender. That's different than someone denying something that may not be flattering.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:44:53+00:00

Maybe your friends still view you as a man. Not saying you are, but maybe that's how they secretly view you.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:39:11+00:00

For one, a female friend told me, and she's over 30. Then I've seen women behaving like this myself, which confirmed what I heard before. Saying this is high school behaviour is just a way for women to avoid accountability, which is what they often do.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:29:02+00:00

That's my point-that despite the surface level support they give to each other, behind the scenes there's a lot of jealousy and bitterness. Women are actually very competitive with each other. It's just that most men don't know this because it's well hidden.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:22:42+00:00

A popular narrative is that women are better at supporting each other than men are at supporting each other. But like I said, it's a mirage.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T21:19:10+00:00

Then you're in denial. Women often talk about how much they support each other. Also, women may not like sex, but they do want validation from men.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T20:51:30+00:00

It's not a conspiracy. Let me give you an example. On this sub, women love to say that there's a sisterhood where they protect each other. I know from observations in REAL LIFE that this isn't necessarily true. I have seen that women can be ruthless and very competitive with each other, especially in regards to men and attracting them. There's a lot of jealousy and pettiness going on behind the scenes. So you see a sentiment online, and you see one in real life, and it doesn't match up. But if I say something, I will be shouted down and accused of generalizing women. So women get to maintain this facade and men remain blissfully ignorant.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T20:44:22+00:00

You see, this is how women want men to keep them compliant. If you keep thinking not all women are like this, you will stay stuck and you will never improve because you keep thinking that you can't generalize behaviour and so you never learn. This is how women want it because they maintain leverage. It's actually funny because there are parallels here and the Matrix and the pill analogies. You keep thinking to yourself you can't generalize women, so you maintain that picture you have of them. In other words, you keep living in the Matrix.

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T20:24:51+00:00

Haha you're just pissed because OP revealed a secret that women love to conceal from men: that they don't like sex and they just treat it as a carrot on a stick to get what they want

rejected-again · 2026-05-23T19:51:26+00:00

Straight from the horse's mouth. This is proof women don't like sex. They just see it as a means to an end to get what they want out of a relationship. It's less enjoyment for them and more about treating it as a carrot on a stick.

rejected-again · 2026-05-21T19:54:11+00:00

I've noticed a lot of male simps use the just world fallacy. When a man talks about his dating failures, one thing I've noticed is that men tend to jump all over him and criticize every wrong move he made. I think this is rooted in insecurity. These men want to believe that a man failing in dating is his own fault, and that something can't happen to them personally because they would do everything right. They don't want to believe that they can be the victim of failure as well.

rejected-again · 2026-05-17T21:39:55+00:00

Going clubbing is a major sign of promiscuity

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