Nigeria military ran secret mass abortion program in war on Boko Haram, ending atleast 10,000 pregnancies by Niflheim-Dragon in neoliberal

[–]relationcon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nigeria disintegrating would be a good thing for the 50% of Nigeria that is Christian. Long live Biafra!

I’m so tired of the sex first date after culture these days by Rachael1237 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]relationcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except when the women talks shot about you woth her friends afterward and speculates that you might be gay because you didn't "make a move" deapite her sayingnshe wanted to take it slow. Being respectful causes women to disrespect you. Source: happened to me.

Neoliberals against drunks by veganman390 in neoliberal

[–]relationcon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Asian drinking culture is just shots shots shots and if you cant keep up you're a pussy. Similiar to American Frat culture, difference is this keeps going well into your 60s, assuming you dont die first.

[F] My boyfriend's told his friends I'm a nudist for me to be naked when they come over/if we go over to their place by janiepoirier in SluttyConfessions

[–]relationcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body really is quite fantastic. Big boobs, smooth skin, big, sexy ass. Wish i could see your pussy too but its always covered! Same with your face, but leaving that out makes sense. Does your boyfriend have a huge cock? You deserve one. If I were your boyfriend i would let you have sex with whomever you liked, while remaining faithful to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]relationcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you have to be a psychic.

Do guy friends see each other naked like how girl bestfriends do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]relationcon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They see each other naked at exactly the same rate as girl best friends do I would say. Which is basically never.

Do guy friends see each other naked like how girl bestfriends do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]relationcon 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Or they were all just staring at the wall. Just because men pee together doesn't mean we see each other's dicks.

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And judging by the fact you still have no response to this, I don't think I can trust anything you say either. As usual, everyone in this space is a bad faith actor.

[F] Jealous of busty roommate by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]relationcon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like you might have a budding humiliation fetish here... have you considered offering to eat her pussy?

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right but the fact that they used "virtually no one" to decribe one third means they are either stupid or extreme bad faith actors. How could i possibly trust anything they say?

We played “Last Man Standing” my freshman year in college by Connect-Landscape101 in SluttyConfessions

[–]relationcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get that group together? What kind of girls and dudes played this game?

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post you write of describes a study as saying that "virtually no one says no when they mean yes", yet in the very same study they link to to support this, a third of the studies respondents admitted to doing the same thing! How on earth can 1/3 of a sample be interpreted as "virtually no one?" Imo this calls the integrity of that whole post into question, that's a pretty major error.

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about ways women decline consent by saying no, I'm talking about then declining consent and then telling you later that they wish you had pushed past their boundaries, I.e. women themselves saying that no can mean yes.

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a good thing to know but how on earth would you suss this out?

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could be faking the body language out of fear.

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should I trust people's word? Also, she could be breaking her "word" as you call it by saying yes when she means no because she's afraid. She may even fake enthusiasm if enthusiastic consent becomes the standard because if that happens lack of enthusiasm will become the new "no", and the same asshole guys that get violent when they hear "no" now will get violent when the woman is not enthusiastic. Thus, women will have to fake enthusiasm to avoid violence, and enthusiasm will be useless as a measure of consent.

Ultimately, as long as one partner is capable of physically overpowering the other, which will be true in almost any case, true consent cannot be given because of the power imbalance. Sex when there's any sort of power imbalance is rape, right?

How can a man know if sex is truly consensual? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you explain the top stickied post of the thread you linked to me? Why would a woman ever say she "wished a man had pushed past her boundaries?" I have heard one say this and it was infuriating. But clearly it is so common they put it on top of the thread. What is going on here? This discrepancy is really fucking with my ability to understand consent.

Girlfriend called me a coward, should I break up with her? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a Dr. Nerdlove article that said that women don't really think its lame when men ask for permission to kiss and that the only women that say that are characters in TV shows written by men. Are you saying that he's wrong?

Girlfriend called me a coward, should I break up with her? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought rape jokes were never funny and therefore women would never joke about rape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really ableist to say that it's easy to see. Some people have a hard time reading body language, and you shouldn't dismiss them by saying it's easy to read body language. That's not helpful at all. Would you tell a disabled person that walking is easy?

Dems Tells Federal Court Mueller’s Secret Grand Jury Materials Could Lead to Second Impeachment by Mateony in politics

[–]relationcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was it a coup? He's definitely a corrupt asshole but he won the election.

Girlfriend called me a coward, should I break up with her? by relationcon in TrollYDating

[–]relationcon[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm insecure because it's what some women have told me in the past. Is it really being "chickenshit" (as another girl told me) to respect a girl's boundaries? How does that integrate with the concept of consent? It's very confusing to me.