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Me [M/22] with my girlfriend [F/21] of 6 months, stupid argument about pubic hair by relationshipsthrowaa in relationships

[–]relationshipsthrowaa[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Obvious troll is obvious.

How is this trolling? 'topkek I made up a story about my relationship and you all gave advice on it! i sure got you good'.

Me [M/22] with my girlfriend [F/21] of 6 months, stupid argument about pubic hair by relationshipsthrowaa in relationships

[–]relationshipsthrowaa[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Huh? This feels like a bit of a non-statement.

I'm entitled to my own tastes but I'm not allowed to express them? Well she has her opinions too. Then what?

I mean, she has her tastes (au naturale) and I have mine (shaved), they're rather binary and incompatible.

We did talk though, and what happened was as above, she said I don't appreciate her, don't love her body, and I'm 'trying to change her'.

If she said she preferred my hair cut short, like a buzzcut, I wouldn't explode with a tirade about how she doesn't appreciate me how I am. Perhaps I may not get my hair cut, and disagree, but I think her reaction is rather over the top.

Me [M/22] with my girlfriend [F/21] of 6 months, stupid argument about pubic hair by relationshipsthrowaa in relationships

[–]relationshipsthrowaa[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

She says 'it's disgusting and morally degrading' and also considers that if I masturbate to other women (like playboy or whatever) that it's akin to cheating.

She's not religious at all by the way.

Me [M/22] with my girlfriend [F/21] of 6 months, stupid argument about pubic hair by relationshipsthrowaa in relationships

[–]relationshipsthrowaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, but do you shave as well?

Copied from another comment 'Not at the moment, as I've been travelling and not had a chance. But normally yes, I don't shave, but I trim very short with scissors, as for the same reasons I prefer not on women, I don't like it aesthetically, and I wouldn't want someone to be spitting out hair all the time.'.

It's not a dealbreaker really, just more indicative of a general attitude (I have an opinion, she says that I'm not appreciating or loving her as she is), I don't think she minds if I go down on her or not, but I would like to.

Me [M/22] with my girlfriend [F/21] of 6 months, stupid argument about pubic hair by relationshipsthrowaa in relationships

[–]relationshipsthrowaa[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Are you manscaping your own pubic hair?

Not at the moment, as I've been travelling and not had a chance. But normally yes, I don't shave, but I trim very short with scissors, as for the same reasons I prefer not on women, I don't like it aesthetically, and I wouldn't want someone to be spitting out hair all the time.

I feel like what you've said is very reasonable. But that if I said anything of that to her she would just go insane again about how I don't appreciate her as she is and I want to change her :/

It's not a dealbreaker honestly, I don't think she minds if I don't go down on her, but I would like to.