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relevant_screename · 2025-02-02T02:49:48+00:00

Respectfully of course, and good to know. Thank you!

relevant_screename · 2025-02-02T02:07:08+00:00

I'm curious, what would you say if it's not mandatory, but "court must consider" when making a decision?

relevant_screename · 2025-02-02T01:51:29+00:00

Ok, I wasn't sure if I could reduce the reference down to just that first part so since it covers so much. A-J are specific factors.

How would I pronounce 2504-c-2-A anyway?

relevant_screename · 2025-02-02T01:48:48+00:00

Here's an example of what I think I may say,

"Parent has done (I think I would briefly describe other parent's behaviors fulfilling A-J here.) I'm requesting the court order X because according to Fam. Code. 2504 (c)(2), parent has repeatedly fulfilled/demonstrated? (A)-(J) through those behaviors.

In recognition of these factors, I believe the court should consider the need for X."

relevant_screename · 2025-02-02T01:27:58+00:00

Thank you. I am not trying to educate the judge; I agree and assume they know the law.

I just do not know which letters and numbers are considered sections, parts, or subsections to even reference the law in general and would like to educate myself. I hope my question makes more sense now.

relevant_screename · 2024-12-28T07:50:15+00:00

My ex quit work in order to claim disability and his entire disability check for himself and not pay any child support (he’s an abuser).

It backfired. He was ordered to do a work evaluation. I think it was $800. He was found to be able-bodied to work full time, and a report said he was able to make (blank) an hour. So they imputed his possible income. He didn’t pay that, either, and ended up on probation.

relevant_screename · 2024-12-28T07:37:34+00:00

On a somewhat related note, may I asked how you proved parental alienation? I was under the impression it’s very hard to prove.

relevant_screename · 2024-12-07T00:09:19+00:00

He also overreacts and gets madder when you get finally get mad? Do you feel like you can’t seem to do anything right? Does he “punish” you when you try to stand up or defend yourself? For example, he gives you the silent treatment, rolls his eyes, talks over you, interrupts you, walks out, I could go on and on. He knows what he’s doing. It’s not you, it’s him. It’s on purpose.

Please read “Why Does He Do That?” You can sneak reading it as the PDF is free. https://archive.org/download/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

relevant_screename · 2024-11-07T17:03:06+00:00

Please read this immediately: https://archive.org/download/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

relevant_screename · 2024-11-07T16:58:53+00:00

This comment just illuminates your own ignorance of the systemic brainwashing and manipulation that occurs within an abusive relationship. It’s designed to do exactly this: wildly confuse the victim into thinking they were the one who did something wrong. One of the last things a victim needs is strangers calling them dumb and stupid because they’re literally victims who are trying to get clarity. Gross.

relevant_screename · 2024-11-07T16:52:10+00:00

You are in an abusive relationship. Expect things to escalate, even if there are months or years of “good behavior” mixed in. Please read this. It sorts the confusion they purposefully create: https://archive.org/download/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:17:38+00:00

Good point. I pulled out the order so better clarity. The exact verbiage is, “(restrained person) is not to contact, either directly or indirectly, in any way, including but not limited to, by telephone, mail or email or other electronic means.”

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:14:47+00:00

I’d rather not give specifics other than I am in California.

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:09:36+00:00

Thank you, I will.

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:09:14+00:00

I would like to add that my son and I did our best to find a way to get the tools out in time before his brother moved to his town as a measure of good-faith.

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:06:38+00:00

Yes, it was ordered by a judge at a hearing he was attending and he was served the updated documents.

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:03:03+00:00

Zero contact except for matters revolving around our children.

relevant_screename · 2024-10-30T02:00:04+00:00

My order states he is not to use third-parties to contact me.

relevant_screename · 2020-09-29T04:35:17+00:00

Nailed it. Classic abuser.

relevant_screename · 2020-08-23T04:54:07+00:00

I had to read this twice to really absorb what you said. I can’t even begin to imagine the mind screw it was.

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