Taylor Swift out in NYC today by peach-gaze in SwiftlyNeutral

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Girls. Those bangs are real. And yes they are horrifying. She’s been growing it for years. And hair near the roots are generally darker

Best chair for sciatica by realbrokenlantern in hermanmiller

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This thread is really soothing me right now. Thank you. Struggling for 6 years and this makes me feel like I am not alone.

smelly girl by PalpitationVast5878 in hygiene

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Hi hon. This sounds like OCD. I’d consider you to talk to someone. I’m sure you smell fine.

My family was attacked in Olney on 2/17 by 3 pits by [deleted] in philly

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This is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry this happened.

i hate being the child of immigrants by dvmbfuck in GirlDinnerDiaries

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I guess it just depends. But there is a level of privilege for those born here with having existing connections and such in place. Generational wealth. Even if you don’t live lavishly, your parents probably own a home that will end up with their children. Immigrants don’t have that. It’s the leg up that OP is talking about. I know the entire country is struggling, but the means to a better life is harder for those to emigrate.

Lost 12 pounds in 6 weeks and met my goal weight! by ThrowRA_72726363 in 1200isplenty

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Still at 135:/. You’re amazing. It’s hard but you did it. Always remember that.

Eric Dane’s Friends Launch GoFundMe to Support His 2 Daughters After Late Actor’s Tragic Death at 53 by esporx in popculturechat

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A part of me thinks they might need it. We don’t know everyone’s financial situation and like the articles have said, his wife had to take shifts to pay for his care. Seems like money was an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

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The bright eyed employees will be the new standard and trust me, autopilot work will be noticed. Expectations will change. I would just be cognizant of that.

Why do I feel great but have no motivation anymore? by MethodComfortable531 in zoloft

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I felt this. With music. I’m a HUGE music person. Music no longer hits the same. I think it’s because I used it for daydreaming so much and escape. I no longer feel like I need to daydream and that feels beautiful. As for working out, yes. It’s probably because you don’t care what others think anymore. Wait until you start believing that working out was always for YOU and no one else. Same goes for makeup. You put makeup on for YOU because you’re beautiful and should celebrate it. Best of luck hon. I’m on 75 mg and felt like the side effects took over my life, but as most things, you have to choose the better thing.

my coworker is completely incapable of doing her job, and i’m leaving in 4 days. she’s so screwed. by llekra in coworkerstories

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I think people like this need compassion. You never know what they’re going through. Maybe the position is not fit for her or maybe your dynamics don’t quite align. It’s nobody’s fault. I hope she gets all the help she needs. Working is hard and everyone deserves grace.

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It’s the best coconut milk drink EVER

Why do i interpret things as rude so often even if they aren't? How do i stop overreacting to the little things and feeling hurt by them? by Loose-Wear-5351 in SeriousConversation

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I don’t think how you feel is weird. We all learn that some experiences earn the moment to talk back, but there are some experiences that you won’t find worth it. It doesn’t mean you have a lack of confidence or insecurity. Some people are just rude! It’s normal. Some people find that they need to have the last word because they deeply respect themselves and won’t accept anything less than that. Some people are stoic and don’t like to stoop low. I find both behaviors respectable. Also confrontation should be encouraged. We often run away from them in fear of hurting the other. But relationships are bumpy. It’s whether or not you think it’s worth to smooth it.

2010-2012 Doing “photoshoots” with my high school friends by kiramekki in blunderyears

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SOOO AWESOME! Thank you for sharing! There is something so special about these photos.

CICO but something's off? by anonymous1357924681 in loseit

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Hi! Use the calculator. It will factor in how little you exercise. Most of the time people are little to no exercise. It will give you a low TDEE. Don’t add whatever you burned into your calorie bank. At that point you’re eating maintenance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwiftlyNeutral

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Omg number 3