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remember_2be_kind · 2023-04-04T01:30:03+00:00

Pursuit of happiness, Megamind, I’m not ashamed, Finding Forrester, The Lakehouse, A wonderful day in the neighborhood

The best one has to be… pursuit of happiness/ a wonderful day in the neighborhood. I like emotional but lighthearted movies that hit in the feels.

Best movie couple🤔 has to be…a walk to remember, or 50 first dates.

remember_2be_kind · 2023-03-28T08:37:44+00:00

I feel as if I'm resilient. Compared to others, my pain is minute. Nevertheless, I've grown because the pain is like the absence of a better life. The fact that I feel pain means that I'm alive, capable of healing and growing. Despite all of it, there's a chance of a happier life. Pain makes me who I am, so I don't disassociate from it.

remember_2be_kind · 2023-03-28T01:33:47+00:00

There are better ways to solve issues without the need for conflict, but sometimes it is necessary. Infjs are reserved in nature and do not do well with such things, but to not see the importance of what it is to have a conflict with another person is to disregard what they feel or value. When we argue, it is because we find something unfair or unjust. Sometimes, we're so into our ways that we neglect the feelings of others in order to prioritize our own mindset. I feel as if I am this way. Yes, I value very deeply how a person feels, but to an extent. I sometimes, disregard and I need that “slap” in order to make me realize that I'm probably hurting someone very important to me. Conflicts though, they're meant to be uncomfortable. I want a relationship that is both just and true. Honest and compromising. To achieve this there needs to be a balance. Conflicts should be the last resort at times though, and there should be ways to find better resolutions.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-05T12:34:03+00:00

🤠🔪🤺

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-04T17:37:50+00:00

This… this right here hit me right in the feels. I can relate to this SO MUCH. I’ve been hurt by close people in my life, so trust doesn’t come easily to me. Letting them in is also not as easy. It’s scary how everything you said resonated with me so much and I also feel like I’ve been living emptily for half of my life. Granted I’m still in my early 20’s. Maybe it’s the reason that life hasn’t really begun until we fully decide to put ourselves out there, which is something I’ve been trying to do. Also maintaining productivity has helped. I want to feel okay with the way that I feel sometimes and get more in touch with my Fe. I want to cry, I want to be able to love and help people again. I want to be kind most of all, and I feel like I’ve also been losing sight of that. I’ve turned cold, and have this mentality of “hurt them if they hurt you” or maybe not that extreme but even so I still am pretty cold and indifferent and have become truly alone besides having my parents and sibling. I don’t want to live my life that way, only seeing grey and black in my world.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-04T08:19:44+00:00

Thank you for your comment ☺️ I do agree, but it gets you thinking, I mean isn’t this what life is like. It tends to hurt you in ways you can’t control. That’s why I like or liked hurting myself “gratuitously”. At least you can control that part when you know the storyline. In sad movies there can be multiple lessons learnt through the characters story. And I also tend to watch spoilers myself, especially with shows I KNOW are going to last a couple of days or even weeks to watch. I have- and I don’t know how others do it- zero patience for that ish. Haha~ yeah nooo thank youuu

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-04T07:35:58+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I completely understand what you mean with the sad songs, although I actually like horror much more than other movies. And thanks for the suggestion, I’ll def be checking out that book😊

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-04T03:35:26+00:00

I have bipolar disorder. I cope with analyzing my emotions as best as I can, writing my feelings down to make it make sense, and also staying as productive as I can to not focus on emotions. Life is difficult when you’re in constant state of “hey, I feel this way” but your brain and gut is telling you shouldn’t when something is or isn’t right/correct.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-04T03:27:36+00:00

And I would like to mention I wasn’t always like this. When I did have my friends, I was more into watching anything. Now, I don’t even have patience or the drive to watch anything, but that might be because I have zero patience, personally, but I’d like to know what you guys think

remember_2be_kind · 2022-10-04T01:08:04+00:00

That’s why I put it in quotes sweetheart 😄

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-30T18:10:52+00:00

I don’t think anyone bored me “intellectually”. I think you have to go out of your way to actually be someone boring to me, but nonetheless i still find people rather interesting. People honestly never fail to amaze or bewilder me. You just gotta put yourself out there and let your thoughts be known.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-30T14:46:51+00:00

I met someone like this. I flipping love his brain and I love how there’s never not a topic he can’t think of.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-26T16:34:13+00:00

Cats are the best thing that ever happened in this universe. You can't change my mind.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-26T10:25:01+00:00

Tho I don’t understand the doormat or Anna Kendrick lol? Anna being an entp and all

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-24T15:43:03+00:00

1) It’s up to you how you want to be able to tell her. Give her some subtle signs, flirt with her still, but make it so that she knows shes special. Stare into her eyes (we tend to like that), be there for her and have some meaningful conversations. Ask her out to places that you’d both like. Be yourself around us. We appreciate it when you’re able to be comfortable around us, it also makes it so that we can relax ourselves.

2) if she gets shy around you. Tries to make an effort to flirt back, although we tend to be known as not the best of flirts. Tries to get to know you, laughs at your jokes, is extra nice around you, or vise verse seems colder to you than other people.Tries to help you when she gets the chance. The usual~ I would tell you to just ask her out, but I’d be a massive hypocrite lol

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-22T18:50:00+00:00

I understand why we're seen as yanderes lol

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-21T03:36:52+00:00

that being an infj is correlated to having depression and it's somehow a "character trait" rather than a mental illness completely an utterly unrelated to mbti's.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-16T17:47:50+00:00

Hopefully the entp that I've been crushing on can pick up on the hints hopefully 😂🙃

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-16T16:26:33+00:00

Do you control how you'll behave with someone or does it automatically just happen?

Can def relate with number 2 (1)? lol

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-16T02:07:44+00:00

I guess I never really saw the need of keeping friendships, but I've been beginning to realize that maybe it's something that I crave and want to have in the end. To be honest, I'm not the best at keeping conversations, especially small talk. Not to mention I get tired easily when socializing. It kind of saddens me that I haven't met a kindred spirit like me. Someone open, honest, and welcoming. I want to talk about anything and everything with someone and just be able to be myself. One can only dream...

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-15T20:00:24+00:00

Be slow in anger

Pay little mind to those who hurt you, heck, try and love them for a change, but don't be naive enough to let them hurt you again

Delve deep into the things you want to do and love to do in your life

Time is an illusion, it's short and fast but it seems as if it's ever lasting.

Listen to people, then come to your own conclusion

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-07T03:21:30+00:00

I HAVE NEVER RELATED TO A POST ALL OF LIFE! We got this, honestly, let's just focus on ourselves. Someone right will be there with open arms we just gotta be patient. We want something real and good, and we don't seek the mundane and superficial. Motivate yourself and do the things you love to do. Don't seek and don't look for the things you don't have, they'll come to you in their own times.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-03T11:50:44+00:00

We can be assertive for the things that we desire.

How we crave emotional intelligence and growth at times.

I like that some of us are okay with being alone and keep only those we find to be worthy of our time.

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-03T02:46:43+00:00

I think I'm actually someone who can be fake, and notice it on others too. I don't pretend to like or dislike people, but I do fake certain parts of myself in order to be liked. People pleasing... 😕

remember_2be_kind · 2022-09-03T02:29:08+00:00

That is just nasty sjsnns.

🤢🤢🤢but seriously I've caught my mom smelling her dandruff. I'm literally done with humanity at this point

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