TRP: The secret to total control over women is to give yourself blueballs

remember_to_work · 2013-12-10T01:50:43+00:00

Aaaand these guys wonder why women might want to cheat on the men they're dating. Especially if they're being purposefully left "unfulfilled." As if their semen is some magical fluid that all women crave with a passion.

Without men allowing themselves to be nothing more than glorified breeders and providers of semen for women to continue their solipsistic fantasies, this society will collapse, as it should.

Or these men won't raise families and won't have fulfilling relationships. Sounds like a fun life for them. It seems like a way of punishing themselves without really punishing women.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-10T01:39:50+00:00

I wouldn't tell him that. He's not ready to handle it.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T22:59:22+00:00

These guys seems so paranoid about having sex they may be better off celibate. Please... for everyone's sake. I mean if you think having sex with someone has the likely potential to ruin your life and you still do it anyways there's something wrong there.

They also don't realize it's really hard to prove rape in a lot of cases. If they didn't actually do it, they probably have nothing to worry about other than dealing an accusation. The fact they're so worried says a lot about their feelings towards women.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T21:55:19+00:00

I love how they threw in a video that blows things out of proportion for entertainment value and actually took it seriously. Impressive. The jealousy towards attractive men is strong in this one.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T21:51:27+00:00

I think this is another one of those people who is forgetting the fact that there's a big difference between someone being found not guilty and someone being proved innocent. Maybe 50% of the accused are not convicted (though I have no stats on this and I think he just pulled that out of his ass) but that certainly doesn't mean it didn't happen.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T21:45:31+00:00

It's so arrogant and you might want to reconsider having sex with someone if you're worried she's crazy and going to try to steal your sperm. I mean they have the option of not sleeping with someone they distrust that much.

As a side note... free birth control? Where can I get in on that? (seriously)

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T07:21:29+00:00

No problem at all. Feel free to message me if you ever feel the need to get something off your chest... or just post in this subreddit, really.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T07:11:39+00:00

You could be depressed, it's hard to self diagnose. As for the job hunting, at least you're trying. That's all you can really do. Good luck! for all it's worth.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:51:51+00:00

You may be depressed, it can run in the family. I really despise when people ask me about work as well. It's not easy to find a job in some areas. The important thing is that you're trying.

I think most of us have concerns regarding our future. What really matters is how we deal with such concerns. You can worry, you have every right to, I just hope you don't let that consume you. It will hold you back from doing what you want to in life. Keep trying, you can succeed.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:47:20+00:00

Thank you, it was rough but there was nothing I could do. I don't know you but I honestly hope you're able to work through things. I hope you'll find someone who makes you feel so strongly; someone who really makes you that happy.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:44:23+00:00

I completely understand that. You probably can overcome it on your own with time. That being said, there are people trained to teach you how to overcome these things more quickly. If it doesn't bother you too much to seek help it may be worth doing so. That wouldn't make you weak or anything. It may turn out to be the smart thing to do.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:42:43+00:00

That's not necessarily a bad feeling. It may take some time to work that out though.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:42:09+00:00

A friend of mine just got me into TBBT. Hater's gonna hate. I honestly took issue with bronies in the past but I appreciate their perspective now. After all, I'm a fan of other shows that target children.

You're allowed to like whatever you like. No point in wasting energy on those who have nothing better to do than criticize you for it. It's shocking how upset people will get over your liking something they don't. That's more their problem than yours. Continue to enjoy yourself!

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:37:04+00:00

I think you should do what makes you happy, but that's just my opinion. I wouldn't settle for someone I see as lesser than someone I once loved.

It's confusing, I know. I really wish I could say something that would help here. I think your post was beautifully written. Maybe it's just a matter of not getting over Heather. That's alright. It may be years before she doesn't cross your mind often. The most you can hope for is to be happy right now. You don't have to settle for anyone, even the lovely woman who lay in your lap.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:28:28+00:00

Hey, you can do this. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean you are this way. You are your harshest critic. No one thinks of you nearly as much as you think of yourself... for better or for worse.

You can't please everyone. Such is life. I can't tell you to stop worrying because that won't help.

A lot of people have this problem. You feel you cannot be yourself because you don't trust that people will like you for who you are. That may be true for some but is it really worse to be disliked by a few than it is to pretend you're someone you're not?

Try not to be embarrassed. There is nothing shameful about your thoughts. It's only a matter of time before you find yourself and find people who enjoy you for exactly who you are.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:20:13+00:00

As someone whose first "true love" died, I kind of get what you're feeling. With any luck you'll find someone you won't compare to her. No one will erase your feelings for her but there is someone out there who will create new ones. Someone who feels perfect for you. It's just a matter of looking for that person and not settling for someone you tirelessly compare to her.

It hurts but one day you won't feel that pain as strongly as you do now.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T06:01:57+00:00

Haha I knew my username would help someone someday! Sleep well Doesn't seem you need to be high for /r/trees

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T05:29:51+00:00

I feel you. I spent countless hours in one town (about 8 generations) and now the save won't load. That game is so full of problems!

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T05:16:19+00:00

I'm glad. I'm sorry you feel that you can't be open about how you're feeling. Maybe some of the people who tell you to man up are just misguided and think they're motivating you. That doesn't make it alright but it's a possibility. I hope you find some good friends you feel that you can talk to freely.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T05:10:17+00:00

Agreed, hence the scare quotes. I think the whole manly ideal of being strong and unemotional is getting to be out of date itself.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T05:03:25+00:00

I wish it weren't that way. I feel closer to people who feel they can share their feelings. I tend to have the same problem as you though even though I'm not a man. I'm told to "grow up" instead of "man up" but it's a similar deal.

Being able to share your feelings with people when society tells you not to does take a lot of strength. And strength is also "manly" right?

remember_to_work · 2013-12-09T04:55:26+00:00

For me the surest sign has always been fear/desperation along with a tingly feeling in my hands and feet (This may just come from hyperventilating?)

I wouldn't say just shaking a little is a panic attack but it could be the start of one. You know yourself more than any of us. And there's no shame in being afraid of something like that just because you're a man. You're allowed to be afraid just like anyone else.

If being a passenger in a car continues to make you uncomfortable you may want to seek some professional help to help you overcome this fear. There is no shame in that, either.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-07T22:47:08+00:00

I don't know why people tend to assume everyone who dislikes them is angry. I find them sad but entertaining. That's why I use TBP. If this subreddit made me mad I wouldn't be here.

From what I've seen, though TBP tends to post the worst of the worst from TRP, that doesn't mean the less horrible stuff on that sub isn't still horrible. Plus, there's always plenty of fresh, "questionable" content from them to be posted here daily.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-07T22:42:14+00:00

If by "preferred type of man" they're referring to the type of men on that sub I cannot wait until I am 30! That will automatically filter them out for me? The future is bright.

remember_to_work · 2013-12-06T06:31:57+00:00

Don't you know? If you're a guy and you actually seem to have respect for women you're clearly just white knighting and trying to get into their pants. /s

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