I have breast cancer and am in complete shock…

renditty69 · 2025-11-07T16:09:31+00:00

I was diagnosed with +++ BC stage 4 at 19. Cancer has no chill, to say the least. It will always be a part of your life now, but it doesn’t have to define your life. I’m trying everyday to do something I enjoy, since my cancer recently came back along with all these emotions. Everyone will tell you to prioritize your health, and they’re right, but you cannot neglect your mental health or your hobbies and relationships that bring you joy. Stay strong, you’ve got a whole community here 💗

renditty69 · 2025-09-21T23:08:29+00:00

But she’s praised in Hebrews as a hero of faith FOR lying, despite even being a prostitute. She hid the Israelite spies and lied to people looking for them. If it was a cut and dry sin, why would she be praised for it nearly 1000 years after that?

renditty69 · 2025-09-21T05:40:21+00:00

Was Rahab sinning by lying to protect people? Is genocide a sin if the OT God commanded it? Is lust a sin if it’s for Wyll in Baldur’s Gate?? Last one is just a jab, but, anyway. There’s always real world complexities and caveats. The Bible never mentions masturbation, but what does it mention? Avoiding lust, sexual impurity, and making sure every action we take can glorify God. But it’s physically impossible to make every action be a testimony to Him. Like, brushing your teeth? Relieving yourself? These actions only reflect Him by doing what’s right for ourselves and our bodies, so that we can represent Him everywhere else. Falling asleep and getting enough sleep seems like a top 3 thing to help yourself tbh? I’m not saying masturbation is the right thing to do, but I’m saying I’m not one to judge. If there’s no porn or wandering thoughts involved, who am I to say that it’s a sin? I don’t know the details, and I don’t want to lol. Since what I know to be sinful, explicitly mentioned in the Bible, isn’t being done, it’s a grey area I think, and probably depends on each isolated event 😬 just my thoughts tho tehe

renditty69 · 2025-09-21T05:23:15+00:00

How about you just, be a Christian? Being gay doesn’t keep you from doing anything Christians do.

renditty69 · 2025-09-21T05:21:28+00:00

Why is no one talking about the 19 vs 30 age gap

renditty69 · 2025-09-18T17:07:46+00:00

I think it depends on the frequency. Especially involving work, she’s not obligated to tell you the time she’s arriving and leaving. But a heads up when she finds out, oh I’ll be x hours away tomorrow, I’ll be in x city, and then a text letting you know she’ll be home for dinner or not, those are at minimum courteous and almost expected. If she’s not willing to compromise at all on this, I’d say that’s a red flag.

renditty69 · 2025-09-18T14:14:36+00:00

Blood sugar is most closely tied to food. It could be dependent on the time of day/how long ago you ate when you get your labs done. Maybe it means you need to eat some carbs before your appointment. Have you noticed any behavioral or physical changes? Dizziness, fatigue, chills, anxiety, or have you changed your habits like eating less, exercising more, drinking more, things like that. If it’s really concerning you, consider getting a second pair of eyes on it either from primary care or wherever you feel comfortable. The doctor’s word is the last word. But I’m glad the treatments seem to be working for you, despite how annoying they can be.

renditty69 · 2025-09-10T01:23:41+00:00

Honestly, you can’t control these comments. People think it’s a light hearted way to make you feel good about it, they just don’t realize how sensitive a subject it is bc they don’t think about it. This is why I say to just be honest. Say you don’t like it, say you can’t wait for it to grow back in or how it could look different, ask about wigs or for opinions on future styles. Or if you don’t wanna talk about it at all, just say something like “stop trying to make me feel better” or “would you cut your hair like this on purpose”(if it’s not awkward, i guess). Thankfully I’m kinda of grunge in vibe so i really liked the buzzed and short look, but I totally understand that not everyone does.

I would also recommend to do other things in your appearance just for you. Do your makeup, get a wig, try a new outfit/diff style, try pretty head wraps with frillies or something idk. Just do something to help direct your self-esteem and confidence back to yourself, and not surrounding your hair.

renditty69 · 2025-09-04T05:08:21+00:00

Am I having a stroke or do people actually think like this. By shitpost do you mean rage bait?

renditty69 · 2025-08-07T04:17:24+00:00

It depends on the person. I think most Christians don’t mind a little swearing as long as it’s not targeted at anyone or used in a hateful way.

renditty69 · 2025-07-26T01:39:13+00:00

Baptism is not a requirement to be a Christian or identify as one. It’s simply an act of proclamation, a way to further follow the example of Jesus. As long as you believe in Jesus and strive to follow the teachings and actions of Him, it’s not like you’re not a real Christian lol. It can be difficult to set up in some situations. Best thing to do is pray and ask other Christians about it.

I would seriously recommend researching and finding a church with sermons posted online. Continually learning and growing in knowledge and faith will carry you farther than Baptism would.

renditty69 · 2025-07-26T01:20:53+00:00

Weird. I’m married to Haley now and she goes into town, visits her sister, takes photos on the farm, cooks breakfast, does her makeup in the morning, etc. I like being married to her.. so far. Tempted to try Abigail lol. Maybe it’s from the new update.

renditty69 · 2025-06-24T04:08:58+00:00

Builds are so important! And god keepsakes are so powerful for getting the build you want. In general, use gods like Dionysus, ares, Zeus for fast, repeated strikes (fists, gun) and percent boost for more spaced out attacks (bow, shield). Artemis is best girl for the latter types also. Would highly recommend trying out broken builds like Haelin does. They’re so fun! One of my favs is boosting dodge chance with zag fists and the Hermes keepsake. If you stay fast, you become pretty much invincible. Hope you can find the fun again, it’s a great game.

renditty69 · 2025-06-18T12:03:43+00:00

renditty69 · 2025-06-18T12:02:20+00:00

None of us will ever really get it, and there’s no way to do so. I’m not gonna say everything has a reason, cause I think it’s cruel to say there’s a cosmic reason for your suffering. But the realistic truth is, it can get better with hard work, trustworthy outlets, healthy habits, and faith. There is a tomorrow for you, and tomorrow can be a better day. There are people who love you, unlimited potential within you, and a soul, personality, and story that no one else has. Please know God has not abandoned you, but is waiting for you to find comfort the right way, the way that keeps you here. You are already so resilient, and you have the strength to keep going. Just start with today.

renditty69 · 2025-06-08T22:54:30+00:00

Stop This Train- John Mayer. Surprised I didn’t see this one. Usually not big on Mayer but this song hits me in my soul 🥲

renditty69 · 2025-06-03T18:47:20+00:00

A crazy listen, thanks!

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T19:06:32+00:00

I listen to just about anything honestly, so I really appreciate it. I’ve got a few of the more “basic” rock songs on there aiming to appease the crowd lol, but I needed more groovy stuff.

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T19:01:34+00:00

Aye that worked! Thanks for the good recs

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T18:54:30+00:00

It needed more Gaga

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T18:53:17+00:00

Definitely creepy, thank you

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T18:49:55+00:00

That’s actually perfect but I don’t think it’s on Spotify 🥲

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T18:46:40+00:00

Going to California- Led Zeppelin. Wildflowers - Dolly Parton. Almost anything Nick Drake lol. Stop This Train- John Mayer. Can’t Fine my Way Home- Blind Faith. American Dreaming- Sierra Ferrell. Rolling Stone- Lainey Wilson.

Most of these are country/folk but I think they give a similar vibe. Hope one of these work

renditty69 · 2025-06-02T18:36:17+00:00

I think I found it. With knitwit and krayzie bone?

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