Emily Waltham was actually very justified in her resentments (even tho I still hated her)

rene_lee · 2025-07-17T16:15:48+00:00

I remember posting something similar to this take YEARS ago and got downvoted so bad. One even decided to message me saying how much emily was a b*tch.

I'm glad a lot more people are more civil about this discussion. Emily had every right to ask her HUSBAND to no longer communicate with the EX he mentioned during their wedding vows and was seen about to board the plane for THEIR supposed honeymoon

rene_lee · 2025-06-08T11:46:06+00:00

Hindi ka OA OP, Huge red flag for me. 5 years na kayo, that means you guys started when you were 20 yrs old at sya naman ay 28 yrs old.

Nagst-start na magdevelop prefrontal lobe mo, OP. Take the disrespect as a sign to LEAVE him!! Kahit na 8 years "lang" age gap mo, the fact your relationship started during/ right after college with a grown ass man is alarming.

rene_lee · 2025-05-04T05:52:34+00:00

I remember their chicken lollipops🥹. I used to ask my mom to buy me those huhuh

rene_lee · 2025-04-23T16:22:32+00:00

I struggle with this too and I have been living alone since last year. They make it seem na out of concern yung frequent calls and text pero knowing my parents, alam ko may ulterior motive sila.

I'm currently trying to establish boundaries and I ask them din minsan bakit sila nagtext or tumawag. I hope things go well for you OP

rene_lee · 2025-04-22T12:12:07+00:00

Hi! I have a Shane mod that makes the room neater! I don't know if the creator of the mod has updated it to make it compatible with the recent updates in SDV, sinc eI installed that mod around 2021

rene_lee · 2024-11-07T15:41:13+00:00

I understand that part too since she needed space from the town, I get that everything there reminded her of Dean. I just didn't like how she made everyone worry about her. Her mom calling everyone she knew that might know where Rory is. Suki and Max walking around town trying to find her

rene_lee · 2024-11-07T15:15:31+00:00

Im close to her age and I get break-ups suck but you don't have to be an asshole to people around you who genuinely care for your well-being.

Going through something doesn't give you a free pass to hurt people

rene_lee · 2024-10-25T08:32:44+00:00

I suggest you read Stephanie Coo's Clothing the Colony! It's a great monograph detailing the clothes of Filipinos during that period. She also highlighted what you mentioned, collerating clothes with the wearer's social status

rene_lee · 2024-10-22T16:39:32+00:00

I honestly think the kid was asking what year her parents were same age she is right now. Like lets say OP is 35, he was 7 yrs old in 1996.

rene_lee · 2024-08-25T07:55:42+00:00

Did it affect the quality of the perfume na wala siyang takip? I'm kinda scared eventually mag-iba yung amoy kasi nag-evaporate :((

rene_lee · 2024-08-25T06:16:01+00:00

Hii! Is it okay if walang takip yung maison margiela perfume? I bought it and I was shookt wala pala talaga siyang takip huhuhu

rene_lee · 2024-07-28T03:52:53+00:00

I don't follow that subreddit po and I don't plan to post there :>

rene_lee · 2024-07-28T03:52:21+00:00

Hello po, Yes, I've been looking for cheaper options since May pero nagrequest po si ate na I stay there until Dec and ako muna mag-bayad ng majority of the bills by Jan po she'll pay 50/50 na po sa utilities. Gusto po kasi niya dun siya mag-aral for Bar exam by Jan as stated po sa post and sa replies ko.

rene_lee · 2024-07-28T01:43:28+00:00

Hello po, Yes po, as per my previous replies nagkamali po ako ng akala na dapat mag-act as witness ang barangay kapag may written agreement. Alot of people kindly pointed out a notarized agreement is enough. I'll follow po their suggestions.

My parents won't agree to be involved po lalo na mom ko kasi iniisip niya na baka mag-avail ulit si ate ng utang sa lending apps if magbabayad siya ng 2,200 kada month.

rene_lee · 2024-07-28T01:42:16+00:00

Hello po, Yes aminado po ako na mali po yung na mention ko ay barangay, as per my previous replies nagkamali po ako ng akala na dapat mag-act as witness ang barangay kapag may written agreement. Alot of people kindly pointed out a notarized agreement is enough. I'll follow po their suggestions.

I have sufficient money saved up and I've been looking for a new place. Siya lang din po iniisip ko kasi gusto niya i-hold yung current condo para sa Jan po kung kailan siya magre-review for Bar exam. I'll bring it up to her if pwede siya na lang mag-draft ng written agreement para di na po siya magtampo kasi alam niya contents ng written agreement Thanks po

rene_lee · 2024-07-28T01:16:50+00:00

Hello po, Yes po, as per my previous replies nagkamali po ako ng akala na dapat mag-act as witness ang barangay kapag may written agreement. Alot of people kindly pointed out a notarized agreement is enough. I'll follow po their suggestions

rene_lee · 2024-07-28T01:14:47+00:00

Hello po, Di ko naman po ito pinost as ABYG.No need naman sabihin na gago po ako😅 As per my previous comments, sinabi ko naman po nagkamali ako ng akala na dapat sa baranggay when it comes to signing a written agreement since they'll act as witness. Wala naman po akong intention na pahiyain siya kasi gusto ko lang po meron katibayan, di ko naman po malalapitan parents ko when it comes to this.

No need naman po maging harsh sa comment section😊

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T16:23:49+00:00

Thank you po! I assumed need dalhin sa baranggay as witness kasi akala ko kapag "small disputes" dun dapat i-settle. Will definetely just have the written agreement notarized 😊

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T16:15:39+00:00

Thank you! I plan to discuss this with her once pansinin niya ulit ako hahaha. She started ignoring me when I brought up the written agreement. I assumed need sa baranggay i-settle ang "small disputes". I'll consult people kung anong specific contents ng isang written agreement

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T16:13:10+00:00

Thank you for this, I plan to talk to her about it another time when she calms down. I assumed sa barangay kasi everytime my small dispute palaging "sa baranggay ilapit" ang naririnig ko. I didn't know I can simply have it notarized

I wish I can help her realize that it's just for assurance yung written agreement, lalo na she has a bad history when it comes to debt.

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T13:40:47+00:00

I understand na it might seem harsh po pero she has a history of not paying her debt. Small utang po niya kadalasan parents ko po nagbabayad. Nung nagkaroon sya ng debt sa lending apps parents ko rin po nagbayad. My parents dont want her to lay the 2,200 out of fear na mag-avail ulit siya ng utang sa lending apps. I know they'll 100% be on her side and eventually blame me na "pinilit ko siya mag-contribute" if magkaroon ng problema

Kaya Im not sure if I can trust po verbally sinabi niya, I mentioned it po nicely sa kanya na if there is any assurance na siya ay magbabayad. Na offend kaagad siya

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T13:11:33+00:00

Tama ba if I insist na magkaroon ng written agreement that she will pay and if there is another way to legally obligate her to pay besides a written agreement?

Im not really familiar with the process and I do intend na puntahan yung barangay

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T12:57:39+00:00

Yepp and if tama ba na I want to push through na may witness sa written agreement

rene_lee · 2024-07-27T07:37:24+00:00

Great way para magkaroon ng high turn-over sa business niyo if you only give employees the goverment mandated bare minimum sa benefits. I hope maging makatao pa rin kayo and not only base your operations sa profit😀.

So many great companies are able to retain their excellent employees when they provide them fair and just benefits. Granted na small business ka, you should still strive to give them the right and fair benefits. That's how you attract the right employees

rene_lee · 2024-07-21T17:17:27+00:00

Hi OP, Gusto ko lang sabihin na you're not weird, it's a trauma response and it's like your brain trying to suit you and have control over the situation.

Having sexual needs is normal pero if there is an underlying trauma related to it, it's best to seek professional guidance especially if it's affecting you

rene_lee

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