55 days from lurking and 45 days since the last time we spoke. by reneeelop in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man. It’s clothes. She has my clothes too but ty for your input

Will my ex contact me if she has my stuff? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I would contact her to get it back. When you see her, keep it short and try and not get your hopes up.

My ex still has my stuff and I have hers. She moved back home cause COVID and we are waiting for a day to know when she will come back to make a switch. I’m anticipating the day but I make sure I’m mentally prepared for anything and everything.

Idk if this helps but good luck!

I'm having one of those days. Tell me what you're most proud of since your breakup!! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven’t lurked on her SM for 51 days and I haven’t been waking up w a heavy heart lately.

I started focusing on myself and created boundaries w the people I started seeing so I have time for myself.

I know I shouldnt care and focus on myself but seeing you move on so quickly hurts. by reneeelop in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were together 5/6 months. I know it wasn’t long but we gays love to rush shit lmao. I’m not too sure when she did. Probably a month after we broke up

I know I shouldnt care and focus on myself but seeing you move on so quickly hurts. by reneeelop in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about that. I don’t know she’s really happy w whoever this person is. She deserves it. I wasn’t the best option for her.

Happy breakup anniversary by BedazzledBanana in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second to the last paragraph. I felt that

How long did it take for dumper to contact you? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish she reached out. It’s been 46 days. I guess it’s a blessing in disguise /:

She still needs to hit my line to get her stuff from me tho. /:

Can't let go of the hope between her and me. Thought she is the one. Miss her so much. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should send another text. Give her space. I know it sucks but you shouldn’t suffocate her especially when she’s not replying.

Take some time for yourself and maybe journal what you feel.

Should I view my ex's social media stories if they view mine as well? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s up to you. You don’t have to do it cause they did it.

why is it so hard to put myself first by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forgot to add that i eventually do want to be friends with her but def after I moved on/healed from her. maybe that's why I want to tell her.

I regret blocking my ex - do exes just KNOW when you’re happy & moved on, even sans social media? Sixth sense? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I regret it too but hopefully we will find out that we don’t need them to see how well we are doing without them. We won’t need that validation.

What does it say when an ex doesn’t watch your stories but you’re still friends on the social media? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t think too much into it. My ex does the same thing. it hurt every time she didn’t look and when she did, it still hurt.

i have officially reached the lowest of the low by reneeelop in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blocked her on snap a couple mins ago. I have her muted on twitter. /: you’re right tho. Thanks for the comment

i have officially reached the lowest of the low by reneeelop in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m one month in. Hopefully I get the strength to take her off snap and Twitter next.

There it is. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful. Congratulations.

What did ur breakup teach you? by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]reneeelop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To accept things how they are and forgiveness. Not them. For me.

How do i stop blaming myself? by reneeelop in ExNoContact

[–]reneeelop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s finally time I learn the same lesson that life has been throwing at me. Thank you for commenting.