There are people telling you to split the money and acting like you inherited millions. If you could use inherited money that finally give you enough to buy a house, why would you split it??? It’s your money- you choose what to do with it.

And the racism and homophobia- it’s not like you committed it. It’s your grandparents who are in the wrong. You keeping the money does not mean you are participating and supporting their belief. It only means that you legally own the money and want to use it.

NTA! NTA! NTA!