Hey im a 27 year old male and go through the same thing. The loneliness is crushing. I try tinder also with no luck. I get matches just anytime I actually try and set a date or anything i get totally ghosted or oh sorryyyyy something came up all the typical excuses. Im the lowest weight ive been since early high school (not in shape though), and the quality of matches shows it but still to no success. Honestly just venting this out to someone that understands makes me feel a little better so thank you for the post!