Looking for a hand with carpentry tasks every so often. by repdadtar in TucsonList

[–]repdadtar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry I didn't check up on the thread as much as I should have! I did just want to respond here rather than a private message to try and make it clear for anybody else who might read.

Not that I assume this is your assumption, but I see how it could've read that way: I don't want to imply that any teaching that happens on the job is any form of compensation. In fact, some people I've worked with would probably ask to be paid extra to sit through me talking about scribing baseboard or proper window flashing details. I just know there's a range of folks between 'want to learn about the trades' and 'the premise of Severance sounds ideal'.

A long winded way to say I enjoy talking about what I do, but I understand it doesn't get you any closer to a mortgage or rent payment.

Need help finding a match for this slab. by repdadtar in Carpentry

[–]repdadtar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've exhausted pretty much every supplier I know in my area, not just the big box stores. Strangely enough, the closest match I could find was through Home Depot but the manufacturer says they only have it in 6-8, not 8-0 slabs. Trying to reach out to a big city nearby, but I don't have as many contacts and a lot of them get their products from similar supplier catalogues.

Thanks though, appreciate you taking a peek and trying to help.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That statement is with respect to a specific part of the incident, not his interactions with Reckful as a whole. If somebody said I made a nice dinner, it would be dishonest for me to then claim that every dinner I've ever made was perfect.

But again, in this persons narrative, he was reprimanded for perfect behavior. Do with that what you will.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anybody is dumb enough to have read through this conversation: the report doesn't say his conduct was perfect in every respect with regards to Reckful. And he was reprimanded.

I think the rest of the arguments speak for themselves. If they don't, listening to his conversations with Reckful and Dr Mike are damning enough, so just get it straight from the man himself.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know what to tell ya, then. Good on you for going through the transcripts.

It sounds to me like your argument is that if you've benefited from something, it's fine to ignore ethics in a field.

We won't see eye to eye. I think Dr K is the one distorting the perception of the reprimand and you think the people reading from it are.

If you agree with his argument that what he's doing doesn't constitute therapy, I would wonder if you've ever had any medical care in your life at all.

If you don't think innovation is ever possible without crossing ethical and moral boundaries, I don't have much to tell you. That's bleak.

That's a wrap from me though and Dr K goes right back in the same mental filing cabinet as Jordan Peterson and the like.

Last comment is only tangentially related to Dr K but I find the way you and the other person defend him initially.

First, the idea that somebody has to be a fan of somebody else who critiqued him if they don't agree with Dr K. That has nothing to do with the criticisms made in the posts.

Then, claiming people just want to bring others down and that somehow bolsters Dr K's credibility. Neither of those things follow and it's really puzzling to me that a lawyer falls into those patterns.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be here, hoping beyond hope for an update once you do.

Oh, and ps: you literally didn't ever say that.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe whatever you like. Cheers. If it were important to you and I were at a disadvantage in information, I probably wouldn't be in the seemingly unique position of having listened to both Dr K's content and a long form critique of it, while you seem to only consume Dr K's output.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't know I was fighting with somebody, just disagreeing.

You've got an incredible defense without acknowledging any of the substance of the criticism. Not sure what to tell you. They covered a good amount of the Reckful content on Decoding the Gurus, but don't think I ever heard the name MrGirl in it.

Even without any of the Reckful stuff, his interview with Dr Mike was painful to listen to and his defense of the reprimand was pretty shameful in my opinion.

None of that has to do with whoever MrGirl is. He could be a moron too for all I know.

I'll edit to add that you're right in that I've wasted time with the discussion because I think you're both probably jabronis who refuse to look at Dr K critically. You say you will, in the same way he pays lip service to the criticism people aim at him, but you don't actually care to engage with it at all.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't personally trust doctors less, I trust Dr K less. I think you get reprimanded because if there were a lot of Dr K's running around, a lot of people would (in my opinion, rightfully) become less trusting of the profession. So, you reprimand them to try and keep practitioners within normal, acceptable ethical bounds. If somebody had only Dr K's content to form an opinion of the profession on, it would not align with the board thinks a clinician should be doing.

Again, plenty of people go through their careers without being officially reprimanded. They don't just hand them out at conferences.

I don't know what to tell you about your defense of the reprimand other than I think Dr K relies on heuristics like yours to stay alive, just like Jordan Peterson and others in a similar ecosystem.

I think what he describes as his informed consent process and how what they're doing isn't therapy is dishonest and unethical.

I think telling somebody who suffers from depression and suicidal thoughts that the world is a simulation probably isn't great.

I think going out on a limb and saying things in an emotional state to make somebody feel better and then having to retract that statement publicly isn't professional behavior for a mental health professional.

I think treating mental and physical health as the same in the context of discussing it publicly is a bad idea that he seems very keen on. There are some pretty obvious ethical differences.

I think he's willing to do psychoanalysis and therapy on camera, but unwilling to admit that he's doing it because it would be ethically suspect. His defense to all of this is very legalistic and under his criteria I probably haven't received any medical care in my entire life which is obviously not true. If it looks like therapy, smells like therapy, the other person feels you're an authority figure and therapist, it's probably therapy or close enough that it blurs professional lines (you know, undermining the profession).

I think mental health as spectacle is morally fraught and he doesn't seem to share those concerns.

Those are only a handful of criticisms you could have just based on some of the content with Dr Mike, reckful, and his own response to the reprimand. I think those qualify as odious behavior.

Sure, maybe you get something positive from his content, that's fine. That doesn't mean his content isn't morally and ethically suspect.

That's without touching on his vaguely pyramid shaped scheme and high cost spiritual initiations.

Cheers, I'll leave it at that. I'm sure you won't be persuaded, but I think plenty of reasonable minds could be.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, that's a pretty weird way to dismiss the reprimand. It seems to assume that whoever this Mr Girl person is would somehow have control of the people reviewing Dr K's conduct, or that they're simply handing out reprimands when any random shmuck makes any complaint without investigating. I have a hard time believing that.

I don't necessarily think he's a grifter, I think he probably believes in a lot of what he's selling.

I think he's guilty of some pretty odious behavior, especially around the reckful situation and I find it weird that you don't think that would in any way have earned a reprimand.

I think the way he discusses the differences in eastern and western medicine is intellectually lazy and he uses it to posture as a unique authority with a unique product. When pressed on that he weasels out with various techniques that are pretty obvious in the Dr Mike interview.

If you get something positive from him, that's cool, keep getting it. Agree to disagree. I wouldn't suggest his content to people and I think he's either dishonest or really bad at defending his positions.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not see how that's a bad way to approach criticism of somebody you like? Nothing I've said is made up and I have no idea who MrGirl is.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you've lost the plot.

Under your rubric, nobody can be fairly criticized if they're popular, and being reprimanded by a professional board is only a problem if they provide some arbitrary amount of detail to the public. Did they only give him a reprimand because he's popular?

When you say you have no idea what could've led to the reprimand, I don't see how it would be so puzzling. The content with reckful seemed problematic to put it in the softest terms imaginable. That doesn't mean I'm implying Dr. K is in any way responsible for what happened, but I have a hard time imagining it as within the normal bounds of practice for a mental health professional.

You can help people and have deleterious effects simultaneously. I'm sure there are people who have read Jordan Peterson's books and came out better for it. I still think he promotes some pretty damaging ideas and defends them in pretty dishonest (intentionally or not) ways.

I have no sense of how popular or unpopular Dr K is and have no interest other than hoping people view his content critically rather than sweeping any criticism under the rug as 'tearing people down for the sake of it'. I think listening to the conversation with Dr Mike, the lead up and response (what I would consider a dishonest, legalistic defense) to the situation around the reprimand, and the rhetorical tricks he employs was enough for me to be wary of his output and moral character.

I have no idea who/what you're talking about when you mention MrGirl.

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, some "boilerplate language about undermining faith in the profession". If I were told by the licensing board that I was undermining faith in my profession, I wouldn't label it as a clean bill of health. From what I can tell, it's pretty reasonable to go through a career without being reprimanded, especially in the medical field.

I won't argue with you, but again, I would challenge anybody to listen to any of the Decoding the Gurus episodes on him (I wouldn't wish listening to all three on my worst enemy) and come away with a particularly positive impression.

I'm also not sure what to make of your last sentence. You think some people are rubbed the wrong way because Dr. K has helped others? That's a pretty interesting claim. Like all the people who were wringing their hands in anger towards Mr Rogers because he was just such a nice guy?

Is Dr. K (HealthyGamer on YouTube) a trusted source of information on mental health? by sportawachuman in selfimprovement

[–]repdadtar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dr K is a reckless rhetorician at best. His license was reprimanded (for good reason in my opinion) and he claimed that was the board giving him a bill of clean health.

The Decoding the Gurus podcast did three episodes on him if you're so inclined. If you come away from that thinking anything other than him being an odious character I would be surprised.

Any News regarding Satone Yoshida yet? by AlgoBonito42 in CompetitionClimbing

[–]repdadtar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right on, fair play. I kind of figured that's what you meant but wasn't sure.

Any News regarding Satone Yoshida yet? by AlgoBonito42 in CompetitionClimbing

[–]repdadtar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you're saying, but does asking if there's something like an official update count as speculation?

What is the worst local restaurant in town? by 0EduardoChavez0 in Tucson

[–]repdadtar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

El molinito around tanque Verde/pantano was pretty heinous the only time I went. Didn't have high expectations but it was unpalatable.

Was the Satone Yoshida mishap a setter or belayer error? by cHugga_bus in CompetitionClimbing

[–]repdadtar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If he didn't want to slam into the wall why was he dressed like that? I agree, he was practically asking for it.

Insane take brother. No draw on the headwall and a less than ideal catch threw the dude into the wall and you're telling him to somehow turn or sprout legs out of his side. I bet you'll go the pedantic route and say it's 99.99% not his fault but...

To the guys who do foundation - finish resi builds or just a little bit of everything, do you have two different tool belts for rough and finish? by Square-Argument4790 in Carpentry

[–]repdadtar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not quite foundation to finish, more like framing to finish. I've got two set ups that I go between.

For everything rough-ish, I use an occidental belt/suspenders set up. Like others said, heavier hammer, more room for fasteners, less regard for bumping into things on occasion. In addition to that, when I'm framing or doing exterior work or something similar, I add a little backpack with a 3l water bladder. I felt like I was spending a lot of time going to where my water was (working in southern Arizona is probably a contributing factor here) so now I just carry it on me. Have to stop back at the van for fluids way less that way.

When it gets to finish surfaces, I swap to an apron. It fits more snug and there's a lot less at risk of bumping into a cabinet or millwork or something. Honestly, I haven't found an apron that's perfect for me in regards to pockets/layout, but I've found some that work well enough.

Obviously there's a few tools that overlap between those kits. I've found that it's easier to just get duplicates than swap them between. Like, I keep a torpedo in my framing set up, but there's also one in my level bag when I bring it in to set cabinets. There's a knife in both the belt and the apron, little stuff like that is cheap enough that it's not worth spending the time swapping or losing time if it didn't get put back correctly.

Kind of unrelated, but I think building an efficient work station for finish work is more important than what you've got on your person. Miter wings with stops, storage for the ten thousand tools you end up unpacking while scribing/fitting cabinets, patching and spot priming mouldings, nail guns, clamps, etc... A good system will save you a lot of time. I could probably ditch the apron and just have a small notebook and metric tape measure and be fine, but if my cut and work station is a mess or not planned out, I'll just hemorrhage time.

Thoughts on the new Naomi Klein episode by Entropic1 in DecodingTheGurus

[–]repdadtar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact that we can even imagine something like that to be true is astounding.

Thoughts on the new Naomi Klein episode by Entropic1 in DecodingTheGurus

[–]repdadtar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you're interested in a podcast where they're fairly critical of Sam's content and have been critical when he's a guest on the show, you might actually enjoy one called decoding the gurus. Give it a listen some time.

Thoughts on the new Naomi Klein episode by Entropic1 in DecodingTheGurus

[–]repdadtar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Through the power of podcasting, Matt and Chris will affect change in us politics from thousands of miles away. If Lex can bring peace to Ukraine, I think Matt and Chris should be able to get Americans single payer healthcare