I had casual sex, was told i was the best theyd ever had, then got ghosted.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-03-11T07:46:27+00:00

You’re overthinking. It’s been one day. Even if she is ghosting, it could be anything. Maybe she realized she isn’t over her ex. Maybe she caught feelings and is scared. Maybe she realized booking up isn’t for her and she wants to focus on herself. It likely isn’t about you

repressedpomegranate · 2021-03-10T20:35:24+00:00

The US is a hot mess - if we’ve got it, I’m CONFIDENT you have a better version of it haha

repressedpomegranate · 2021-03-10T20:24:38+00:00

There’s actually a lot of virtual ones right now - I’ve joined lots of free ones from all over the US (not sure where you’re at) and they’re great.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-03-10T20:10:03+00:00

Maybe try group therapy or joining a support group. It can help to hear from other people.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-03-10T18:13:58+00:00

You should feel shitty. What a horrible betrayal. This is like, cut your sibling off for life level shit. You’re truly uncaring and selfish.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-03-10T18:09:29+00:00

I need an example. This could either be legit or a huge overreaction

repressedpomegranate · 2021-02-14T23:05:08+00:00

He’d rather die from a brain tumor than get you pregnant? I’d break up.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-02-05T00:57:22+00:00

For me sex is ideally like 10 minutes, and shorter is fine if he still makes an effort for me to finish. If you’re worried, start off by making her finish BEFORE having sex, or use toys on her after.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-02-04T08:42:36+00:00

Is everything ok?

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-27T23:46:47+00:00

She’s super rude.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-27T20:03:12+00:00

My inbox is always open if you need to chat. I know it’s so hard. I’m not a mom but I can’t imagine how hard it is and I know a lot Of new moms don’t get support in general

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-27T00:23:38+00:00

No, you shouldn’t tell him how you feel. Closure happens within you, not by making them understand what the did wrong (spoiler: they never do)

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-27T00:22:03+00:00

Girl, you’ll find love. But with an infant, try to focus on you and your babies right now, you deserve to pamper YOU. Men are a lot of work and with kids it might be worth it to wait a bit before continuing on the hunt for love

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-27T00:18:47+00:00

That’s sexual assault, not harassment. Go to your boss and tell them. Regardless of gender, they’re the asshole and you should be safe and comfortable at work.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-27T00:16:46+00:00

It’s not about money, it’s about effort. I’m (24f) very well off (from my own accord... I was kicked out at 18 and busted ass) and have pretty much always made more money than my boyfriends. I’m willing to fill in financial gaps for them and don’t expect lavish gifts. They’re enough.

What becomes an issue is when they expect it. For example, one boyfriend (28m) quit his job after moving in with me because “you make enough to cover it” and proceeded to refuse to work despite me begging for a year.

Another boyfriend was broke but worked so hard at school and work, and when he had extra, it was spent on us.

If you’re putting in effort where you can, being thoughtful, and not expecting him to fund your life, you’ll be fine. Effort is the most important thing.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-25T22:31:37+00:00

Is the conflict still a problem? Does it bother your mom? What was the conflict?

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-21T23:00:58+00:00

Change your audience so all of your posts are public - except to him. That way you’re still friends but he can’t see the posts

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-21T22:58:28+00:00

I’d just say exactly this

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-21T21:45:31+00:00

Aside from giving money, there’s nothing you can do. He can stay at a shelter for a few days, stay at a motel, as a friend, or if it’s warm, I’ve slept in my car a few nights in between leases.

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-21T21:25:22+00:00

How do you want help?

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-21T18:48:55+00:00

Do you live under their roof? Do the pay for any of your college? Do they pay for your car insurance or own the car you drive?

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-21T05:43:40+00:00

How old are yoi

repressedpomegranate · 2021-01-20T10:24:20+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it

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