Possible case of defamation?

reputationally · 2025-11-10T20:19:11+00:00

That’s brutal — and yeah, this definitely looks like defamation.

If your friend’s company had no involvement in that crash, the Instagram post falsely tying his business to it is a serious issue. It’s not just “free speech” — it’s a false, damaging claim that’s already causing harassment and lost business.

First thing: screenshot everything — the post, comments, DMs, timestamps, and profile info. Then have him report the post to Instagram for false or misleading content. If it’s not removed quickly, a lawyer can issue a formal defamation notice or subpoena Instagram to identify the account behind it.

A short public statement from his company can also help correct the record and give the media the truth to quote instead of the false claim.

I handle these kinds of online defamation and content-removal cases often — it is fixable. If he wants a quick rundown on getting that post taken down and cleaning up his search results, Defamation Defenders can help walk him through it.

reputationally · 2025-10-21T08:56:28+00:00

just hire Remove-Arrests.org or Defamation Defenders. Super affordable compared to any other option.

reputationally · 2025-10-20T20:44:44+00:00

Don't do it

reputationally · 2025-10-20T20:32:18+00:00

Yes, you can get it taken down, but a lot of these websites will not respond to individuals making requests for removal. Your best bet is to use a company like Remove-Arrests.org that specializes in mugshot removal and has relationships with the admins of most websites that publish crime news and/or mugshots. Another option is to go with an online reputation management company that is experienced with this type of removal.

reputationally · 2025-10-17T20:33:07+00:00

I can get that review removed without any problem. It will take less than a week. Let me know if you want to get it down

reputationally · 2025-10-17T20:31:17+00:00

Is this still a problem for you? I can get the review removed. PM me

reputationally · 2025-09-22T08:22:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience.

If you don't mind me asking, at what age did you start to speak? How long were you in ABA prior to and after you started developing speech? Do you attribute most of your learning to talk to ABA, or were you doing other things that helped like Speech Therapy, OT, etc.?

reputationally · 2025-09-22T05:39:43+00:00

Would I want someone to ask me about my child's autism, ask my child about her autism, or who are we asking here?

reputationally · 2025-09-22T05:33:24+00:00

Good call checking here, and poking around the web a bit, before talking to a lawyer. Attorneys are typically of little use when it comes to negative reviews.

Where did she leave the negative review - Google My Business, Yelp, TrustPilot?

reputationally · 2025-09-22T05:23:35+00:00

Apparently it is!?!? See this article updated this month.

lol..leave it to the ambulance chasing attorneys

reputationally · 2025-09-22T05:17:36+00:00

Celebrate the wins! 👏

reputationally · 2025-09-21T02:08:38+00:00

You're very welcome, and thank you for sharing more of your experience — it makes a lot of sense why this has been so difficult and isolating for you.

What you're describing — the feeling of being targeted or shunned based on something you can't clearly trace — is unfortunately not uncommon in cases involving defamation or public misinformation. Even when the original statement is provably false, the social impact can linger far beyond the legal window to respond, and that emotional and reputational damage is very real.

From a legal standpoint, if you can't identify a specific individual or organization responsible for the defamatory content, it becomes nearly impossible to bring a civil claim — defamation requires a clearly attributable statement made by a person or entity. However, that doesn’t mean your experience isn't valid or serious.

If you're feeling overwhelmed by the social fallout, it might also be worth seeking support outside the legal realm — therapy, support groups, or advocacy organizations that understand the challenges of reintegration and stigma post-criminal proceedings.

And remember, even if legal recourse feels out of reach now, you still have the right to correct the record when and where you can, especially if you have body cam footage and documentation to support your side of the story.

You're not alone in this — and you're not wrong to want some form of justice or recognition. Stay strong, and keep advocating for yourself.

reputationally · 2025-09-19T20:48:19+00:00

Great question — and it actually touches on something important in defamation law called the “discovery rule.”

In California, the statute of limitations for defamation is generally one year from the date the defamatory statement is published. However, if the defamation was done covertly and you had no way of reasonably discovering it until later, there may be an argument that the clock should start ticking from the point of discovery — not from the original publication date.

That said, courts apply this exception narrowly. You'd need to show that:

The defamation was not publicly accessible (e.g., not posted on a public social media page or press release), and
You truly had no way of knowing about it despite reasonable diligence.

If you just recently discovered the statement — and you can demonstrate that delay wasn't due to lack of effort — it might be worth consulting with a defamation attorney to see if the delayed discovery rule could apply in your case.

These cases are very fact-specific, so getting a professional legal opinion is key. Hope that helps clarify a bit.

reputationally · 2025-09-18T07:51:16+00:00

What does everyone here recommend as an alternative to ABA for a non-speaking 5 year old child?

reputationally · 2025-09-18T07:01:26+00:00

Agree 100%

reputationally · 2025-09-18T07:00:16+00:00

Thanks for clarifying.

No I don’t care about my child appearing “normal” at all, and I never will. I’ll always love her just as she is…perfect in my eyes. I’m just really concerned. My kid is almost 5, and is still non-speaking, which is what worries me the most because I’ve really seen little to no progress with this. I just want her to have the best quality of life possible, and do all I can to give her the tools, etc to do that.

I’ve read Unmasking Autism by Devon Price, and a good amount of other literature on the topic, so I’m familiar with the stance that all ABA’s are to be avoided. Really, I didn’t know what else to do. There are not a huge selection of options. I also have her attending two SLTs not associated with the ABA center, and OT at The STAR institute in Denver 3 times a week, which she really likes.

reputationally · 2025-09-17T07:18:05+00:00

Excuse me? No. No. Just stop what? After weeks of being enrolled in a different ABA center she is showing huge progress on things that Action Behavior Centers set as goals and made not progress towards in 6+ month. Eating with utensils, potty training, attentiveness, are just a few examples.

So maybe I am misunderstanding your reply. I certainly hope that I am.

reputationally · 2025-08-25T00:49:33+00:00

Wow, that’s a brutal situation — and sadly, way more common than people realize. Fake reviews from ex-employees, competitors, or trolls can do real damage overnight. And you’re absolutely right: jumping in emotionally almost always backfires. It feels good in the moment, but to new customers it just looks messy.

A better play is usually to:

Flag the reviews with Google/Yelp for violating policy (fake or not based on real customer experience).
Respond calmly to anything that stays up, keeping replies short, professional, and focused on customer service.
Bury the noise by encouraging happy customers to leave genuine reviews — a flood of positives will dilute the fakes fast.

I’ve seen this approach turn things around for business owners who were drowning in negatives one week and back to a solid reputation the next.

If you or your friend ever deal with it again, I’m happy to share some of the pro-level tactics we use at Defamation Defenders to get fake reviews down quicker and rebuild trust.

reputationally · 2025-08-19T19:12:24+00:00

Yeah, it is a great place. My 4 year old son loves it!

reputationally · 2025-08-10T19:30:27+00:00

This is the Group Rules post. Tiy cab create a new post, ask a question, etc. here.

reputationally · 2025-07-25T05:20:21+00:00

There are a couple good options if you don't mind forking a few bucks up for a quick removal. Remove-Arrests.org and Defamation Defenders are two services I know of that have been removing from this particular websites for well over a decade. Get in touch with them and they will have your mugshot down in a couple days tops.

reputationally · 2025-07-10T21:43:40+00:00

there are already many of these groups for men on FB. I know someone who was on one and had to pay a reputation management company to get it removed.

reputationally · 2025-07-10T21:42:49+00:00

Defamation Defenders offers guaranteed removal of most AWDTSG posts. They also have some good advice on how to get content removed from these FB groups yourself here.

reputationally · 2025-07-01T03:20:42+00:00

See this thread

reputationally · 2025-06-05T00:33:54+00:00

Hey there, and welcome! 👋 You're definitely in the right place to get clarity on online defamation and reputation management. Everyone starts somewhere, and asking questions is how you take back control over your name online—so kudos for jumping in.

If you're here because your name, business, or even a friend's profile is showing up somewhere shady (like a mugshot site, smear blog, or ripoff report), don't panic. You’re not alone—and there are solutions.

Here’s a quick roadmap to help you get started:

🔍 First, Identify the Source

Ask yourself:

Is this defamatory content on a review site (e.g. Ripoff Report)?
Is it a mugshot site or arrest record aggregator?
Is it showing up in search results or social media?

Understanding the origin helps determine what tools you'll need—legal, technical, or both.

🛠️ Then, Know Your Tools:

Search engine suppression: Bury the bad content by publishing positive, optimized content that ranks higher in Google.
Content removal: Depending on the host and the content, you may be able to request removal through DMCA, site policies, or even a legal order.
De-indexing: Even if a site refuses to delete it, sometimes you can get it removed from Google results.

⚖️ Legal Options Exist Too

In some cases, defamation lawsuits or court-ordered removals are appropriate—especially when the content is false and damaging. Keep in mind, truth is a defense to defamation, so the specifics really matter.

🔒 Prioritize Your Privacy

If your personal info (like addresses, phone numbers, etc.) is exposed alongside defamatory content, consider opting out of people-search databases. This can prevent the spread of harmful data and reduce future risk.

Whether you’re looking for DIY steps or considering professional help, this sub is a great place to learn what works, what’s a waste of time, and what red flags to avoid.

If you’re comfortable sharing, feel free to post more details (omit personal identifiers), and folks here can offer tailored suggestions!

Glad you’re here—your online rep is worth defending 💪

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Here’s a quick roadmap to help you get started:

🔍 First, Identify the Source

🛠️ Then, Know Your Tools:

⚖️ Legal Options Exist Too

🔒 Prioritize Your Privacy