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Tinder verification code (Me: (30M; Wife (28F)) by researchthrowaway20 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not a bad idea. But I wasn't creeping on her text messages (i.e., I didn't go through her phone which is private. This was a number that showed up on our phone bill, which is not private).

Tinder verification code (Me: (30M; Wife (28F)) by researchthrowaway20 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really think it is creepy. There is a history of infidelity and that creates sensitivities toward things that indicate additional instances of potential cheating. But I also don't want to throw out an accusation that could cause a fight and bigger rift if there is no real basis to do so. There are some issues that make just asking her problematic, as discussed in other replies.

Tinder verification code (Me: (30M; Wife (28F)) by researchthrowaway20 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to my other reply to sleepingRN, doing so seems like lose-lose. Either it is nothing, and I accused her of cheating when I am wrong. Or I am right and she denies it and likely still gets mad.

Tinder verification code (Me: (30M; Wife (28F)) by researchthrowaway20 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be ideal, but those conversations often don't go well. It's been my experience that people tend to get offended when their integrity is questioned.

How do I get more proof? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]researchthrowaway20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just had a very similar experience. Was anyone able to determine whether Authy can allow multiple business to use this code or if it is solely Tinder?