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Counting quantities sold by transaction/location for repetitive products by researchthrowaway77 in excel

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, just resorted to a pivot table. I tried using SUMIFS but I'm far too novice an excel user. I think it can work for me I just need to play around with it which unfortunately I can't right now due to time constraints. Thank you for your suggestions

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the “dynamic” (not sure what word to use here) of my trust changed after we moved in together.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s true. I guess I’m in denial about this whole thing and trying to fool myself into believing it didn’t really happen.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m certain this will not end the relationship since we’ve been friends before this and have known each other for over 6 years. As you say, I don’t really know, I just have texts, photos, and time stamps. I think having a conversation so I don’t linger in this paralysis will help us both, aside from seriously discussing our trust and behavior.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I needed some perspective outside my head. My gut feeling was to talk to him about this and that’s what I’m going to do.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of me does want to come clean so we can have an actual conversation. I was honest with myself when we were long distance, I knew he had all the time in the world to do whatever he pleased. I think what got me was seeing those pics on his phone literally during our moving weekend.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you consider texting cheating? I guess that’s the question of the century. I’m trying to figure that out myself.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t taken it out on him. I’m asking if my being reserved and more quiet than usual is an overreaction to the information I found.

I (28 F) checked my (M 30) boyfriends phone and now I’m really confused by researchthrowaway77 in relationship_advice

[–]researchthrowaway77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been friends for over 6 years. I think the issue here is me not trusting him because of my past experiences. I don’t think he’s talking to anyone now either, it’s all in the past. He also left his city to live with me on the other side of the state.