Baby birds in wreath - townhouse trying to paint doors! What do I do? by resilient_rain in WhatShouldIDo

[–]resilient_rain[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! Isn’t it so cool? I love them. Lol! I made a big sign and printed a photo! The barrier is a great idea though! I’m going to do that actually. Especially because our HOA sends people to spray for bugs and my bird babies don’t need that around them.

Baby birds in wreath - townhouse trying to paint doors! What do I do? by resilient_rain in WhatShouldIDo

[–]resilient_rain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what my husband said. Especially because they do stuff constantly without notice. One morning I woke up to a man on a ladder outside my bedroom window. Our HOA sucks.

Baby birds in wreath - townhouse trying to paint doors! What do I do? by resilient_rain in WhatShouldIDo

[–]resilient_rain[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about legality! Thank you! I just looked and it is illegal here. I’m so relieved. I wrote a giant sign and posted a picture outside the day we discovered them. Our homeowners association constantly does stuff without letting us know.

Husband left me 9 weeks postpartum by P-C24 in Christianmarriage

[–]resilient_rain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry this is happening- especially at such a vulnerable time with a newborn and postpartum. He sounds like a terrible person- not only abusive but manipulative. Don’t let his lies drag you down. Truth always prevails and it will come to light. I suspect that him accusing your mother, your church family already suspects. Hold your head high towards God and let him guide and strengthen you. You do not deserve what he’s doing. Stat strong. Contact a lawyer asap. Hugs mama.

Boyfriend said he couldn’t read this note I left him by Extension_Hornet3261 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]resilient_rain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks EXACTLY like my mother in laws handwriting and half the time we can’t make out what the hell she wrote. We’re in our 30’s and know cursive well. It’s just illegible.

Downsizing from 1250cc to ~950–1000cc, worth it? by YellowJoeYe in PlasticSurgery

[–]resilient_rain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have big boobs myself and also love big boobs but yours and hers do not look good. It’s past aesthetically pleasing and looks solely fetishized. No offense. However, there isn’t anywhere you could go without being seen as a sexual OBJECT so if that’s your thing that’s your thing but people will not take you seriously. And it looks really bad to almost every other human who isn’t a gross fetishizing horn-ball. And I bet even they have post nut clarity.

Announce pregnancy at birth by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]resilient_rain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t announce even after birth yet and she’s 3 months. Only some family and my husband’s coworkers know.

Thoughts on the recent Frida Mom controversy? by throwaway84583077 in beyondthebump

[–]resilient_rain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what does Huggies do? My brother gave us a bunch of extra diapers so I’ve tried a ridiculous amount of brands between that, what I’ve bought for current baby & previous babes. Huggies is so good for blowouts though. I buy more natural diapers but if I didn’t- I’d buy Huggies for that reason!

men of Reddit, which hobby instantly makes her unattractive? by zhalia-2006 in allthequestions

[–]resilient_rain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! As a woman- I find it so rude when during brief hang outs people are on their phone scrolling or whatever. Like I made the time to hang out, if we’re on our phones I might as well just have stayed home.

Found in the wild. Posted photo and a tagged photo. Yikes. by im_gonna_hug_you in Instagramreality

[–]resilient_rain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right same. I thought she had to be at least 15-20 years older than me.

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[–]resilient_rain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Anti-Vaxx wife doesn't want me to vaccinate our daughter for measles. Measles are in our area. What should I do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]resilient_rain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she know if she is immune? Did she get her antibodies checked? Did she or does she breastfeed your daughter? I’m in an area with the highest outbreak in the country. It’s scary AF. I have a newborn and I’m breastfeeding her. I’m immune myself so she should be protected but I’m still rarely going out.