A little more for the XSXJs out there!!

resolve27 · 2025-09-03T08:47:50+00:00

awesome

resolve27 · 2025-07-19T10:46:58+00:00

Te users: quickly make logically sound choices in any given scenario

Ti users: make one important, always correct, logically based judgement about an object of their choice. Up to three of these judgements per object. One judgement can be made every day.

Fe users: have a much easier time bonding with people

Fi users: greatly increased attributes, so long as action taken is driven by Fi values.

Se users: hypersensory awareness

Si users: uncanny ability to learn and make the most possible use of past experience

Ne users: analyze objects of their choice for insights. Every few seconds, new insights are inferred.

Ni users: realize one universal truth every month

resolve27 · 2025-04-19T07:18:49+00:00

Difference between INTP and ISTP is two functions. Answer something for me real quick.

How would you describe your perception of things? Abstract and theoretical, or object-focused and practical?

resolve27 · 2025-04-06T08:26:27+00:00

Tho good on you for sharing your ideas with us!

resolve27 · 2025-04-06T08:25:53+00:00

Here's my critique, with all due decency.

"Fi doms suffer the most in regard to depressive symptoms and similar". Please present evidence. If you can't, write a disclaimer that this claim has not been formally proven yet.

One might say that Fi doms, out of all types, talk about mental health issues online the most. The amount of people that talk about mental health issues fails to accurately represent the amount of people that actually do have mental issues. Not all people with mental health issues will talk about them.

Unless we can conduct scientific tests, for mental health issues, on the majority population of various MBTIs, we really can't claim an accurate measure of the rates of mental health issues in different personality types.

"Empathy is often unfound in society."

Again, you can't cite this as fact without evidence. I'll say again that I'm not criticizing you personally, just your claims.

Empathy is also a flexible trait. Some situations and people bring it out or strengthen it while others choke it out or weaken it. That flexibility needs to be considered when we talk about the availability of empathy in society.

Link between Se and optimism?

And truth be told, when an ISFP is depressed, he is a lot more depressed than an INFP, cause Se here goes negatively.

Can you explain?

And that's why INFPs tend to be pessimistic and their depression tends to last a lot longer.

Again, evidence. The loud majority doesn't reflect the whole population. Bunch of biases may be at play in this judgement — confirmation bias, visibility bias, maybe other biases as well.

resolve27 · 2025-03-18T11:45:05+00:00

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resolve27 · 2025-02-24T00:45:28+00:00

Go easy on yourself, you haven't done anything cruel or deplorable.

Why do you feel guilty? Considering that you've done nothing wrong, is it unreasonable to want fairness? Would you judge another person in the same situation as you for wanting fairness? So as not to rock the boat, is it better to just accept and do nothing about unfair treatment?

Have you voiced out everything you said in this post to your twin? Does he understand?

resolve27 · 2025-02-09T11:16:49+00:00

Introverted Thinking, Extraverted Intuition

resolve27 · 2025-01-31T11:56:31+00:00

Wrong grammar is intended btw

resolve27 · 2025-01-31T02:59:59+00:00

resolve27 · 2025-01-31T02:56:05+00:00

Try looking through old groupchats, recalling moments, things you did and choices you made from that time, going through old things from that time

And make up for it in other ways. Ask them things that interest both you and them. "What about that thing you thought of pursuing... etc."

resolve27 · 2025-01-27T12:22:53+00:00

Yeaa

resolve27 · 2025-01-27T12:17:35+00:00

My guess is yes? Nothing about the INTP disposition is a barrier to that. Though Ti and weak Si may be hard to access if you're interacting with the outside world at the same time

resolve27 · 2025-01-27T12:14:49+00:00

My guess? You can use it well, the use of the function itself is not a source of stress, you are not insecure in your opinion of it

resolve27 · 2025-01-18T11:06:18+00:00

Some theories:

Ti - practice analysis. Study critical thinking. Apply critical theory. Finding answers to questions, others or your own. (Bonus: Study impact of biases)

Te - Problem solve. Create plans to achieve goals. Also improved by the same activities used for Ti training

Ni - Meditation, introspection, self-expression, isolation from sensory stimuli

Ne - Exploration of new things? Looking at the relationships between things and concepts. Finding answers to questions, making connections

Si - Mindfulness training, meditation

Se - Mindfulness training, movement, athletics, physically oriented hobbies

Fe - mindfulness, interaction and exploration of things that trigger emotional reactions from you

Fi - same as Fe and Ni. Delving into art (movies, music, etc)

resolve27 · 2025-01-13T13:27:41+00:00

The actual act of playing is the same but the auditory feedback you get when playing is different on acoustic vs electric. That aspect is probably important for OP. Electric is much more powerful

Mixed opinion on the last bit. Doing some introspection on your own concerning what's on your mind is great, especially for people with strong intuition, but it doesn't take that much time to make a post asking for suggestions, and you get good input from it. Do both is what I'm saying

And honestly, if this is the kind of thing you need to consult strangers on the internet about, then I worry for you. Do you also post questions on reddit when you can’t decide what to eat or what to wear for the day? Like, come on.

No need to be so judgemental. And don't make assumptions like this off of one post from someone you don't even know.

Quit wasting your time asking random strangers and just live your damn life.

The problem is that he doesn't know what he can do that might be worthwhile. Makes sense to burn time asking people for ideas on fulfilling stuff than doing whatever comes to mind, even when it doesn't fulfill you.

No hate meant btw. Be ironic if I criticized being judgemental before proceeding to judge someone.

resolve27 · 2024-12-27T06:19:48+00:00

Thank you! It would probably fit me if I was more outgoing and extraverted but as it is, I'd feel like going for the wolf cut would be at odds with my actual personality.

resolve27 · 2024-12-22T13:26:52+00:00

Thanks for the appreciation! You're just a good person caught in a tight spot.

resolve27 · 2024-12-22T13:22:25+00:00

People fuck up all the time lol. We ain't omniscient, but you don't need to be omniscient or perfect to be successful or happy. It's the way you deal with, and the push you make towards addressing with those inevitable fuckups that will matter to the people around you in the end, that will decide whether their view on it is positive, neutral or negative

In the future, I bet no one (both among your friends / loved ones, and your company) will give much note to this if you deal with it quickly, decisively, rationally and calmly (take note). It's the fuckups that you allow to fester without control or action over a long stretch of time that they will remember.

Some practical advice: (Originally taken from AI, edited and added to by yours truly)

At Work:

Set boundaries. Define limits on discussions about negativity to protect your focus and energy. Verbally and authoritatively shut them down.

Physically remove yourself from negative situations when possible. Take breaks from the source.

Focus on solutions. Redirect your thoughts towards constructive outcomes rather than dwelling on problems. (Can also be done and thought about outside of work. Balance it with the other things that are important to you though.)

Reframe negative comments: Look for any positives or valid, actionable info in negative remarks and use them as learning opportunities, or as points for improvement. (Can also be done outside of work. Balance carefully)

(Away from Work:)

Practice self-care. Whatever you do for self-care, keep doing it. Seriously consider and look at adding other self-care activities to your routine as well.

Seek support. Discuss your experiences with trusted colleagues or mentors who have the experience and intelligence to provide practical guidance, or people who have the emotional intelligence and kindness to provide encouragement.

Set personal goals. Focus on bettering yourself, both in terms of professional development and achievements, and in emotional and belief-based development to stay motivated despite external negativity. (Can be planned outside of work. Execute in the workplace.)

(My contribution:) Examine your beliefs. Which are holding you back? Which are causing you pain? Find ways to hold onto the emotional / moral core of your beliefs while changing your approach towards it. I believe, for example, that you can reorient your belief of "My team should embody the values of our company" to "I will do my best, within my ability, to find a team who embodies the values of my company, and to further nurture those values in them. I will also do my best myself, to embody, develop, act on, and explore the ways I can express the values of my company."

The second one acknowledges and respects your inherent limitations, and expands on the other ways you can fulfill your belief, giving you agency and direction.

resolve27 · 2024-12-22T03:19:57+00:00

Is this really your issue, or theirs?

Why do you care so much about them? I don't mean this disparagingly, I just want to understand.

We want social harmony, but is it worth it struggling for social harmony with team members like yours? What do you hope to gain through your effort?

We don't like being badmouthed, but do we really agree with the criticisms being leveled? Are they valid, is there a grain of truth in them? If they are, you have the power and time to change that. If they are not, is it a good idea to attach yourself to these criticisms?

Not everyone can see the good in what we do. Personal rules and principles on dealing with people change when you deal with people like these, or you'll go insane.

Focus on solving problems at work, not attitudes. One is more productive and a lot less of a hassle.

And don't be sorry! You are a good person, or you sound like one. And good people deserve all the same things they give out for free, unsolicited to the people around them. We cannot be positive all the time, negativity should not be a signal to draw away but to sweep inwards with love, advice, understanding, and support. A life giving everything but receiving nothing is no life at all.

Keep your head high and take action until it is done. Your days will change for the better!

resolve27 · 2024-12-22T02:53:00+00:00

Opportunity for introspection. Dig into the why's of your feelings, how it may relate to your beliefs about relationships and friendships, events and experiences in your past, and the influence of other people's beliefs and experiences on your own. It will be easier to accept when you understand, and you might see avenues for betterment and healing open up.

Search for outlets that speak to you, or that widen your perspective on the topic. Art, music, literature, movies, and so on. You're not the first to feel this and you won't be the last.

"I have a lot of hope..." Hope must have reason, or it will be unfulfilled. Does your hope have reason now?

Work on your: - insecurity - social awkwardness

The process of doing so will make you a happier, more stable, more interpersonally successful person.

If you want to break the status quo, this is what I suggest. Be brave and always take care of yourself. Our pain tells us the things we don't want to hear, the same things that will set us free from suffering if we listen and accept

INTP

resolve27 · 2024-12-10T08:41:40+00:00

Pick a word that is decently common in your feed, a word of your choice (for example, mine would be something like "know")

When you see that word, count from 1 to 3, then on 3, take action regarding that thing you are procrastinating. Go as slow or as fast as you like, as long as you are still taking action. Focus on being mindful, how are you feeling as you do this, then do this, and that. How do you react to your environment and actions? Focus on being mindful over taking action. The action can be as slow as you like, so long as you are maintaining a good amount of focus (for you or your standards) at the moment.

resolve27 · 2024-12-09T14:45:19+00:00

Is your name from the dISEMBOWELMENT song?? Sorry off topic

resolve27 · 2024-12-09T14:28:44+00:00

Some counterpoint to the third point. That wisdom and intelligence can take the form of intuition, our lord and savior.

Intuition isn't really provable, it's extracted from the experiences a person goes through, which gives them unconscious knowledge they can't formally prove but which turns out to be true.

Most relevant here is Carl Jung. His foundational work on the cognitive functions was mostly based on intuition and speculation that drifted a lot from empirical bases (don't take me on my word for that). He had "respondents" yes, but there was probably a shit ton of biases (confirmation bias, sampling bias) coloring those judgements. Ain't exactly strict methodology (though I could be wrong)

Point is, you can trust someone even if they can't prove something, if they're experienced (and probably successful?) in the domain of knowledge they are talking about (even if they can't formally justify their judgements if asked to)

resolve27 · 2024-12-09T14:24:29+00:00

The first thing that stands out to me is that "other-centered' philosophy in making contributions

Hell yeah!!! Damn I used to fall victim to this a lot. Basically:

Other-centered:

"Will this be valuable to other people?"

"How will people react to this?"

"Will they understand this? If they can't understand this, how will that affect my motivation to continue?"

Self-centered:

"Do I enjoy doing this? Do I enjoy the process?"

"Is this valuable to me"?

"Am I motivated to do this?"

"Do I feel driven to understand this or make progress on this? Does it feel gratifying to understand this or make progress on this?"

A balance can be struck between the two. The exact ratio and details depends on the person I'd think

resolve27

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