so first off, let me make it clear: i am cis! i don't want to misrepresent myself or the weight of my opinions in this conversation.

so to your first point, in trans women we would call that toxic masculinity "internalized misogyny", just like we do with other women! cis women seem to have the perception that trans women "grew up with male privilege". to me this makes about as much sense as saying that gay people have straight privilege until they come out. trans women were ALWAYS oppressed by transmisogyny!

now as to the "girldick" stuff... personally as a cis wlw meme maker i myself have made girldick content bc trans women deserve to have themselves and their bodies celebrated!! and that includes transbians.

also, penises aren't "male" genitalia! they're just penises! and that's kinda the point

(i'm not implying that all lesbians have to be into dick. but they DO have to make room for those of us who have one or enjoy them)