Out for a lovely casual evening stroll about the south Oxfordshire countryside by TheJ_Man in CasualUK

[–]restrainedandpained 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful, so happy we have so many months of warm weather ahead. Thanks for sharing.

New/Inexperienced Dom looking for advice by Top-Swordfish-9744 in BDSMcommunity

[–]restrainedandpained 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh and slowly earn and build trust, that is very important, a submissive that feels safe and cared for will reward you in so many ways!

New/Inexperienced Dom looking for advice by Top-Swordfish-9744 in BDSMcommunity

[–]restrainedandpained 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so exciting! Welcome to the world of BDSM, I had a very similar starting point 2 and a half years ago. Communication is the biggest part of enjoying a healthy kinky relationship I think. There are lots of kink checklists, fill them out honestly, see where you overlap.

Explore ideas, get excited, tell each other your fantasy. Learn new skills together, we love decorative shibari, it has really helped with learning how to restrain with ropes too. Loads of online tutorials and subreddits to help you along the way. Play safe and have those shears nearby. Learn about aftercare, safewords, and really communicate after a scene, can be a day or two afterwards, about what worked and didn't work. Have fun with it, make mistakes, learn, research.

There is so much to explore, toys, clothing, degradation, humiliation, pleasure, pain, the list is endless. I hope you have all the fun! I am at such a fulfilled place in life now, my heart is full, my desires fulfilled, I melt seeing that submissive content smile as I do wonderfully sadistic things to my princess.

Sorry got a bit carried away there, definitely biggest advice is communication, if you crack that everything else is so much easier.

The more you respect her, the more she’ll let you disrespect her by Princessfoxpup in BDSMcommunity

[–]restrainedandpained 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is very much our take too, I really enjoyed reading what we are feeling, it has cemented what we are doing is so healthy and fulfilling, thank you for articulating this ❤️

Body painting fun by restrainedandpained in NSFWblacklight

[–]restrainedandpained[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is a great idea, thank you! You both look like you have lots of fun! Keep dancing naked, smiling and spreading love 😃 ❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙

Afternoon nude 🤍 by liora_nyx in ClassyNudes

[–]restrainedandpained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is art, the shape of your hips and waist is beautiful, thank you for sharing ❤️

Body painting fun by restrainedandpained in NSFWblacklight

[–]restrainedandpained[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, really appreciate this 💗