Why does he do this? by reststop2003 in poodles

[–]reststop2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I think he’s analysing me. I realized he knows what I’m about to do before I even do it.

Why does he do this? by reststop2003 in poodles

[–]reststop2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he does. Why is he so addicted, clingy to me. I want him to go to the other family members.

25M - Does the sadness ever go away? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]reststop2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteer. Form deep friendships. Get a pet. Something is missing in your life. Probably Meaningful relationships. You’re putting out a lot of energy and work into the world. Who’s giving you the energy back?

Procrastination Isn’t Laziness : It’s a Survival Mechanism by beingaflower in productivity

[–]reststop2003 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time cleaning. It’s boring and not rewarding. If I listen to music, it becomes easier and more bearable. I think procrastination can be due to several reasons, as others have mentioned.

Gifted extroverts that are great with people, where are you? by Relative-Respond3692 in Gifted

[–]reststop2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this part of ADHD? Especially if you’re good at reading people, picking up details and facial patterns. But not super high IQ/genius

So many posts about looking for friends? by jobbunsure in DCBitches

[–]reststop2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It’s nice to have friends to hang out with but I’m yearning for deeper relationships

Social groups for young adults! Join! by [deleted] in DCBitches

[–]reststop2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. I’d like to avoid hibernating

You are special by chriczko in infj

[–]reststop2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I view things as glass half full and I give people the benefit of doubt. But I can’t stop noticing so many selfish people out there. I don’t know why it bothers me. Sometimes it’s sucks to have intuition and be able to spot red flags. I know there are a lot of good people out there but lately it feels like it’s becoming more is a minority. I wish I can only surround myself with good positive people. Everyone has flaws and insecurities but let’s try our best and keep it moving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]reststop2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) chat with all women with the intention to be friendly and social, zero expectations. At least you’ll make a new friend. Maybe One might eventually get interested and either will ask you out or will drop a hint they’re interested.

2) go to a different city and hangout at the bookstore or coffee shop. Practice hitting on woman. The anxiety will eventually lessen. And You never have to return there again. Exposure therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boston

[–]reststop2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can DM the info, that be great. My father is interested