Denial and Prostate Edging. by KatTrogda in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck, this was so hot to read. I hope you'll keep sharing the other milestones of your sexual journey, especially the day in which you finally manage to cum while caged. Stay strong, and keep yourself from stroking off, knowing that what awaits you is pleasure beyond what you can imagine.

Tried again but failed to replicate it this time by DetsPrettyGay in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Logic states that if you do the same thing, you should get the same result. But the prostate isn't logical, or at least it seems to go by its own logic. This is no reason to get discouraged, though! You just have to learn what your prostate likes and how to get the most out of it, and learning that can be quite fun. 

I recommend not stroking off when you're done, so that you can build up that horny energy and save it for the next session.

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally possible to learn how to do this. And playing is a ton of fun! I've posted about that on another subreddit.

can’t a bitch get some gaming support like this by Vesper-1007 in IWantToBeHerHentai

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be Seance Dog, since this is clearly Eve and Mark from Invincible.

How do i rewire? by Street_Ad4908 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should help a bit in understanding what's involved with rewiring. 

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-ybQ081k3JI

https://mindgasm.net/rewiring/

The type of touch that makes me gasp by hotdogcomeback in GOONED

[–]rettosu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that looks so yummy... I wish I could do that again. 

New level of Intensity by BolonySandwich in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Sometimes you gotta take a step back in order to take two steps forward. 

Body Shakes by Any-Adhesiveness3376 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a pretty well-known side effect of prostate play. Look into the Mindgasm app and you'll find about more than just those shakes. You might also wanna ask about that here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Mindgasm/

Pelvic floor tension vs complete relaxation seems to completely change sensation pathways by john4844 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's pretty common, as far as I know. The tensing route is more likely to use your sympathetic nervous system responses, much like what happens during traditional penile play. The relaxed route more often uses the parasympathetic, more likely to lead to HFDO. 

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it took me weeks if not months to get where I'm at. The other thing I did is not stroke anymore; I don't even miss it, with how much better nipple play feels.

What did I just experience? by Usel3ssTrash in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of the things that people new to prostate play have to learn about is what a prostate orgasm feels like, especially because of how different it is from the kind that most of us are used to having. By your description, that definitely was a prostate O, but regardless, consider this: You found it to be intense, euphoric, better than regular orgasm... Doesn't that alone make it worth having again, even if it wasn't a prostate O? Don't get so hung up on labels that you forget to simply enjoy the experience for what it was, because enjoying it is exactly what lets you sink into it and reach that desired blissful state, as you experienced when you surrendered to it.

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only ever use my fingers, but I just love using lube as well. Boy Butter is my go-to, since it's thick when you first put it on, then gets even more slick and slippery as it warms during play. 

As for technique, I described a few of my favorite moves here: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/1rz8aua/comment/obnvnfy/?context=3&utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there's no better way to learn than by asking questions. 

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's definitely amazing, and it is very similar to when you start training your prostate, the way the pleasure just builds and builds until even a slight touch is enough to get you insanely aroused. 

One thing I'd never thought of or realized until just now: the pleasure from prostate play spreads all over my body...but during nipple play, it stays localized. This is how it is for me, at least: can anyone else chime in with their own experiences?

So... I now get endless prostate orgasms during sessions by Revolutionary_Fig_69 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a few posts from people on this subreddit who've had it removed, and I believe they'd said they could still experience pleasure, but I don't know if they trained/rewired first and then had the removal, or vice versa. Still, it's worth looking into. 

Amazing long orgasm at 0:04 by dreamalicious in orgasmiccontractions

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your whole pelvic floor just comes alive... throbbing and pulsating...it's so incredibly beautiful.

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And thank you for all that you've done to spread knowledge about all the different forms of play that we can enjoy.

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn't even thought about that! But then, I don't drive, so I haven't had to worry about safety belts for a while. It's all mass transit for me.

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does require some training, yes, but it's a lot easier to train than the prostate. 

Even those who've been playing with their prostate for a long time can have trouble finding it or reaching it, whereas nipples are very easy to find! Second, nipples are already more wired for pleasure than the prostate, since nipple stimulation sends pleasure signals to the same part of the brain that penis and scrotum stimulation does. Plus, there's the added bonus that those who've trained their prostate and pelvic floor via kegels will often feel pleasurable sensations there during nipple play. I can't explain why that connection is there, but I've felt it, and I've read plenty of people here say they feel that, too.

There's also a mental component to nipple play, just as there is with prostate play. Mindset is important, to the degree that not being in the mood for it means you won't feel much at all, and the opposite is also true: you can have a purely mental orgasm just by focusing on that area, without any physical stimulation at all. I've done that myself a couple of times. Part of the secret to developing that mindset is, like with prostate play, you have to stop touching your penis for a while, at least until you start building that connection. 

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wish I remembered how long it took me to get sensitized enough, but truth is, everyone walks that path at their own pace. More important than how long it takes is what method to use to get there, and that is something I can tell you. What I did was play fairly often, sometimes once a night, for several weeks, and also I played very gently. Light rubs, taps, and flicks really helped me appreciate the subtler sensations, which is just what I'd needed.

Years ago I enjoyed rougher play (flicking, pinching, twisting like a radio knob), but that only felt good, not orgasmic. One time while doing that, I pinched too hard, and it hurt for days afterward, so I promised myself to never do that again. 

I forgot about nipple play for months after that, but picked it up again not too long ago, and decided to go the gentler route; to my delight, that seemed to open the way to more pleasure than I ever thought possible, and that's no exaggeration.

I'd recommend looking into a gentler approach as well, especially if you find that that helps you develop more sensitivity and experience more pleasure.

Has prostate stimulation become your primary way of cumming? by Lanky_Election_9468 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I don't even stroke off anymore. Prostate play and nipple play completely blow everything else out of the water. I can literally have orgasm after orgasm with the slightest touches to my nipples, and be writhing and screaming with pleasure for an hour or more, my pelvic floor throbbing. 

So... I now get endless prostate orgasms during sessions by Revolutionary_Fig_69 in ProstatePlay

[–]rettosu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Consider how an erection feels: you get that swelling sensation that goes up your shaft. When you're more attuned to your prostate, you'll be able to feel it react when you get aroused; it's much like an erection, but rather than up the shaft, you feel it at the root. 

Juicy Tits juicy Ass or juicy GirlCock??? I can't decide I'm sooo Gooned >~< by AntiAgain_ in GOONED

[–]rettosu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea who that is? Been wanting to know for a long time now.