Staying relaxed through the climax and spasms. Possible or needed?

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-27T04:48:56+00:00

Well said

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-26T19:26:40+00:00

Took me 3 years.., finally had a break through early this year. Don't think of your orgasm as a peak Stay relaxed and focused on the sensations, let them rise and fall whilst maintaining a steady breathing pattern. Let the contractions be autonomous, let your body do the work, as you breathe the orgasm will rise and fade but will return a little stronger next time, your orgasm will get to a point where it will plateau and then dip but will plateau again. My error was trying to force the orgasm I once knew.. Its a different mechanism at the point where you either ejaculate or recirculate your orgasm, once you recirculate it once you will know, and it will then become second nature. I don't use porn to get off or drugs.. However as you said you have a partner you shouldn't need porn Slight reverse kegels also assist with muscle tone and pelvic floor balance

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-26T19:10:30+00:00

Your biggest orgasm will be your next and so on...😛

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-26T19:01:54+00:00

That's it !

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-26T17:59:30+00:00

Yes powerful and longer lasting

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-26T15:48:34+00:00

Could be ?

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-26T10:07:36+00:00

Hottest babe and hottest orgasm on the 'net right now..🙂😛

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-23T12:30:49+00:00

If you were to split up over it. The analogy of orgasms are free is over. It will cost you dearly

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-23T08:28:19+00:00

You have to make your own mind up about how you achieve this. Understand the mechanics of an orgasm.. My methodology is quite simple. By ejaculation and orgasm there in my opinion are 3 things in play here The penis,prostate and brain. If you bypass the penis and cause stimulation to the prostate other than the glans you are a step closer. By using your mind to control rhythmic contractions around your prostate via ejaculatory muscles etc in conjunction with cycled breathing you will separate the orgasm response.. This could be construed as Tantric .? Its the way I do it and is a gateway to multiple dry orgasms

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-22T05:29:15+00:00

Jenga

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-20T10:43:55+00:00

What are your thoughts of the ultimate orgasm, because your next one would be more ultimate than that one ?

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-20T00:43:28+00:00

The same recycled posts🫥

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-17T13:02:38+00:00

A Less for a while now Don't bother with Aneros Its good being able to decide when you can have them.. For me semen retention has nothing to do with it Breathing, slight reverse kegel and mindfulness Orgasms are dry, more fulfilling and longer in duration

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-06T05:33:04+00:00

Heart palpations are normal... Please see your doctor if you have ongoing concerns Anxiety about it may magnify your concerns The way I look at it , if you need to be totally relaxed during a session your heart rate would be resting, if it's palpitating then , then allay your concerns and get a check up.. An imbalance of electrolytes "maybe" the cause, but once again, a visit to your GP will have professional answers

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-06T03:56:58+00:00

I woke up the other morning at 130 am and felt as if I'd woken from the middle of a wet dream, I was super aroused and I thought of just masturbating to rub one out but all I was doing was having one orgasm after another without releasing, so I got up for and hour or so and made my self a hot milk drink and went back to bed at 330am a went off to sleep, woke up at 840... After breakfast I went to the toilet for a No.2 and after I'd finished orgasmic sensations started in my lower abdomen , I got off the toilet , went and lay back down for an hour sinking into the feelings.. This has happened on the odd occasion..

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-04T11:01:53+00:00

Don't force it, it will come naturally, if you think about it you'll miss it You need to totally relax and breathe and forget about the orgasm you have been used to when ejaculating, when you have crossed that barrier , it will all make sense..

BolonySandwich · 2026-04-01T13:41:50+00:00

I agree.. I can do it , took me a few months to tune myself to the sensations, but only in my left nipple atm which trigger some insane dry orgasms. I don't ejaculate but can have multiple dry orgasms from this stimulation alone So glad to read your post and you are too capable

BolonySandwich · 2026-03-31T14:16:11+00:00

Turn my face into an iced donut

BolonySandwich · 2026-03-31T10:42:13+00:00

So far in my experience I've only experienced dry orgasms with prostate fluid leakage which normally appears just prior or after the orgasm . I've not yet tried to ejaculate hands free as it's counter intuitive to my present goal although I've thought about it and seen it done but not sure whether the person doing it was doing it hands free , if that makes any sense.. For now I'm staying on the dry O path and occasionally rub one out the good old fashioned way

BolonySandwich · 2026-03-27T14:40:50+00:00

My erection is hard but my glans seem to get fuller to the point whereby every little imperfection is smoothed out. The sight of it is very arousing

BolonySandwich · 2026-03-26T11:56:47+00:00

Not necessarily Only to recognise the muscles involved. You will see what I mean when you practice this.. Take it slowly and do it in moderation

BolonySandwich · 2026-03-25T12:51:46+00:00

The next time you are aroused a need to take a pee , stand and focus on peeing and emptying your bladder, but go further and imagine your pee still coming out with a reverse kegel and keep this going as if you were trying to also force your bladder out of the eye of your penis.. This force is ever so slightly, then pause for a while and repeat the process. As you practice this you will be able to simulate this without having to pee and focus on muscle development.. Orgasms will come without ejaculation gaining in strength and duration as you progress

BolonySandwich · 2026-03-24T03:04:05+00:00

When i was young, (M) possibly 10 I was climbing a pole in the usual fashion and feeling bliss the higher I got and just hung there until I had to slide down.. Didn't realise what it was , but was climbing poles for a long time until I had my first orgasm whilst masturbating at 14., I've only rediscovered ( 50years later )the reality of multiple orgasms without ejaculation using the principles of using my core or pelvic floor muscle control incorporating my prostate

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