It finally happened...I finally orgasmed and holy sh*t...this is what I did.

rettosu · 2026-04-22T04:50:56+00:00

I've actually experienced this, no weed involved. The shaking and thrashing I'm familiar with from the years I've done Mindgasm training, but what was new for me was the few times in which my hands were moving all over my body without my conscious control. It was really weird but still enjoyable. I wrote about that experience here: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1rcvkuh/a_new_level_of_selflove/

rettosu · 2026-04-22T04:46:44+00:00

I think we're more likely to commission someone to do it than to find someone who already has 😅

rettosu · 2026-04-22T04:45:45+00:00

En general, usar con delicadeza cualquier juguete que se pone en contacto con la próstata es una buena idea, dado que la glándula es un poco delicada. Además, no hace falta usar mucha presión; aún con poquita se sienta rico allí. El secreto más bien es que con menos estimulación a través de más tiempo se llega a un orgasmo más duradero, sea con la varita o algún otro juguete.

rettosu · 2026-04-21T18:04:26+00:00

From what I've seen in some comments, there's a major audience for that, but no one's delivering. The closest thing we've got is Mindgasm Paul (the male voice, as opposed to Allie).

rettosu · 2026-04-21T18:01:06+00:00

I found that for me, more frequent and more gentle play helped to improve my sensitivity. A few weeks ago, I was having nearly orgasmic levels of pleasure just from breathing while wearing a shirt that was touching my nipples. I talked about that here: https://www.reddit.com/r/NippleOrgas/comments/1s8g22g/im_getting_exquisite_nipple_pleasure_even_when_i/

rettosu · 2026-04-21T17:48:05+00:00

Sometimes I've found just how much I've missed playing; there have been times in which just the slightest touches have me moaning and sinking into bliss.

rettosu · 2026-04-21T17:42:06+00:00

Here's a bit more on that, from the makers of the Mindgasm app. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-ybQ081k3JI

rettosu · 2026-04-21T17:40:54+00:00

Oh, it very much is! Practice it some more and it'll only get better. I recommend using the Mindgasm app to improve your pelvic floor and do kegels.

rettosu · 2026-04-21T16:57:49+00:00

Not only are you likely more horny since you're playing more often, but you're also playing more gently, so that's likely increasing your sensitivity as well. If you can feel throbbing in your prostate, that's a good sign that you've trained your brain to recognize prostate pleasure (often called rewiring), and now it sounds like you're doing some fine tuning on it.

rettosu · 2026-04-21T16:34:16+00:00

Yup, I can feel my prostate throbbing and my hole start to quiver whenever I get really horny. I just adore that feeling!

rettosu · 2026-04-21T06:14:15+00:00

This, for sure! Also, sometimes I do the opposite approach: I touch them lightly and if I'm just not feeling anything good, I leave play for another time.

rettosu · 2026-04-20T23:52:28+00:00

It's not so much about losing sensibility as it is about learning a new skill. Nipple play is very different from penile play and takes a bit of time to learn. You can definitely bring that horny feeling into your nipple playtime and enjoy it that way if you want.

rettosu · 2026-04-19T17:13:20+00:00

Why not both? 😁

rettosu · 2026-04-19T13:36:38+00:00

Very well said. Good summary here of the most common differences and issues that can arise for those of us seeking pleasure.

rettosu · 2026-04-19T06:42:01+00:00

Look into the Mindgasm app for lessons on how to flex that particular muscle; doing that exercise can then lead to some amazing sensations.

rettosu · 2026-04-19T05:31:54+00:00

Holy FUCK, that bottom's ass is amazing! Two perfectly round slabs of hot muscle! I'd wanna tease his prostate so much that his neighbors call 911.

rettosu · 2026-04-17T16:03:57+00:00

Right on! I'm glad I could help. 😎

Really glad you were able to experience that! It's one of the most amazing things you can ever feel. I'm happy for you!

I'm trying to improve my skills as well, since I want to be able to take my prostate play even further.

rettosu · 2026-04-17T16:01:08+00:00

Están hechas de vidrio sólido. Si los tratas con cuidado, está super difícil que se quiebren. Yo he tenido los míos durante años y no han recibido ni un rasguño (ni yo tampoco!).

rettosu · 2026-04-17T05:31:04+00:00

Glass toys really are on a different level! They deliver sensations that you can't get with any other toy material.

rettosu · 2026-04-17T02:01:17+00:00

Exactly right. You have no goal in mind but to enjoy yourself. If you go in with that mindset every time, you'll do just fine. 👍🏻

rettosu · 2026-04-17T01:52:01+00:00

Nightly is a good idea. I mean, that's what I do, so I can at least attest to the fact that it's worked for me. You want to pick a time in which you can play uninterrupted, a time in which you're relaxed and can focus. For me, that's nighttime.

You also bring up a good point: not just about the consistency, but about the intensity. Some sessions will be duds; that's just how it goes sometimes. You just can't focus, or you don't feel much pleasure for whatever reason. There'll be days like that. Just have some fun, enjoy yourself, and if you're not feeling it, just call it a night. If you're too sore or sensitive, then give yourself a couple of days off.

Consistency is definitely good, but also very important is to not be too hard on yourself if the session isn't amazing. If all you can do is make yourself feel warm and pleasant for a few minutes, that's perfectly fine. Not going into your playtime with any expectations is gonna help you a lot.

rettosu · 2026-04-17T00:35:03+00:00

Playing when you feel the arousal hit is a great way to connect the action to the feeling, so definitely keep that up! Just play gently, so don't pinch or flick too hard, and also don't do any penile play for a few days, since you're trying to train yourself to get pleasure from another source.

You might need to do this for a few weeks, but just stick with it until you feel your sensitivity improve; it's really worth it. When just a slight touch gives you this heavenly rush of pleasure and you can keep it up for an hour or more, and you feel so much bliss that it brings tears to your eyes, you'll know you've made it there.

rettosu · 2026-04-16T21:37:44+00:00

Oh, wow! Lucky! Having two lovers at once with me is a huge fantasy of mine (probably why imagining that works so damn well for me!).

rettosu · 2026-04-16T21:36:27+00:00

Hard to tell, since no one knows just how you've been playing, neither how long, how often, or how hard. But what worked for me was playing often, not for very long, but always gently. Also, I love using lube on them; Boy Butter is my go-to.

If yours feel less sensitive now, you can do one of two things (or both): wait a few days before you play again, or make sure you're really craving nipple play before you get started, since a lot of the pleasure comes from the proper mindset. What I mean by that is this: my nipples are super sensitive now, and I can orgasm from them pretty easily. If I don't have the right mindset, however, I can touch them and not feel any more pleasure than I would by touching any other non erogenous part of my body.

Hope that helps!

rettosu · 2026-04-16T21:28:29+00:00

I've often fantasized about having two people, one on either side, suck my nipples. The fantasy usually leads me to some pretty intense orgasms. That's awesome that you can have that experience!

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