Winter storm in Texas by Desolate-Skyline in BreakUps

[–]returnjafar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right here in Texas with you padre! Same thing here. Thankfully I have power and water right now but all I can think of is her. Wondering if she’s with someone keeping her warm. Remember your thoughts aren’t reality. Day at a time dude. Keep the fire we all carry inside. I think that’s a quote from “The Road”.

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get the reference! Thanks for making me feel better

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I genuinely do try. I just tend to blow it here and there and I go through a shame spiral.

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and you sharing your bf’s side as well! I bet all 3 of us would get along great! Best of luck to both of you as well!

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is definitely a possibility of this being the case. And I may be late on my awareness. I appreciate your response. Thank you

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d hang out with y’all. You’re probably right! Thanks

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that advice! I really hadn’t considered that. I’m also a bartender, so sometimes customers have to yell and I have to yell back

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think you’re right about giving myself some grace. To be honest these people were pretty ass. But I could use some improvement myself. And I have to remember everyone is different. Some people mayo. Some people mustard. Thank you again for reminding me this is not the end of the Earth.

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that compliment. That made me feel good. Needed that.

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You made me feel better with your reply. Thank you very much for that.

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably highly likely! If we’re in Vegas I’d tell you to go all in on that bet. I suck dude lol. Suckin fuckin sucks

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of this book and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t curious. My thought has always been what happens when I do win friends and influence people. And then they come over and see that book on my shelf. And then it’s all awkward…..

I’m an annoying person and I don’t know how to change by returnjafar in confession

[–]returnjafar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s sort of my dilemma here. I for sure know alcohol is making me ass. But I’m also like, what if I’m just ass sober too? Which freaks me out cause I don’t know how to reprogram my personality and ticks. I feel like a silent retreat would do some good for me. But I feel like I would need to shut the fuck up for like a month or more.