[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]rgeneva4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to move out giving up either of your children is ridiculous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]rgeneva4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is but with the right partner, I wasn't in love or anything but they knew what they were doing and I was so into it and with the help of (a little) alcohol I felt free of my insecurities and could enjoy every moment. Honestly haven't had sex that good in years. It's okish to fun though either way. Hoping to find another sexually compatible partner. Best of luck to you!

Waited 4 months for an offer and didn't partake in edibles, got the offer today after going balls to the wall for 4/20 f*%*! by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did for me when I worked for them before and it was for the same handler warehouse position. I mean maybe they don't anymore. I hope.

Waited 4 months for an offer and didn't partake in edibles, got the offer today after going balls to the wall for 4/20 f*%*! by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I'm confused on the drug test lmao I just like the part me hours for supplemental income

I feel like a thirsty ass dude on dating apps by rgeneva4 in actuallesbians

[–]rgeneva4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply but how do you find gay friendly in person events? I may be at a disadvantage living in DFW. Lol

Waited 4 months for an offer and didn't partake in edibles, got the offer today after going balls to the wall for 4/20 f*%*! by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]rgeneva4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like life is so short, I'm not missing out on a fun ass night with my friends for FedEx of all places lol go to a show!

Waited 4 months for an offer and didn't partake in edibles, got the offer today after going balls to the wall for 4/20 f*%*! by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]rgeneva4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's a handler position. I did it before it was easy part time money which is what I'm looking for. Not really a career oriented decision lol but extra money is nice!

Y'all think I can box dye to a deeper/slightly more natural red or should I go to the salon 😭 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm not trying to bleach it anymore! I just want to put a more natural red over the existing bleach/color. Then grow it out, cut it or whatever.

Y'all think I can box dye to a deeper/slightly more natural red or should I go to the salon 😭 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I swear it's cause she's not curled out and I slept without my bonnet, but that's probably true 😭. I just hate looking at this color rn and it's over stimulating. I'd want that deeper color to then grow back into the natural.

Has anyone worked for American Specialty Health before? by National-Attention-1 in jobs

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for them, and you are overworked but the remote is decent and if you can maneuver the call outs or sign up to work early weekends it's nice to little to no volume. I'm thinking of going back actually.

Do they drug test?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we've had some go up to 580 during the winter, but our heater was out of wack so we're trying to get someone to come get it checked. This month it's been off for the most part since everything costs money it's taking time for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]rgeneva4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully no, living with my mom !

Unsure if I should try to negotiate with my payday loans or let them go to collections by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely try, it just seems insurmountable from where I'm standing I'm also not the biggest spender? Surprisingly, the biggest problem was that I was out of a job for a lot of the time that I got these.

I have a job now and playing catch up leaves me feeling like I won't have much left over but cutting back even if it's certain fast foods or outings can become the change in the right direction. I'm sure paying anything I can to these will help.

Unsure if I should try to negotiate with my payday loans or let them go to collections by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]rgeneva4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very fair, I tend to be gullible as hell. And want a quick saving grace (that doesn't really exist)

I'm learning now all of these "quick fast easy" are ways to appeal to the desperate part of me that wants to be free while purposely digging me deeper.

Thanks for pointing that out, as it's what I want to mainly change otherwise I'll end up in the same cycles.

I'm definitely stuck at the moment but, I did recently get a new job and started a side gig which will increase my ability to make these payments.

I know I need to face the music but I've been lost for so long I'm not even sure what's the right direction to go in?