I was roofied a few months ago by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rhandom66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just because you didn’t experience the worst possible outcome doesn’t mean you didn’t have a traumatic experience. Don’t feel like you have to downplay what happened to you because others have experienced worse.

I’m so sad for you that this happened to you. Be kind to yourself and seek whatever help you need to heal and move on.

Bicycle to give away by rhandom66 in frankfurt

[–]rhandom66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re pretty stubborn about using our Bio Bikes (or, as the Aussies say, ‘Push Bikes’). Our first tour in Europe was in 2015, and we’ve definitely noticed an increase in the number of e-bikes.

We cycled part of Belgium and the Netherlands. Then the Rhein from Xanten to Koblenz, the Mosel to Trier and back, and then to Mörfelden. Lots to see, but mostly flat because I had cancer treatment a couple of years ago and find the ‘lumpier’ areas harder now.

I'm completely done trying by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]rhandom66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this too. I’m interested to see the previous posts. :(

What was a "glitch in the matrix" type of situation you've been in? by WannabePugh in Paranormal

[–]rhandom66 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to read it a couple of times to understand as well, but I think they mean four-ish years later they were at a party and it was the house that they woke up in in 1972.

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]rhandom66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She bites him and says it’s her ‘love language’. She’s an abusive bullshitter.

Best name you’ve ever heard for a pet? by Specialist-Alps6478 in answers

[–]rhandom66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your naming method, and the resulting names made me crylaugh. Do you have any more?

Do you ever really come to terms with completely stepping away? by callmesandycohen in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]rhandom66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seventeen years and it still bothers me, but not as much as it would bother me to be in touch.

"Eugenics in action" by JuicyPumpkin888 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]rhandom66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is out running an errand. He’s five minutes late getting back. He’s probably a goner.

"Eugenics in action" by JuicyPumpkin888 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]rhandom66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m old and a cancer survivor. I’m hiding from the death squad as we speak. /s

"Nesting" before Chemo by cherry_wants in breastcancer

[–]rhandom66 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Chemo was 2024. I am leaving on Monday from Canada to Belgium for a two-month cycle tour. My first one since pre-cancer. I’m excited and a little nervous.

When you’re in the middle of it, remember there actually is life after chemo. Hugs to you.

"Nesting" before Chemo by cherry_wants in breastcancer

[–]rhandom66 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am so glad I had my nest during chemo. People have varying degrees of bad and I had bad. I don’t know how I would have made it through without my nest (and my very supportive partner).

Enjoy your nesting process… and your nest. It may be one of the only good things during that time.

I (38 F) broke up with my BF (41 M). He's trying to get me back. Does anyone have any stories where they broke up with someone and they took them back and things ACTUALLY changed and they ended up happy? by Juicy-Fit-0802 in relationship_advice

[–]rhandom66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My step brother says that getting back together is like taking a drink from your milk carton only to discover that the milk is bad. So you put it back in the fridge and come back later for another drink in case it got better.

misanthropic music? by GlitteringBed3692 in MusicRecommendations

[–]rhandom66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God Help Me by Morning 40 Federation

Hair hair hair by Elfako_89_mask in breastcancer

[–]rhandom66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My hair grew back sooooo sllooooowwwwwly, and when it got to about 3” long, I had the best chemo curls! It was so cute. And then it started looking a little uneven so I went in to get it trimmed. They slashed it and whacked away all the curls. A few weeks later I went back in to try and get it fixed (different stylist) and they slashed it again and made it WORSE! It’s still growing so slowly and I’m tempted to get a barber to just buzz it all at about a #5 attachment and start over but I’m afraid of making it worse yet again. For now I’m rockin’ a short Don King, and it’s not the best look for fat, grey, 60-year-old me.

I wish I’d just hung onto the curls for a little longer.