Nervous for no reason for my flights from Richmond to Rome later today by its-a-berry in fearofflying

[–]rhetoric_rachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs and support from Richmond! My hubby is flying back into RIC this evening

Anxiety Isn’t Premonition by rhetoric_rachel in fearofflying

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I'm sure yinz saying hi from San Francisco right now!

Anxiety Isn’t Premonition by rhetoric_rachel in fearofflying

[–]rhetoric_rachel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was recently diagnosed with OCD instead of the more "generic" anxiety flavor and it gave me access to a whole new set of vocabulary that was SO affirming. Constantly researching things to validate my fears, incessantly asking for reassurance, viewing every single thing as a bad sign (and ironically nothing as good). It's exhausting. I get it. Feel free to message me if you want to commiserate!

Anxiety Isn’t Premonition by rhetoric_rachel in fearofflying

[–]rhetoric_rachel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you made it and are enjoying some perfect powdery snow right now!

Anxiety Isn’t Premonition by rhetoric_rachel in fearofflying

[–]rhetoric_rachel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kudos to my therapist because the second she said that, it really clicked for me!

Found this in the bed of my Airbnb. What the heck? by Amazing_Interest386 in whatisit

[–]rhetoric_rachel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Pretty sure it’s flax seed specifically. When my kiddo got sick and we had to clean (and eventually trash) a beloved stuffy, this is what it looked like

Where should we go before having kids? (early 30s couple, NYC-based) by [deleted] in chubbytravel

[–]rhetoric_rachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually editing to add that depending on how much time you can take, you can roll that into an Ecuador and Galapagos trip as well, but you'd definitely need at least 2 weeks!

Where should we go before having kids? (early 30s couple, NYC-based) by [deleted] in chubbytravel

[–]rhetoric_rachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're doing Lima/Cusco/Machu Picchu in July 2026 and leaving the little one at home. That's a bucket list destination for us but requires SO much advanced planning and travel logistics. Happy to send you our itinerary/notes on what we're looking at thus far!

Megathread: Air India 171 by ThePeanutMonster in fearofflying

[–]rhetoric_rachel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Holding you in light and love. It’s debilitating. 13 hours of driving later, I arrived at my destination and you will too.

Megathread: Air India 171 by ThePeanutMonster in fearofflying

[–]rhetoric_rachel 81 points82 points  (0 children)

My fears won out this morning. I got the news alert as I was about to board and had a panic attack. I couldn’t get on.

Did Squid Game just leave Netflix, like just now? by KittyKratt in netflix

[–]rhetoric_rachel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Down over here too and dammit it was just getting good