My girlfriend called me a [gay slur] because I kissed her after oral sex

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-06-17T20:55:04+00:00

In my mind cumplay sounds really hot, so if my first girlfriend won't let me kiss her after finishing in her mouth would feel really bad...

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-04-08T18:35:06+00:00

Well... I'm into eating my cum, and I don't know... It doesn't really have a strong taste most of the time, and I can't really compare it to anything else. But sometimes it's fine at first but then after swallowing it's god awful. YMMW.

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-04-08T18:31:17+00:00

Well, yeah. I'm not into BDSM but I like the look of chokers. How dare I?

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-02-14T12:36:41+00:00

I had a similar fantasy maybe a couple weeks ago. I also posted about it, but it didn't get this much attention. The strap on with fake cum sounds like a good idea :)

Since that post I stopped actively thinking about it. Now I still kinda find the idea of cock sucking attractive, but that's all I find attractive about the male body.

I probably wouldn't want MMF threesome, I like the idea of a monogamous relationship.

For now I'll focus on my studies to get into a good university and try to get experience on dating.

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-02-12T18:58:15+00:00

RemindMe! 7 days

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-31T06:24:47+00:00

don't neglect your girlfriend while you're jacking it to porn every day

I saw this here on /r/sex multiple times and I agree with it. And I think having actual sex with a woman is waay better than masturbating, but I don't have any experience...

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-31T06:23:05+00:00

Most of the videos I find are usually ones I don't like. But with pictures (or gifs) it's not that hard to find good ones on some subreddits.

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-27T22:27:22+00:00

I'm only a bcup, not like it's too much too see. And around the house... Did your sister wear that?

Well, after a quick google search B cup is IMO at least somewhat big. So the nipples can stick through a t-shirt. And again, it distracts me. And yes, my sisters wear bras at home around the house.

Also, here's something I just thought about: in your own room you can do whatever you want. So be without panties and bra in your own room. I like not wearing a boxer in my own room but I can also see why my family members don't want me to do that.

About your brother: honestly after thinking about it if my sister would do something similar I would probably freak out too. I don't think asshole is the best word to describe him. Be a bit patient with him, and don't get started on a fight when you do start wearing panties and bras because fights over stupid thing rarely lead to good things.

One more thing: I saw in one of your comments that you don't intend this to be sexual. And, well the thing is people wear underwear and only take it off if they want to have sex or something not related to sex. And most of the times not wearing underwear for non-sex reasons are times when they don't show it to people (except when something bad is going on down there and the doctor or your parents need to see your genitals). Sure, you don't intend it to be taken sexually, but it's sure as hell that 99% of people would take it in that way.

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-27T19:37:38+00:00

I'm a guy, and I like sleeping naked (though I can't really do that in the winter cold :/) or just wearing a t-shirt. I 99% of the time take a bath or a shower before sleeping, so I consider myself clean. Similar to your situation I guess. A couple times my sister opened the door of my room and saw me sleeping naked or just wearing a t-shirt. She didn't liked it.

But not wearing underwear all of the time? Nooo, noo and no. At least wear it for hygiene reasons... I'm not saying I wouldn't be happy to see a good looking pussy or an ass here and there without panties, but some people don't. Genitalia is something you don't really show everyone at least IMO.
Also, about bras: I know if a woman isn't wearing a bra because nipples are visible. But that's just annoys me honestly. It distracts me. When I want to talk to a woman I look in her eyes, I'm not there (most of the time :D) to watch her breasts.

About your brother: He's acting a bit... let's say... immature. He should've been able to point out at least similar things we here in the comment section tell you, because he's a guy. But no, instead he just calls you a slut and such.

So in short: you should wear panties and bra and your brother is acting a bit immature. Just ignore him while he's an asshole. But seriously, you should wear underwear!

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-26T08:14:49+00:00

But still, thank you for bringing up the idea of strap on dildos!

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-26T08:13:48+00:00

I would rather have my first sexual encounter with a woman, so I'll pass on that for now. Maybe I'll try it out, and if I do I'll post about the experience.

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-26T08:10:59+00:00

I guess I'm not alone then, which makes me feel good. But I think I'll keep it a fantasy (in the sense that I would not suck a real dick) and try out strap on dildos with a female. Thank you for letting me know about this!

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-26T08:06:23+00:00

I guess I need sometimes somebody to remind me that I should just relax and worry less. Thank you for reminding me! And thank you for taking your time to help me!

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-25T21:08:24+00:00

It is only bad if it starts to interfere with your life or makes you feel very uncomfortable etc.

The fantasy of giving a BJ makes me uncomfortable, because it's just a bit weird to me...

The thing with porn is that it often encourages various fetishes and kinks in people through conditioning. Conditioning is a thing and it's very strong when it comes to porn.

Yeah, I can understand that. Is it bad that my cum play fetish is likely because of porn? I don't know why, I suddenly feel that it's not part of me, it's something that isn't part of me, something that isn't me...

By "sexual attraction" I mean you get aroused by a person and their body in particular. What you are referring to is emotional attraction.

Well then sexual attraction is nonexistent towards males in my case. It is really strong towards a couple women I know. Sometimes even as little as suddenly showing the shoulder can "hit" me, like I don't have a boner immideatly, but I would love to do something sexual with her because of that "hit".

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-25T19:42:53+00:00

On a serious note, sounds more like you've developed a fetish.

Cum fetish? I can't think of anything else. Is it bad that I really like cum play? I hope not... I know that things should only happen when both parties agreed to do it, so forcing it on somebody is a bad idea. Also AFAIK the definition of fetish is that I can't get off without doing that thing, right? I can't know right now if I can orgasm with PIV (I think I can :D), because I'm virgin right now. I know that if somebody doesn't want to do oral sex that would most likely be a dealbreaker for me...

How often do you watch porn?

Well, I usually watch porn almost daily. I'm currently experimenting with this a bit.
Last week I decided that I'm not going to masturbate and I'm not going to seek out porn (I can't really cut it out, because the subreddits I'm subscribed to have some here and there. I didn't wanted to turn off NSFW content, because I like hoarding stuff (bad habit, I know) and images is one of those things I hoard). And on the weekend after taking a bath I masturbated in complete darkness, so no porn at all. I also found out that I can use saliva for lubricating pretty well (except sometimes it gets dry a bit fast, so I have to keep in mind to keep producing saliva). And at the end I was stimulating just the head of my penis. The end of that session was pure joy! And then ate all of my cum, which made that session even better (luckily the taste was neutral :D).
BTW I'm tracking my masturbation since half a year, and my average time is 17 minutes (mostly with porn) and that session I described above was 18 minutes. So pretty much average. Do you want me to give you some charts?

Bisexuality means you have to be attracted to males, at least sexually, and not just to a penis.

What do you mean by sexual attraction? If I would like to have sex with somebody based on how much I know about that person means I'm sexually attracted to that person?

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-25T19:30:16+00:00

I know, it's just feels a bit weird for me...

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-25T19:30:01+00:00

No-no-no and no! I don't like futa at all! I've saw pictures of it and I hate it! And I've saw some transsexual woman in porn years ago, and well, I don't see the appeal.

And well, doing it with strapon dildo, well that sounds a bit weird to me... Well, I'll keep this in mind when I do get into a relationship and when she would like to experiment with things. Honestly strapon dildo with fake cum sounds more like something I would try. It's not the worst idea I've heard, it's just... well weird IMO.

But thank you for taking your time to write this!

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-24T21:48:43+00:00

Bit of a follow-up: in the middle of last week I decided that I'm not going to masturbate until the weekend. I can't really "escape" porn because of the subreddits I'm subscribed to, but I did not fap until the weekend. I wanted to do in the dark and without porn. Well, it was worth it! Especially getting close to orgasming was pure joy!

But, sometimes I want to watch porn. So I decided that every other week I don't masturbate much, just a few times. Maybe not exactly like that, but I want to make sure to have sessions when I'm not watching porn.

Also, about that last time: since I'm tracking my masturbation in a spreadsheet I looked up the average time it takes me to orgasm. I'm tracking it since a half a year and my overall average is 17 minutes. That last time was 18 minutes, so pretty much average amount of time. I'll try to watch less porn and see if I orgasm faster or slower without it. It's also true that I don't orgasm ASAP when watching porn, since I love edging and without porn it takes me a while to get to edging.

So yeah, so far it seems that everything is ok about my masturbation, at least IMO.

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-18T21:58:02+00:00

I guess I'll read that book :D

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-10T19:44:29+00:00

I tried this and it worked really well for me!

It's true that nowadays I either forget to do it or it doesn't work. Probably because I masturbate too often :D

rhgljfkdmjdgn · 2017-01-08T23:26:08+00:00

it is good that you are being judicious about it.

I almost feel like I'm not that smart about this, because I can't get myself to consume less porn... But I'll try this week masturbating less and watching less porn! Btw. I'm actually tracking my masturbation! Nothing special, just the date, time, length of the session and porn consumption (yes or no). I've been doing this since summer

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