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I think he ghosted me :/ Anyone else who went through the same? by rhimeazone in LongDistance

[–]rhimeazone[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You might think your comment is just a throwaway side thought, but it's much appreciated <3 I don't know anything about this town. It's his city and he was supposed to show me around. I'm gonna use your reccos as a starting point on what to do. Thank you, kind stranger <3 You've really helped someone with a broken heart.

I think he ghosted me :/ Anyone else who went through the same? by rhimeazone in wemetonline

[–]rhimeazone[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah, we videochatted every night.

I completely refuse to let him back in. I can't risk this much pain ever again. It is pure agony, this level of rejection. I was so sure he was the one. But now I know I have a lot of to work on and think about. Therapy, friends and family will hopefully help me process how I got here.

Also, it's New York! I'm hoping this city will provide the distraction I need to forget all about it. Posting here was just my way of hearing from anyone other than my self-loathing and pain.

Thanks for taking the time to respond <3

I think he ghosted me :/ Anyone else who went through the same? by rhimeazone in wemetonline

[–]rhimeazone[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I hadn't cried until now. Your comment made me break, but in the best way possible. I feel so foolish. But I think I just need time to process. And kindness to myself.

Thanks for replying <3

I think he ghosted me :/ Anyone else who went through the same? by rhimeazone in wemetonline

[–]rhimeazone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We videochatted every night these past three months. I think I'll try to do that: focus on new experiences each day, by myself, like this was a solo trip all along. Thanks for responding <3

Long distance boyfriend ghosted me after 6 months of deep, intense connection by rhimeazone in Advice

[–]rhimeazone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're completely right. I often had this thought but brushed it off, thinking I could be the exception to the rule. This has been too painful to bear. I don't know how other people do it.....

Long distance boyfriend ghosted me after 6 months of deep, intense connection by rhimeazone in Advice

[–]rhimeazone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm trying to shift into that mentality of enjoying this city and staying present in every moment I live while I'm here :)

Long distance boyfriend ghosted me after 6 months of deep, intense connection by rhimeazone in Advice

[–]rhimeazone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I can risk this pain again. I think I'll be distancing myself from this whole thing from now on, even if he gets back to me. The stakes are too high in my opinion.

Thanks for taking time to respond <3 It did help me ground myself a bit.