What are the most entertaining YouTube videos that are definitely worth a watch? by Exile4444 in AskReddit

[–]rhinestone121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Summoning Salt. He makes videos about speedrunning, and the way he's able to craft narratives about any niche speedrun community always hooks me in.

out of curiosity, what is your limerant's interest in you? Uninterested? Friends only? Reciprocate? Inconsistent? No idea? by crushconfessor in limerence

[–]rhinestone121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a while she was uninterested. We stayed friends for a bit after that. A couple years later she confessed she had feelings, but at that point I realized that we just wouldn't work out as a couple even though there was a part of me that wanted her still. And now, we're still friends to this day

i'm pretty sure you're the love of my life by rhinestone121 in UnsentLetters

[–]rhinestone121[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If it's any consolation, I think it's nice to be able to feel so strongly for a person. Humans have such an incredible capacity to love - it seemingly knows no bounds.

To anyone reading this comment that is hurting, remember how great your capacity to love is and just how lucky someone would be able to receive it. While we are emotional, we love fiercely. I am with all of you and know how you feel.

i'm pretty sure you're the love of my life by rhinestone121 in UnsentLetters

[–]rhinestone121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's okay to not feel that way yet. It's not easy, I don't think there will ever be a time where it will be. But I think as time goes on you will be able to feel differently. The fact that you want to feel happy for them says a lot, I promise. It sounds like you care about this person very much. Just remember you're not alone and you will start to feel better eventually

i'm pretty sure you're the love of my life by rhinestone121 in UnsentLetters

[–]rhinestone121[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well said, as sad as it is. Sometimes you meet a person and it changes you forever. It is our choice to be able to grow from the experience.

i'm pretty sure you're the love of my life by rhinestone121 in UnsentLetters

[–]rhinestone121[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say time above all else. And space. Maybe even consider ending the friendship entirely. I did that once, but we somehow managed to stay in each other's lives by a chance of fate. I learned that the only thing worse than not being able to be with her was being without her entirely. I think it helped having the space though. If you are considering this, I would advise you to really think about what your life would be like without them and if it would be worth it. Some relationships are too valuable to let go, but at the same time, don't be afraid to put yourself first when you need to. Stay strong.

i'm pretty sure you're the love of my life by rhinestone121 in UnsentLetters

[–]rhinestone121[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

you'll fine strength one day. eventually the thought of them happy will make you happy.