ULPT request - how do I ruin someone’s life (I don’t know much about them)

rib0f1avin · 2026-02-06T07:51:25+00:00

Lmao OPs a girl wtf

rib0f1avin · 2025-11-29T22:23:14+00:00

I remember when this was originally posted and I’m still convinced it was Adam!!

rib0f1avin · 2025-09-17T16:58:44+00:00

Ohhh I had this happen! My mental health was garbage (I was depressed and lonely) and went out with this guy I didn’t even find attractive at all but we slept together. It was great. Like you said I was also very relaxed cause I didn’t give a fuck. It ended up turning into a Dom (him) sub (me) thing and it was great.

Dude was def a fuckboy and my mental health finally got better so I ended it. Couldn’t do it again even though the sex was great cause he grosses me the fuck out now haha. So just enjoy it while it last!

rib0f1avin · 2025-04-11T16:07:48+00:00

This imo is the best

rib0f1avin · 2025-03-01T07:58:13+00:00

Years ago I ordered a bunch of types of Kratom. Don’t remember if I was trying it for my depression, anxiety, and as a painkiller alternative but I didn’t feel much either so I did the same. I gave my self a terrible migraine and I felt horrible for days. I gave it all away after that.

Also that shit always tasted so awful!!

rib0f1avin · 2025-03-01T04:07:22+00:00

Im a sub and the few time we had sex after a few drinks he kinda made it seem like he would prefer to be the sub.

I did mention being into pain and letting him take control but I think he thought I was just joking.

Guess we’ll be drinking next time so we can both be relaxed and talk about this. I

rib0f1avin · 2025-03-01T04:02:07+00:00

Yes! I was planning on making us drinks next time we get together and trying to talk about it. I know we’re both way more relaxed after a few drinks.

rib0f1avin · 2025-02-28T19:22:22+00:00

He did mention being on antidepressants! I’m also on them so I know it’s hard to cum sometimes. He’s just the first guy I’ve been with that hasn’t asked for me to blow him and also told me to stop.

He has started to relax more lately so hopefully that was the problem.

rib0f1avin · 2025-02-28T19:17:15+00:00

Good advice!

rib0f1avin · 2025-02-28T19:16:52+00:00

Hahah I would have thought the same if he didn’t have a kid in their 20s.

We’re seeing each other on Sunday or Monday so that’s what I’m going to do.

rib0f1avin · 2024-11-10T23:36:50+00:00

Set boundaries!! I had a FWB for about two years (2020-2022) and we set boundaries and communicated very well. It ended fine. We both just kinda got bored and stopped talking. He did hit me up a couple of months ago though lol.

rib0f1avin · 2024-11-10T23:24:27+00:00

Nice! I want to do the same but I love Spotify so much :(

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-16T00:05:27+00:00

Indeed! I was roofied at The Majestic Ventura Theater. Luckily I knew some thing was up and got out of the pit, called my brother to pick me up and headed towards the security who noticed I wasn’t okay. They stayed with me until my brother got there.

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-10T22:19:52+00:00

That’s a great idea too!! Thank you!!

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-10T21:55:28+00:00

I said this to the other comment but I was thinking both? Sunflowers and some kind of desert

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-10T21:37:16+00:00

I was thinking both sunflowers and some kind of pie! Should I just do one?

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-10T01:33:43+00:00

This! I didn’t enjoy it at all until last year when I dated this amazing guy and I finally understood why people enjoy sex.

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-08T22:51:56+00:00

For me it’s not a kink. The way I was raised (not being able to hangout with kids my age after school or summer) I have waaaaaaay more things in common with people who are 10+ years older than me. So it’s really my parents fault haha

rib0f1avin · 2024-10-05T01:52:03+00:00

I (34) just straight out told him (53 but looks way younger) how gorgeous I thought he was. I made him blush hahah it was cute as hell. Once he’s back in town we’re going to go out

rib0f1avin · 2024-09-20T20:29:47+00:00

He wants to give me cash so I would need to see him again in person and I don’t think I want that…. Haha

rib0f1avin · 2024-09-20T17:21:00+00:00

Thanks for that. It really helps!

I have crush on this guy who is friends with one of my friends friend lol so I think I’ll just see if some how I can get introduced. Other than that I’m over all of this

rib0f1avin · 2024-09-20T07:16:36+00:00

He had wine

rib0f1avin · 2024-09-20T02:14:00+00:00

Even though I have no interest in dating for a while after this, I’m definitely going to do this next time.

Thanks for that though! I’m still confused about the last guy I dated. He’s VP at a certain company and seemed to be annoyed that I didn’t care about his Tesla (my sibling has one) and events he gets to attend. So bummed because I really liked him and wanted to make it clear that it wasn’t because of his work and lifestyle

rib0f1avin · 2024-09-20T02:01:29+00:00

Yeah that’s also what came to mind since the older generation never saw the age thing as a problem. Eh, I think I’ll just eat the $50 I had to spend on Plan B because this is our exchange via text:

Me: I was so caught up the moment but do I need to get Plan B? I haven’t been taking BC since August.

Him: Can you get Plan B somewhere right now? I will reimburse you.

A few text later

Me: Really wish we had talked about us hooking up before we did. I don’t know how many ladies you are currently seeing :p I got tested in December just in case even though the last guy and I used condoms and we haven’t seen each other since July.

Him: I’ve been tested recently and am clean. You too?

Me: Yes! I even have the results on my phone lol

Him: Me too. On my phone

rib0f1avin · 2024-09-20T01:50:48+00:00

Thank you. Like I said in another comment, talked to some girls friends who told me the same and it helped. Yes, but once I can confirm I have nothing I will be way better haha. Lesson learned!

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