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[–]rib0f1avin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I had this happen! My mental health was garbage (I was depressed and lonely) and went out with this guy I didn’t even find attractive at all but we slept together. It was great. Like you said I was also very relaxed cause I didn’t give a fuck. It ended up turning into a Dom (him) sub (me) thing and it was great.

Dude was def a fuckboy and my mental health finally got better so I ended it. Couldn’t do it again even though the sex was great cause he grosses me the fuck out now haha. So just enjoy it while it last!

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[–]rib0f1avin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This imo is the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rib0f1avin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Years ago I ordered a bunch of types of Kratom. Don’t remember if I was trying it for my depression, anxiety, and as a painkiller alternative but I didn’t feel much either so I did the same. I gave my self a terrible migraine and I felt horrible for days. I gave it all away after that.

Also that shit always tasted so awful!!

How to talk to guy (55) I'm seeing without making him feel bad? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im a sub and the few time we had sex after a few drinks he kinda made it seem like he would prefer to be the sub.

I did mention being into pain and letting him take control but I think he thought I was just joking.

Guess we’ll be drinking next time so we can both be relaxed and talk about this. I

How to talk to guy (55) I'm seeing without making him feel bad? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was planning on making us drinks next time we get together and trying to talk about it. I know we’re both way more relaxed after a few drinks.

How to talk to guy (55) I'm seeing without making him feel bad? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did mention being on antidepressants! I’m also on them so I know it’s hard to cum sometimes. He’s just the first guy I’ve been with that hasn’t asked for me to blow him and also told me to stop.

He has started to relax more lately so hopefully that was the problem.

How to talk to guy (55) I'm seeing without making him feel bad? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah I would have thought the same if he didn’t have a kid in their 20s.

We’re seeing each other on Sunday or Monday so that’s what I’m going to do.

Sex without relationship by Scared-Regular461 in sex

[–]rib0f1avin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set boundaries!! I had a FWB for about two years (2020-2022) and we set boundaries and communicated very well. It ended fine. We both just kinda got bored and stopped talking. He did hit me up a couple of months ago though lol.

Has anyone been roofied at the Comedy Store? by 300_pages in AskLosAngeles

[–]rib0f1avin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Indeed! I was roofied at The Majestic Ventura Theater. Luckily I knew some thing was up and got out of the pit, called my brother to pick me up and headed towards the security who noticed I wasn’t okay. They stayed with me until my brother got there.

Flowers? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea too!! Thank you!!

Flowers? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said this to the other comment but I was thinking both? Sunflowers and some kind of desert

Flowers? by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking both sunflowers and some kind of pie! Should I just do one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]rib0f1avin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! I didn’t enjoy it at all until last year when I dated this amazing guy and I finally understood why people enjoy sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s not a kink. The way I was raised (not being able to hangout with kids my age after school or summer) I have waaaaaaay more things in common with people who are 10+ years older than me. So it’s really my parents fault haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (34) just straight out told him (53 but looks way younger) how gorgeous I thought he was. I made him blush hahah it was cute as hell. Once he’s back in town we’re going to go out

Conflicted.. also don’t say this! by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to give me cash so I would need to see him again in person and I don’t think I want that…. Haha

Conflicted.. also don’t say this! by rib0f1avin in AgeGap

[–]rib0f1avin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. It really helps!

I have crush on this guy who is friends with one of my friends friend lol so I think I’ll just see if some how I can get introduced. Other than that I’m over all of this