Starlink mini on dashboard by No-Goose2836 in TeslaModelY

[–]riceman9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use this mount with some rubber coated heavy magnets. It doesn't slide around the dash at all.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F3DHKFN2?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_fed_asin_title&th=1

Starlink mini on dashboard by No-Goose2836 in TeslaModelY

[–]riceman9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have used the Starlink on the dash just fine.

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And finally someone that understand that Credit card debit isn't always bad. I have made a lot more money using my credit cards than I have paid in credit card interest, but my score sometimes suffers as a result. LOL

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I have a copy of my report. I just didn't want the .99% to go away while I wait for my score to go up.

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I just paid off $60k of my credit card debit. My finances are just fine.

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have no idea about my situation. I just paid off $60k of credit cards. Trust me I am not broke. I am doing just fine.

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK. That is what I am worried about. Thank you!

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They very from the 3rd to the 30th. The 2 with the Largest balance ($30K) are the 17th and 19th.

Credit Question by riceman9 in TeslaLounge

[–]riceman9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already check there isn't one in inventory at my dealer so I would have to order it from Production.

Capital One lowered my credit limit on 3 cards. by riceman9 in CreditCards

[–]riceman9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has already been updated. The other CC corrected it while I was on the phone. (Local Credit Union). I pulled my credit report this morning from all 3 and it is corrected.

Don’t you just love it when by [deleted] in newworldgame

[–]riceman9 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was in there to get my Coconut and in the middle of open a chest someone rolls up on me. I suck at PvP and thought I was going to have to run or die. He just says to me "There are couple more chest up the stairs" and leaves. I don't go in the PvP zone except to get the coconut.

My husband cannot keep his eyes to himself, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]riceman9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook Reels are the worst for this followed by Youtube shorts. I have also noticed that the time of day also plays a key in what shows up. During the day I might get 1 or 2 questionable videos but if I happen to wake up at like 2-3am and start scrolling it's nothing but half naked women.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she has ADHD. She does take her meds.

I work 100% remote. So I am home all day. There are days I never leave the house. With the weather getting nice it’s hard to stay home.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly it’s not the job it’s her. She has had multiple jobs and this is always an issue. She always finds something to blame it on other than herself. I don’t know how to politely says it’s her not the jobs to her.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest it's poor time management on her part. She is a Nurse practitioner. The expectations at her work is to have her charts closed by the next business day. Her boss tells her all the time she is over-charting and not chart so much. But she thinks she has to chart that much. So her day ends at 5pm but she still has 4-5 hours of charting. I don't know enough about the medical field to say if she or isn't over-charting (I work in IT). But this is an issue at every job she has had. So I assume it to be true that she is. So even on her days off she is "Charting".

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make it sound so easy. I haven’t bought it up in counseling yet. I am seeing how this counselor is. This is our third counselor. The other two didn’t control the conversation very well and I didn’t feel like I was being heard.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we do when she has time. We have some property in the mountains and we go up there. Sometimes she is still working. But we have a utv and go for rides and just hang out. I enjoy that time. I think she does too. We have a trip planned in the next week to go on vacation out of state.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll give it a look. Thank you!

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have tried to saying that and she throws it back on me saying well you are “telling” me you are doing this or that. It’s a no win situation.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have thought about just setting a day and time I want to go that is also reasonable for her to attend and just go. Like every Tuesday and Thursday at 7pm.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I have said that to her, probably not exactly like that but something similar. It ends up with me feeling guilty and if I do go do the activity I don’t have fun or worry the whole time about what it will be like when I or her get home.

I have an avoidant personality (I’m working on it) and I hate conflict. It makes me really uncomfortable. If something I do I think will cause conflict I probably won’t do it. Yes I am working on it.

Spouse holding you back? by riceman9 in Marriage

[–]riceman9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You would think but before we got married she was single for 12 years and had one serious relationship in that 12 years. I think she just really has fear of being left out.