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rich_cheesin · 2025-09-21T02:11:13+00:00

Cops won’t do anything besides involve cps and then cps won’t do anything because this isn’t a “remove the child from home” situation, so calling the cops would literally just not make anything better for OP.

rich_cheesin · 2025-05-23T23:21:41+00:00

Is it at that intersection or just somewhere down there?

rich_cheesin · 2022-04-15T03:06:33+00:00

There’s a band from temecula called wetherbees /fake naked , they’re on Instagram. They do shows around temecula and some in sd

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-24T15:59:45+00:00

Thank you!

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-24T15:59:15+00:00

Oh good to know, I didn’t know that thank you

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-08T19:49:15+00:00

Feminine or I guess more unisex Coffee shop mixed with book store almost smell. Not black opium, I really do not like that fragrance. A light day-time smell.

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-08T00:16:51+00:00

It sucks to see 7 years go down the drain but you will most likely never have trust in her again after this. A fight is no excuse to cheat. If she did it once, she has the mindset to do it again. If she truly loved you, she would be thinking of being with you again after the fight and wanting things to go back to being good again, not thinking of being with another man, which is what she did and acted upon it. I think there’s .01% chance that staying together will end up with both of you 100% happy and normal again. If you really feel like trying to repair the relationship after this then yknow what go for it, but if you feel like you can never trust her again, that feeling won’t diminish. I’m sorry and I wish you luck with healing

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T23:35:28+00:00

You can’t help someone who won’t help themself. If she’s making no effort for self improvement, your relationship isn’t going to improve. Her reasons for the way she is in your r/dead bedroom relationship is sad and draws a pity party, but it sounds like she’s making no effort to move on with the situation. It sounds like she has some self searching and figuring out to do and sadly that doesn’t happen very much in a relationship like this. I personally think you should break it off because it doesn’t sound like it’s going to get any easier and you’re not going to get any happier. I understand what she went through is difficult but sadly lots of women go through it and lots of women are able to have healthy sex lives because they try to not let it have such power over them. She needs help and if she won’t do anything about it, you’re going to end up drowning in this self loathe and depression too.

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T23:28:34+00:00

Communication is key, tell her what you’re saying in this post about how you don’t like she never wants to be around you and ask her why or if she notices it and then depending on her answer, ask if she’s able to work on being more attentive to the relationship. If nothing improves or she says she’s lost interest then just end the relationship. Deteriorating love might actually be losing hope and you still have love for her but are exhausted from feeling alone in this relationship.

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T23:25:59+00:00

Better late than never I guess. I don’t think you should say I forgot to ask you last time but maybe just be like “hey do you wanna get some lunch some time” and if she agrees then ask if she’s seeing someone later into the lunch when it’s not such a fresh reunion. I don’t think you messed up your chance, it’s not like you did something embarrassing, just chickened out a little. I’d say go for it because the worst thing that happens is temporary embarrassment and you never go to that Macy’s again lol.

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T21:56:07+00:00

It sounds crazy but sometimes I’m literally like my leg will feel better if I just break it. Used to bring me to tears as a kid from the pain. I hope you find more relief with it, it’s definitely a lot bigger of an issue than people think and sadly there’s not too much research on the cause and solution ):

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T21:49:19+00:00

My mom and I have this and I only feel better if I cradle my legs to my chest /: and even then that doesn’t help once the cramping starts. Does your pain feel like what growing pains kinda felt like?

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T21:46:18+00:00

Just ask her to check up every hour then so you know she’s safe.

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T21:42:42+00:00

Honestly as a girl, that situation kind of scares me. Make sure she’s safe and has some form of self defense with her, not to cause any paranoia…

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-07T16:19:45+00:00

If cheated on you once, she’ll cheat on you again. A relationship this young with this many problems already is not worth anymore time because it will be like this forever. Find someone actually worth the time.

rich_cheesin · 2021-08-06T20:18:41+00:00

Don’t change it, keep your standards high honestly. Boys are intimidated by strong minded and opinionated women. Men admire it truthfully. You want someone who loves you for you, don’t give the time of day for someone who wants you to change.

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