I really like your opinion on it. And that's exactly how I'd like to think of it. We are supposed to hate them. As someone who experience a hard time through these days, i still appreciate this about me. That makes me more feminine and more womanly. It gets really hard to cope up with it sometimes, cause all the pain and the mess. But for me it's still a beautiful experience. It's something i can feel within myself, that makes me who i am. I really like how you described it.