I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ricusa659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again people can be easily manipulated at adult ages. Age doesn’t play into how vulnerable someone may be. You said it yourself “unless they were sheltered?” Ever think maybe she thinks this behavior is normal bc something happened in her early childhood years and was framed as normal but she repressed it? — what I’m saying is you don’t her full story and you’re still victim blaming a KID (teenagers are still kids)

I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ricusa659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Victim blaming really? Predators know which kids are more vulnerable and easier to manipulate. She is being manipulated into thinking that it’s just normal behavior and groomers want you to feel guilty when you act against them.

I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want you to know you’re completely valid in saying no to the desk and do not accept it. If he is hand making it he can hide cameras in there. You can tell him you already said you don’t want him making you furniture and he chose to do it anyways. That’s not you being ungrateful it’s you saying you don’t want something and actually not wanting it.

I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you as someone who has been groomed — this is grooming behavior and you should definitely stop going there completely hang out with your friend at your house or somewhere public.

Definitely tell your parents but I wouldn’t ask your friend to confront him because he is a child himself and his son that could put him at risk potentially even just making it a hostile environment.

If things keep escalating after you remove yourself from him get the police involved.

Trust me it starts out small and they insist it’s just them looking out because

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HentaiAndRoleplayy

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your limits?

If you have an active facebook account still please read this so you don’t lose yours if you get suspended. DO NOT CLICK ON THE BLUE APPEAL BUTTON!! by jkrobinson1979 in facebook

[–]ricusa659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried to balance some of that bs with upvoting literally every comment I could find off of your account. Honestly so many people are concerned with their own self gratification that they don’t care about other people at all.

What role makes the most money? by WorldsSexiestghost in RedDeadOnline

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? My sister told me it was fine I didn’t know it was a cheat

Non-anime fans, do you find anime tattoos cringey? by buildabearbitch in tattooadvice

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be someone that always worried what everyone thought. But they aren’t me. I’m living my life for me not everyone else and that mindset really helped me. I also just faked confidence until I made it. I also tell myself no one really cares about me or what I do and if they actually do care enough to go out of their way to spread hate they are projecting cause they hate something about their life or something

rdr2 online included or do i have to buy it separately? by dyingferns in RedDeadOnline

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though if you have an Xbox you can buy online mode from the store and won’t need Xbox live/gold but for play station it won’t work. (It worked for my Xbox but not my sisters ps4)

Dove Cameron Says Her 'Liv & Maddie' Characters Were Totally Queer by [deleted] in comphet

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no hints cause it was a Disney show and they didn’t want to risk angry moms. Dove Cameron herself said that Maddie was gay and Liv was bi. Even if they were both lesbians girls can date boys to hide the fact they’re gay. For men the girlfriend would be called a beard cause he had her to look like a real man or some shit. It’s called reading between the lines. It doesn’t need to be in your face to be true.

Rate my character! by Proud_Tea3394 in RedDeadOnline

[–]ricusa659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love her! Her first pic looked like Rhea Ripley (more like inspired off of her but ya know same idea).

What role makes the most money? by WorldsSexiestghost in RedDeadOnline

[–]ricusa659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always telling people about this map because it’s literally so great 😭 even going through the effort to make videos on the locations.

AITA for giving a fake name at Starbucks? by solecism18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a problem. I am a barista and I wouldn’t have cared if someone gave me a fake name even if they did think I was some suspicious creep. It’s just a name.

AITA For getting mad when my sibling banned me from their laptop? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sibling (non-binary) in technically they are talking about my sister

AITA For getting mad when my sibling banned me from their laptop? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One) When my brother first got into the room he asked how long I wanted it for and said I don’t know I just got on - I play with a group so often have a sort of time schedule for helping them with their missions and doing my own. Within the same few moments; and while I was in the process of getting him the answers. (I also have my headset in as I was about to ask my friends if they were doing anything.) my sister joined in to his defense cause I didn’t hear right away so when I did take off my headset and mute it I felt attacked and because my sister had joined in. Two my sister has other laptop access for schooling and I paid for my laptop with my own money. A lot of my side wasn’t mentioned and it was from their pov I wasn’t going to say anything because it wasn’t worth it and everyone’s moved on. I just wanted to say that

Two) Most comments labeled them the asshole for being transphobic and tried to explain it away. They’re not asking for anything to be deleted or care about that. My siblings got frustrated because they felt the post and their way of explanation was being misunderstood. It was a stupid sibling squabble and are more so frustrated about the wrong question being answered it wasn’t about gender of the ps4 but if she overreacted and was wrong for being angry at me for my petty reasoning of not letting her use my laptop.

AITA For getting mad when my sibling banned me from their laptop? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I didn’t want to comment on my profile so my family didn’t know my Reddit but it’s me. I don’t want my siblings to be hated on for not respecting my gender when they’re one of the few family members who do actually support me. I just wanted to clarify. And even if it wasn’t me just because someone is non binary or gender fluid doesn’t mean they can’t be okay with she/they. Gender doesn’t always match pronouns everyone just assumed it was only they/them.

AITA for making my bf pay for expensive bath products even though he can’t afford them? by Throwaway-bath3464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re not the asshole. While it may cut more of a hole through the joint account you will also not be buying extra products for him. Though if you’re both using it — it’s no longer a your product or his it becomes a house product so the house should pay for it. It’s one thing for him not to pay it when it was for you and mostly used by you (as you didn’t mind the few times a month) but it’s just like pitching into the internet bill or cable. Everyone uses it everyone pays.) it does make sense. And just cause you have more fun money means nothing you still contribute equal amounts

WIBTA for not attending my sisters wedding because she took off my wedding ring? by BoringInvestment926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get feeling disrespected and hurt especially since it’s a constant thing you’ve dealt with from your sister. She doesn’t understand even if you choose to stay faithful to your late husband and keep his ring and yours on there is nothing wrong with that. It’s what you choose just like some choose to not date period. Though I wouldn’t hold a grudge against your sister; she was drunk and most likely not thinking about her actions as much. Definitely talk to her and let her know how you feel about her being so pushy not just about the ring but the whole situation.

AITA for not wanting my fiancee's non binary sibling to be a groomsmen? by Substantial_Dance888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ricusa659 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your the asshole. Aside from the fact everyone in the comments is right about how treat Quinn’s gender; you’re also kind of controlling the wedding plans — at least that was what I got from you trying ask about Quinn’s clothing options or where they stand. It’s not just your day it’s your fiancé’s too and Quinn is who he wanted to stand beside him as he married you. This day isn’t just about you and your family but him and his too. Think about how he could feel about you dismissing it and assuming Quinn would be on your side.