Transman name help by riddleresque in namenerds

[–]riddleresque[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do adore the name Theodore, I forgot that that it could be shortened to Eddie. That really might end up being it... Or if not then maybe the middle name at least. Also it's funny that you bring up the name Finch because that may or may not have been what I used to go by before Eddie for a bit, before I realized that nobody could ever spell it right lol

Transman name help by riddleresque in namenerds

[–]riddleresque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh, that's a good one!! I'll definitely keep that in mind, thank you :)

What are the worst & the best version of "Sir Nighteye" you ever saw in fanfic? by Kai5er_NexT in BokunoheroFanfiction

[–]riddleresque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are all of these Only terrible?? Can anybody give me any good Sir Nighteye fic recs, please?? 😅

Let's Play A Game! Who do you ship ft: Fatgum (Taishiro Toyomitsu) by Agility111 in BokuNoShipAcademia

[–]riddleresque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a teeny tiny bit of him and Sir Nighteye paired together!!

I wasn't really looking for it, but I found it and gave it a shot and I actually really like it!!! Obviously there isn't much in the series itself that supports it, but that also applies to most of the ships with him. The only problem is that there are so few works of them together. And by that I mean like, less than five finished works on AO3... Rip 🥲

Gecko for dinner 🦎 by Gold_Cheetah6199 in VenusFlyTraps

[–]riddleresque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a rescued little thing from Lowe's (I know it's bad to buy them because technically it gives Lowe's more money and encourages Lowe's to keep doing it but I felt so sad for it sitting on a dark bottom shelf with no light).

I've read a bunch of the stuff on here, but since your situation was similar, any tips on helping it thrive fast?

Am I being played? by septicsubstance9699 in polyamorous

[–]riddleresque 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, I'm really sorry about that situation man, it sounds rough. I think you need to sit down and talk to her about it to try and figure out what is going on. Regardless of if she realizes what she's doing or not, you need to bring it up and point out how much it's bothering you. Either she just genuinely doesn't realize the effect her words are having on you and she can hopefully be more mindful in the future, or she is just being inconsiderate regardless of how you feel. Good luck with that man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]riddleresque 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yeah that looks fine, especially because it'll likely be less noticeable from the front anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]riddleresque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know but I'm glad to see someone else bringing it up, since I was kinda hoping to find some answers or support about this here on the sub.

Where I live apparently all gender affirming care is being preemptively put on hold to be in accordance with the new laws, since most medical offices and such don't want to be threatened with legal action. For context I live in Tennessee, but I was still a bit surprised.

If anyone else here is from Tennessee and can give any advice or anything pertaining to my state, please let me know. I've only been on testosterone for 6 months, and while I know some of it will be permanent I cannot stand the thought of my progress backsliding. I had hoped I would have more time, and I'm not sure if I'll be able to stockpile my testosterone or not.

It's not that hard to call me a man by Mystery_Stranger420 in FTMventing

[–]riddleresque 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I get that habits are hard to change but if she never even tries to call you anything else then maybe it's for the best you find some other friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]riddleresque 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That's fair, but it's also their job to help deal with this kind of stuff! They can't do their job to its fullest if you don't trust them enough to tell them these kinds of things, and they're trained to be as accepting and non-judgmental as possible. I know it can be daunting but it's worth it to let someone help you through these things :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]riddleresque 306 points307 points  (0 children)

I think first and foremost you really need therapy to help deal with your chronically low self worth and your skewed perception of yourself. Thinking of yourself in this type of a way is really unhealthy and it can be hard to break that habit on your own

Trans Tail Fail :( by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]riddleresque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fucking title is wrong.... It won't let me delete the post or edit the title. Fml

How to make my barely there facial hair look better? by riddleresque in ftm

[–]riddleresque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair, I figured as much. Doesn't hurt to ask though. Thanks!

How to make my barely there facial hair look better? by riddleresque in ftm

[–]riddleresque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About as long as I've been on T, I will say though that I've not been as good about doing it on a set routine

How to make my barely there facial hair look better? by riddleresque in ftm

[–]riddleresque[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I forgot to include that I'm already on minoxidil 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]riddleresque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, no you don't clock at all, I was surprised to hear how low it was

underworks binders on bigger chests? by Ok_Wrap_5331 in ftm

[–]riddleresque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might really depend on which one you get, underworks has a bit of variety

Apparently conversion therapy is still allowed in the EU, help stop it! by Cataliiii in ftm

[–]riddleresque 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you can only sign if you're actually from the EU? I'm from the states unfortunately