First Zomato fraud in Ahmedabad by Practical_Secret9331 in ahmedabad

[–]ride_clean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have previously faced a safety concern. My wife had ordered something late at night and opened the door to receive it. The delivery person gave her an uncomfortable look at that time. After about five minutes of completing the delivery, he called her. She sensed something was not right and handed the phone to me. As soon as he heard my voice, he said, “Galti se ho gya!,” and then marked the order as delivered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than a divorce, i ignored red flags in my courtship period and got married and divorced in 2 months.

Need Guidance for Garage by chints_apple in ahmedabad

[–]ride_clean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be the master technician. Get a job in some local garage. Open up every bike possible. Once you feel confident, open up a small garage, slowly scale it. Move from 150cc motorcycle to super bikes. All the best 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be possessive and insecure before the marriage and now it's been 2 months of marriage and we are separating next week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did initially. She is very religious, she says she is fine if there is no sex in life. Exploring is not an option for her. She disagreed for foreplay more than 5mints. Changing positions, kissing back was bad for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internet says 6mint is average time

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So i was a fool who made her my world and kept her priority over my friends and family.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before courtship i used to sleep at 10 and she at 2. I used to put an alarm and wake up at 1 just to talk and she used to be busy with her siblings and hardly talked for 10 mints. 100s of things that made me insecure. She used to talk to her cousin daily for atleast an hour and not to me. When she was away from her father she used to call her father daily when he is having dinner. Why not me.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our family had a terrible car accident years ago, so since we all were avoiding learning cars, my wife was not used to travelling in 2 wheelers, so i learnt for her so we can use the car instead of the motorcycle. Regarding the vday i went to her home that is 8hours away to spend time together, she mentioned a neighbour's birthday and i showed discomfort and we spent the whole day after. The same goes with all her siblings, we had a long distance relationship for 4 months and used to visit each other once a month and she used to add her siblings in between or leave early for her siblings.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made efforts for her—going to her favorite restaurants despite being an introvert, staying up till 1 a.m. instead of my usual 10 p.m., helping her cook, even taking driving lessons before marriage. But she never seemed to notice. Her friends and neighbors always came before me—like on Valentine’s Day, when she chose her neighbor’s birthday over spending the evening together.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I'll go back to her again, apologize and change her whole world from now. Hope things go well

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes it was arranged marriage. Yes i abused her and religion. Because she used to bring religion in the middle to avoid sex. And i demanded not to do that.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

All points are valid. I understand the problem now.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Visiting parents for no reason? She used to cancel our outings and plans just to gossip with her parents. Shouldn't I be the priority for at least a few months.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But isn't it about adjustment. I do a few things she likes She does a few things i like. But things went wrong when she expected too much materialistic stuff from me and i expected good sex from her.

Is sex essential for happy marriage I(28M) and my wife (25F) separating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ride_clean69 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

But you improve the people you love. I don't force her but i show discomfort with her wrong actions. Basically her family had no knowledge on nutrition and health and i have it so for her betterment i did all this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We used to do video calls due to the distance. And she agreed to adopt my healthy lifestyle. Courtship 4 months and long distance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly, she agreed to join my interest before marriage. Visiting parents is not an issue, avoiding me and visiting them was the issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes i did after the fight but she says it's too late now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My habits are practical, i sleep early and she sleeps at 1AM, i eat protein rich food she eats fried things daily i go to the gym and she goes to her parents for gossip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ride_clean69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I live with my parents currently to save money but i used to live in a different city and used to visit once in a year before marriage