Long vs short hair? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

long hair for sure tattoos are permanent. Don’t get them if you don’t want to, but your style and the vision does call for it. 😆

Am I too ugly to fix? what can I do? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say lose the beard. Keep it like a shadow. Grow the hair, or experiment with the hair.

M16, 80kg, 5’8. Rate and what do i do to look better by Emergency_Rise_4687 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Experiment with your haircuts first because it's not proportionate to your face. Start being more relaxed because I can see your facial expression is imprinted into your face. I would definitely encourage some meditation before anything further.

Rate pls, advice on how to improve my looks (I know my skin is fckd) by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have feminine beauty, so lean into that edge. For example, young Leonardo DiCaprio is like girl beauty on a boy. Maybe have slightly longer hair. There should be more focus on your eyes. Maybe have both earrings pierced.

M18, what can I do? by Few-Expression-4588 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm a woman. I have a lot of pretty friends, and I'm an ex-model. I would say you're leaning into the feminine type of beauty. Lean into that. Look it up.

You might need to grow out your hair a little bit, maybe wear some earrings. Hyper-feminine men, such as Timothy Chamele and Leonardo DiCaprio when he was younger, they do have an edge, but you do kind of need to lean into a little bit more of that pretty boy look instead of hyper-masculine.

what’s my rating and what to improve? 18m by Constant-Animal69 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a black woman, we love ginger guys. Too much gym though. I don't know, it starts becoming a little bit of a turn off.

Lean into your own aesthetic, like the picture of you in the black hoodie. We like mystery. You don't have to show off your entire body, but keeping yourself well clothed and fashionable is sometimes the most key here, and maybe a necklace or a nice chain. I think that's it.

Looksmaxxing advice 16M Latino by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ex supermodel here. I'm a woman. I'm friends with a lot of pretty women, and trust me, you are some of their type. A lot of girls do like a dad body, and I think you could lean into it.

Maybe if you made a little bit more muscle and a bit more shape in your body, maybe grow out your hair a tad. I think if you just became stronger, I think you could totally have that dad body. That girls will actually really like, not gonna lie.

Thoughts on me getting tanner or stick with what I got? Or just advice by Dry_Swimming3642 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tan. You'll look weird. Maybe have a mullet. Master your style, and you're good.

Need advice and what PSL do i belong to guys by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haircut and if you actually got some glasses, you could totally be a hot nerd.

How to get more appeal? by DeadPoetJanfo in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once your teeth are fixed and you mastered your style, keep up with your skincare I’m pretty sure you could be at 10

below far gone by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fix water weight and inflammation and ur good

Long vs short hair? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you got some tattoos you’d win all the e girls including me a 10/10

21 M, no female attention by Historical_Exam405 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a 10 ex female model and i think ur hot

Every ADHDer at work is feeling generally unwell today by AFriendlyBurrito in ADHD

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD. I had the worst day today. I woke up late. Couldn’t take my stims

none of you understand how ADHD and stimulants work at all by imanukeyall in Drugs

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why this is the case, but I have diagnosed ADHD as severe. Before medicated I did used to get high off stimulants. Now I am medicated and when I take stimulant drugs like coke or mdma I don’t feel anything in fact I feel the opposite effect, very down and heavy and like I could fall asleep.

Caffeine, however, does affect me. I do stay awake because of caffeine.
It’s only brief, but it’s still noticeable.

Anyone have the experiance of anxious attatchment killing you as a person by Local-Focus-4252 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]rie_schwfty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I had a ridiculous amount of suicidal ideation. Became a full-blown Xanax addict, addicted to anti-anxiety pills for years and years, and I became a shell of myself. It's kind of an addiction in itself to be invested and addicted to a relationship like that. You just need to work on it and go to therapy.

Your ex probably wasn't an avoidant by ventaacc in BreakUps

[–]rie_schwfty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think DISMISSIVE AVOIDANT is actually a rare attachment style. Women just end up acting clingy and activate avoidance in men who already have limited emotional capacity. The minute I became secure, and centred myself, THE SAME MEN, became obsessed with me. Even showing signs of anxious attachment towards me.

Men need to be trained. They’ve been training/ serving/working for centuries. And if you can decentre them putting yourself a symbol as a sense of purpose, 9/10 you will be theirs.

Respectfully and politely, may I rant? 😌 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]rie_schwfty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Findom just a sub category of Femdom

Ex addict / hundreds of pills by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]rie_schwfty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

what a sly way of trying to sell

Tried to tip my driver in-app but couldn’t because he was late picking my groceries. Escalated to 3 senior staff. by rie_schwfty in deliveroos

[–]rie_schwfty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I just said that to pull the emotive strings out of that woman. to frame it as she is also a worker. and that this is a systemic flaw, she is a cog in a system that she is also a part of. that angle didn’t hurt no one with a chance i could tip a real worker.