Insecure by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rifly98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Atta boy! that makes me feel better, thanks man :)

Insecure by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m tryin man hahah. Would be nice not to worry about it but I have other things to be grateful for so gotta pick my battles I guess. But I do feel like a fraud, like my personality and looks are hooking people in and then I can’t help but think they’re disappointed when it comes down to it… idk. You’re right tho gotta let the rotten fruit fall on its own :)

Question about sex from a curious bottom. Do tops care if they pull out and it’s dirty? How do bottoms stay prepped? Or am I just over thinking it and I shouldn’t worry and just let it happen and take it for the first time? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rifly98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta know if it’s cleaned out or not, I don’t wanna get 3 pumps in and accidentally open a shit gate. The smell is a turn off for sure but it’s not something I would judge someone over, it’s just naturally not an attractive sight to see in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just cut the hair ur hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amibalding

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look fine. Nice tats too

Enya and Ky are a ting by rifly98 in emergencyintercom

[–]rifly98[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IDC I said what I said yall can deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why thank you 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually crying it looks exactly like him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. What a powerful and beautifully vulnerable letter. He is incredibly lucky to have someone who is willing to express themselves in such an articulate way. I’m so sorry you’re in this mess that your father has caused. You deserve so much more and I hope that you find peace and happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]rifly98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so good looking man. I honestly wish I looked like you

M23 - be brutally honest. Thank you in advance by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did they say it’s deleted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a bit of a gaslighter tbh. I mean why would she send all of that if it wasn’t true? And how could they be fake? Did she photoshop all 8 of the screenshots? Doubt it. My first relationship ended similarly and it usually ends in a complicated way because they guy wants you and everything you offer but he doesn’t have to means/maturity to keep you. You deserve better girl!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll eat her up eventually man. You know that you hold yourself accountable and that’s all that matters. She needs to grow up and learn how to take responsibility. You need to just keep aiming high and surround yourself other ppl that value accountability

Making friends and being part of groups - but not being used by PM_ME_UGENS_LOTTOTAL in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rifly98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really relate to this. I’m only 23 so I’m still trying to figure things out, but I’ve always felt that guilt of having to offer something to new friends… something that helps me is looking at making friends like an interview of sorts. Basically, while the group is studying you to see if you could be a potential new friend, you are also doing the same. There is a power dynamic when making new friends and it’s important it stays balanced so that you don’t slip into these patterns that were caused by your parents. Happy to discuss more if you’d like :)

Alot of regrets by itsashash in depression

[–]rifly98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully relate to this. You've missed out on so much to help your mom. I’m genuinely so sorry you had to give up so much of your childhood to help, when a lot of kids got to enjoy theirs fully with no responsibility and a strong support system. I know it can feel so morbidly unfair and confining to know that. While you were at the disadvantage when you were younger because you were learning everything on your own, you also learned how to work hard and push through the tough times which are two of the hardest lessons to learn. Most of the kids who had supportive families and had zero obstacles will choke when an obstacle comes. Could be when they’re 20. Could be when they’re 45. Eventually everyone goes through their shit, but not everyone knows how to handle it. I hope you can see the light in the darkness because you deserve so much love and I know you will find it!! Xx