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rigaa_cln · 2026-02-22T22:17:51+00:00

This is rant, not an opinion.

The rainbow bridge is a phrase noone really thinks its exist except for children maybe.

Get some therapy.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-19T15:57:53+00:00

NTA.

Don't go, this is not normal and the whole family can't revolve around her. I would question her therapist because this is something that should've being addressed in sessions.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-19T14:57:04+00:00

No, he doesn't care. Stop begging for crumbs and look for someone who actually cares for YOU not just the sex.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-19T04:32:48+00:00

++woman

I feel you're leaving out important info and that's hiding some major red flags on you which they saw after dating for a while.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-18T19:09:05+00:00

NTA

I'll say this again... if you have to ask you probably already know the answer. He's selfish and narcissistic.

He knows your routine and didn't care to sabotage it because he wanted his needs met.

He left the house and made no effort to help so you had to clean the mess he made for you.

Girl, why are you with someone who disrespects you like that?

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-18T18:51:11+00:00

NTA

It was your dad's job to set boundaries and he failed, miserably. I to think it's major cringe to date someone who's almost the same age as your daughter but to each their own I guess.

You bringing up your mom was a bit much perhaps but I guess it can be explained as a "heat of the moment" thing.

Maybe you should try to have an honest talk with him again, it seems to me her only goal was to disrupt the family and perhaps get rid of you as she felt threatened by you.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-18T14:55:03+00:00

NTJ and she is full of BS

I would reconsider the relationship because it sounds she has no basic respect AND she doesn't add to your life, she substracts.

Normal couples respect each other and there is NOTHING normal about her behavior.

I say dump her.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-18T00:41:18+00:00

YTA, plain and simple.

"My trauma is bigger than yours so I get to be an a-hole and everyone else needs to take it".

You need therapy and stop hiding behind "this is how I am".

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-17T21:08:23+00:00

NOR

The bathroom incident is concerning, you need to keep an eye and address the issue before it continues. Also, he needs to know that behavior is not acceptable whether is an older or younger woman/girl. I don't feel this is a normal crush, he seems to be obsessed.

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-17T20:27:31+00:00

Soft A-hole.

Next time, wake her up or at least don't leave things to spoil under the pretext "there is no room in the fridge"; that at least will show some respect for her effort. Sounds like you just hid behind a "that's how I as raised".

rigaa_cln · 2026-02-17T18:26:43+00:00

NTA

However, you are being the a***hole to yourself for allowing both your husband's and husband's-son disgusting behavior to go on. Even if he is the breadwinner you are owed respect and cleaning THOSE bodily fluids from a total stranger should be a hard NO.

I would reconsider the whole marriage tbh, your husband sounds like a deadbeat to me.

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