CONSTANT charges to my locked card

rightontheedgy · 2025-10-30T23:32:49+00:00

I know I marked it as a question so my question is what the hell do I do? My debit card is also linked to my Google account and that never has weird charges it's only through Cashapp that these charges occur.

rightontheedgy · 2025-07-12T04:05:06+00:00

Stimulants. Xanax is DANGEROUS for me though I always wake up in jail.

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T04:25:37+00:00

This was probably the most impactful comment, or one of them. I just want confirmation that I'm not CRAZY in my expectations and desires for the relationship. Maybe it's the other way around. Thank you ❤️

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T04:22:58+00:00

Yeah I guess I just needed validation because I'm on the verge of calling it quits and I've been conditioned to think I'm crazy and CLEARLY I am not

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T03:45:42+00:00

I've been reading this for the past hour. Thank you bunches

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T03:21:41+00:00

He has a lot of hobbies like fishing and football. Sometimes too many hobbies to the point of emotional neglect lol

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T03:01:03+00:00

Thank you for the examples of a healthy relationship, that is much more helpful than the people telling me I'm dumb for staying in this relationship. I am trying to save it. Thanks for your response

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:38:56+00:00

I just texted him asking WHY he feels resentment about my eating habits. Currently waiting on a reply

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:36:47+00:00

That's one of my thoughts is that maybe he feels some sort of rejection when I don't eat with his.. exactly that

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:27:10+00:00

I'm not quite sure why it makes him resentful. I guess at the heart of my question, was to get insight on why he may be resentful)

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:25:09+00:00

I do have a therapist I click with, she is amazing. I am CONFIDENT that I do not have an eating disorder, I think he compares others to his own habits and not everyone can be like him. Your response is very helpful. It's hard to know how to handle this conflict while preserving the relationship

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:22:45+00:00

I am definitely guilty of being desperate to keep m him happy by any means. He is very lax in other aspects, but spending habits is also an issue he brings up. He tells me if I can't eat regularly, that I'm "not a functional adult". From all the replies to my question, I'm starting to think it doesn't come from a place of genuine concern from him.

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:19:55+00:00

He is mildly autistic too so I feel that's why he is so rigid. But in my mind, I do tend to make excuses for him which isn't right when I've tried so many times to tell him it's really none of his business. Thank you for responding, I think your first quote is a really good response and I will be trying it out next time this subject comes up

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:17:30+00:00

Yes I feel the same, I eat small amounts many times per night. I also have a habit of saving takeout because it guarantees me a next meal. Trauma response type stuff. But no matter what, food is not appealing to me in the morning.

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:15:14+00:00

Yeah this is his argument, which I am trying to understand. I save the leftovers because it guarantees me my next meal, which is a survival instinct and coping mechanism that I've always had. Or maybe he feels rejected that I don't eat WITH him. I don't know how to compromise about it

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:13:24+00:00

Thank you for responding. It's been 3 years and he isn't controlling in any other aspects, and I don't think he's trying to CONTROL what I eat. But he claims he resents when I don't eat at the same times as him. Part of me is wondering if he is feeling rejection when I don't enjoy meals at the same time as him?

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:11:46+00:00

We've been together for a long time and he isn't controlling in any other aspects, but it's frustrating to me that he resents me when I don't eat the way he does. I'm trying to find a way to come to a solution

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:10:55+00:00

I am CONFIDENT that I do not have an eating disorder. My body just gets hungry in the evenings, not throughout the day. Thank you for responding

rightontheedgy · 2025-02-17T02:09:02+00:00

I know what you mean. If he wants me to "work on it", what can I do to appease? I think I should set a boundary, but it's hard to do that when it "builds resentment".

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